Hi all, I have a FWB (not on here), to whom I am a bit of a cuckold to, she does what she wants and I enjoy it.
We always practice safe sex as each of us are not 'exclusive'.
However she has a fantasy which she really wants to happen. This is me using another mans used condom to fuck her after She has been fucked. It is a strange fantasy and i would want to see a clean STD test.
she just wants to bring a used condom round, get it on me and ride me.
Maybe a kink too far.
Anyone done this and opinions.
I am straight but have kissed her after she has just swallowed cum so I am open minded.
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
This is a genuine question out of interest, I’m not questioning or criticising you, but can you be a cuckold to someone you aren’t in a relationship with? I’ve always thought that a cuckold is a male in a relationship with someone who is unfaithful to him and doesn’t hide it from him. A FWB relationship doesn’t assume that either partner will be faithful to the other so I don’t understand how you can be a cuckold to your FWB. Or do you mean you role play as her cuckold?
As a sub I actually really like the thought of being made to wear a used condom. It’s not something I’ve ever thought about before but I will think about it from now on. It’s sexy. |
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Its probably classed as roleplay but I am pretty much exclusive to her now and she loves being naughty and knowing she can come back to me and likes telling and showing me how slutty she has been so Hotwife/cuckold type scenario. |
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"I am not thats why I would rather be there and make sure he had a VERY recent negative test."
He could had a test on Friday. Takes a week at least to bring back a result. In meantime, he could of joined in a gangbang bukkake. How would you really know he's clean of everything. To me it's super unhygienic to use a used condom and I think your lover being selfish to even suggest that. That's my honest opinion. Sexual health is more important than her kink. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
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"Its probably classed as roleplay but I am pretty much exclusive to her now and she loves being naughty and knowing she can come back to me and likes telling and showing me how slutty she has been so Hotwife/cuckold type scenario."
Oh, it’s just that you state in your opening post that neither of you are exclusive to each other so I assumed from that that neither of you are exclusive to each other. Sorry, my mistake. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
"This is a genuine question out of interest, I’m not questioning or criticising you, but can you be a cuckold to someone you aren’t in a relationship with? I’ve always thought that a cuckold is a male in a relationship with someone who is unfaithful to him and doesn’t hide it from him. A FWB relationship doesn’t assume that either partner will be faithful to the other so I don’t understand how you can be a cuckold to your FWB. Or do you mean you role play as her cuckold?
As a sub I actually really like the thought of being made to wear a used condom. It’s not something I’ve ever thought about before but I will think about it from now on. It’s sexy. "
100% not cuckold in anyway shape or form the most important bit of cuckold is ''loving relationship'' as its core there is nothing you will feel that comes anywhere near what a real cuck does and what a real cuckold couple has ..
you are at best just a sub guy whos playmate is femdom or something close there is so much more to cuckold than sex and eating another mans cum bi men do that and subs too yet they dont call them selves cucks .... 
there are real cuckold couples and fantasy cuckold couples nothing wrong with that as they still have one thing in common they are loving couples ... its a bit like calling yourtself a lesbian because you like women ..some labels are important and some not so ..you cant fake cuckold |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"This is a genuine question out of interest, I’m not questioning or criticising you, but can you be a cuckold to someone you aren’t in a relationship with? I’ve always thought that a cuckold is a male in a relationship with someone who is unfaithful to him and doesn’t hide it from him. A FWB relationship doesn’t assume that either partner will be faithful to the other so I don’t understand how you can be a cuckold to your FWB. Or do you mean you role play as her cuckold?
As a sub I actually really like the thought of being made to wear a used condom. It’s not something I’ve ever thought about before but I will think about it from now on. It’s sexy.
100% not cuckold in anyway shape or form the most important bit of cuckold is ''loving relationship'' as its core there is nothing you will feel that comes anywhere near what a real cuck does and what a real cuckold couple has ..
you are at best just a sub guy whos playmate is femdom or something close there is so much more to cuckold than sex and eating another mans cum bi men do that and subs too yet they dont call them selves cucks ....
there are real cuckold couples and fantasy cuckold couples nothing wrong with that as they still have one thing in common they are loving couples ... its a bit like calling yourtself a lesbian because you like women ..some labels are important and some not so ..you cant fake cuckold"
That’s what I thought, thank you for confirming as I thought maybe there was something I was missing. |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I am not thats why I would rather be there and make sure he had a VERY recent negative test.
He could had a test on Friday. Takes a week at least to bring back a result. In meantime, he could of joined in a gangbang bukkake. How would you really know he's clean of everything. To me it's super unhygienic to use a used condom and I think your lover being selfish to even suggest that. That's my honest opinion. Sexual health is more important than her kink."
This applies to anyone who does a test, not just this situation. Based on your argument STI tests are completely pointless. I’m no expert, and I may be wrong about this because I haven’t googled it, but I suspect it takes longer than a week for an STI to be contagious after catching it, otherwise tests would be pointless with regards to checking if it’s safe to have unprotected sex with someone. I’d say the time between taking the test and receiving the results is less than the time it takes for an STI to really take hold and be strong enough to pass on to someone else. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
"I am not thats why I would rather be there and make sure he had a VERY recent negative test.
He could had a test on Friday. Takes a week at least to bring back a result. In meantime, he could of joined in a gangbang bukkake. How would you really know he's clean of everything. To me it's super unhygienic to use a used condom and I think your lover being selfish to even suggest that. That's my honest opinion. Sexual health is more important than her kink.
This applies to anyone who does a test, not just this situation. Based on your argument STI tests are completely pointless. I’m no expert, and I may be wrong about this because I haven’t googled it, but I suspect it takes longer than a week for an STI to be contagious after catching it, otherwise tests would be pointless with regards to checking if it’s safe to have unprotected sex with someone. I’d say the time between taking the test and receiving the results is less than the time it takes for an STI to really take hold and be strong enough to pass on to someone else. "
test are not pointless if done regular it will at the very least tell you you have something or not or would you prefere going thru life not knowing and infecting ?? regular testing and swinging go hand in hand if you play bare or safer ... |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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this is the biggest problem on the scene is that people who play and have safer sex think they are not the problem but they are very much part of the problem its in the wording safer sex theres no such thing as safe sex ..safe sex is no sex at all |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I am not thats why I would rather be there and make sure he had a VERY recent negative test.
He could had a test on Friday. Takes a week at least to bring back a result. In meantime, he could of joined in a gangbang bukkake. How would you really know he's clean of everything. To me it's super unhygienic to use a used condom and I think your lover being selfish to even suggest that. That's my honest opinion. Sexual health is more important than her kink.
This applies to anyone who does a test, not just this situation. Based on your argument STI tests are completely pointless. I’m no expert, and I may be wrong about this because I haven’t googled it, but I suspect it takes longer than a week for an STI to be contagious after catching it, otherwise tests would be pointless with regards to checking if it’s safe to have unprotected sex with someone. I’d say the time between taking the test and receiving the results is less than the time it takes for an STI to really take hold and be strong enough to pass on to someone else.
test are not pointless if done regular it will at the very least tell you you have something or not or would you prefere going thru life not knowing and infecting ?? regular testing and swinging go hand in hand if you play bare or safer ..."
My whole point is that they’re not pointless. If someone could take a test and then have sex, catch an STI and pass it on in the same time it takes to get the results they would be pointless in terms of knowing whether it’s safe to have unprotected sex with someone, which is what I said in my post. I specifically said that part because even if that was so they’re still worth doing for peace of mind. But my whole argument was that they’re not pointless in either regard because the previous post was saying they’re pointless with regards to knowing if it’s safe to have unprotected sex with someone immediately after they receive the all clear. Sorry if I wasn’t clear. |
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