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Mistress/Dominant woman
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I would really love a dominant Mistress or woman to use me and shame me.. make me lick their heels worship them, make me wear heels in public.
I just wondered on people's thoughts how many women love to be dominant?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I would really love a dominant Mistress or woman to use me and shame me.. make me lick their heels worship them, make me wear heels in public.
I just wondered on people's thoughts how many women love to be dominant?
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I know plenty of women that enjoy being dominate.
There are lots of professional Dommes about that I'm sure would be happy to help you with your desires |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like being dominant but I’m not into humiliation, degradation or shaming etc. I’m a gentle dominant / soft daddy type. I don’t like that femdom is just assumed to be cruel/humiliating etc  It really puts me off using the term as so many just apply their own interpretation to you. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you I will look in to that.. preferably not to have to pay."
Then you might want to think about what you have to offer someone else.
It's a two way street and you have to be offering something of value in return. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I like being dominant but I’m not into humiliation, degradation or shaming etc. I’m a gentle dominant / soft daddy type. I don’t like that femdom is just assumed to be cruel/humiliating etc It really puts me off using the term as so many just apply their own interpretation to you. "
Maybe that's a better look on it. I was a bit strong with words just a dominant woman would be alot more enjoyable.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Thank you I will look in to that.. preferably not to have to pay.
Then you might want to think about what you have to offer someone else.
It's a two way street and you have to be offering something of value in return."
Oh definitely I'm not a taker.. Gifts and treating a lady is a nicer way. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"The issue your going to have us there is a small number of female Dom's, to a large number of male submissives.
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I didn't think about that very true, I do dominant but just wanted the pleasure the other way 
Thank you |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you I will look in to that.. preferably not to have to pay.
Then you might want to think about what you have to offer someone else.
It's a two way street and you have to be offering something of value in return.
Oh definitely I'm not a taker.. Gifts and treating a lady is a nicer way."
Well there’s gifts etc but once again you have to actually think about what your dominant wants. Not what you think she wants.
I get a lot of men message me saying thru want me to do things to them and what they’ll do in return - but they never ASK me what I’m into or what I want.
Personally (and I realise I’m unusual) I don’t like receiving gifts. The best and most genuine thing is to ask but never assume. Otherwise your dom will just feel like a kink dispenser. |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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I know a vanilla friend who expressed an interest in 'squashing men'. I can only imagine that means sitting/ standing on them, squashing theirs dicks with heels maybe and all that comes with this kink. It's something I'm exploring with her to see if any men out there. Maybe it's more a fet site matter than here but curious to ask if any men like the sound of this. South London based obviously. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thank you I will look in to that.. preferably not to have to pay.
Then you might want to think about what you have to offer someone else.
It's a two way street and you have to be offering something of value in return.
Oh definitely I'm not a taker.. Gifts and treating a lady is a nicer way.
Well there’s gifts etc but once again you have to actually think about what your dominant wants. Not what you think she wants.
I get a lot of men message me saying thru want me to do things to them and what they’ll do in return - but they never ASK me what I’m into or what I want.
Personally (and I realise I’m unusual) I don’t like receiving gifts. The best and most genuine thing is to ask but never assume. Otherwise your dom will just feel like a kink dispenser. "
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I know a vanilla friend who expressed an interest in 'squashing men'. I can only imagine that means sitting/ standing on them, squashing theirs dicks with heels maybe and all that comes with this kink. It's something I'm exploring with her to see if any men out there. Maybe it's more a fet site matter than here but curious to ask if any men like the sound of this. South London based obviously."
I think that's a bit too far for me, that's definitely a fetish site.. that's pretty hard-core stuff and too much pain lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Problem I have is the sub men are way too sub for me and the men I do get with hate restrictions "
The sub needs to have a bit about them rather than just roll over..
Restrictions are what some of it's about. |
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"I like being dominant but I’m not into humiliation, degradation or shaming etc. I’m a gentle dominant / soft daddy type. I don’t like that femdom is just assumed to be cruel/humiliating etc It really puts me off using the term as so many just apply their own interpretation to you. "
We have a variation of this dynamic. |
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"Problem I have is the sub men are way too sub for me and the men I do get with hate restrictions
The sub needs to have a bit about them rather than just roll over..
Restrictions are what some of it's about."
But the subs that write to me on fab just act and look way too feeble...maybe I need a reluctant sub who is normally a dom? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Problem I have is the sub men are way too sub for me and the men I do get with hate restrictions
The sub needs to have a bit about them rather than just roll over..
Restrictions are what some of it's about.
But the subs that write to me on fab just act and look way too feeble...maybe I need a reluctant sub who is normally a dom?"
So a switch basically  |
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By *lex D.Man
over a year ago
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"Problem I have is the sub men are way too sub for me and the men I do get with hate restrictions
The sub needs to have a bit about them rather than just roll over..
Restrictions are what some of it's about.
But the subs that write to me on fab just act and look way too feeble...maybe I need a reluctant sub who is normally a dom?"
Maybe pass them on; I think my friend is looking for those feeble types. 
They say a good dom switches to experience what subs go through. I personally can't do it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Problem I have is the sub men are way too sub for me and the men I do get with hate restrictions
The sub needs to have a bit about them rather than just roll over..
Restrictions are what some of it's about.
But the subs that write to me on fab just act and look way too feeble...maybe I need a reluctant sub who is normally a dom?"
someone once described something they termed an alpha sub. A man who could Dom, but is choosing to submit, rather than those that look like they simply know their place.
That kind of thing ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Problem I have is the sub men are way too sub for me and the men I do get with hate restrictions
The sub needs to have a bit about them rather than just roll over..
Restrictions are what some of it's about.
But the subs that write to me on fab just act and look way too feeble...maybe I need a reluctant sub who is normally a dom?"
That's not fun at all y, feeble men! Yes I think you do. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Problem I have is the sub men are way too sub for me and the men I do get with hate restrictions
The sub needs to have a bit about them rather than just roll over..
Restrictions are what some of it's about.
But the subs that write to me on fab just act and look way too feeble...maybe I need a reluctant sub who is normally a dom?someone once described something they termed an alpha sub. A man who could Dom, but is choosing to submit, rather than those that look like they simply know their place.
That kind of thing ? "
Very true that! |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"I like being dominant but I’m not into humiliation, degradation or shaming etc. I’m a gentle dominant / soft daddy type. I don’t like that femdom is just assumed to be cruel/humiliating etc It really puts me off using the term as so many just apply their own interpretation to you. "
People will always apply their own interpretation of titles and labels unfortunately and assumptions are made by people who don’t have a full understanding of the diversity that’s covered under a single label. Anyone who’s either experienced and/or educated in the subject will know that the interests and desires of 2 subs or 2 Doms aren’t going to be exactly the same, there are things that I enjoy that other subs may not and vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like being dominant but I’m not into humiliation, degradation or shaming etc. I’m a gentle dominant / soft daddy type. I don’t like that femdom is just assumed to be cruel/humiliating etc It really puts me off using the term as so many just apply their own interpretation to you.
People will always apply their own interpretation of titles and labels unfortunately and assumptions are made by people who don’t have a full understanding of the diversity that’s covered under a single label. Anyone who’s either experienced and/or educated in the subject will know that the interests and desires of 2 subs or 2 Doms aren’t going to be exactly the same, there are things that I enjoy that other subs may not and vice versa. "
Yep. It kinda makes me wish there were more variation in labels than dom/sub/switch/top/bottom. On the black site I use Daddy which definitely fits me better. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I like being dominant but I’m not into humiliation, degradation or shaming etc. I’m a gentle dominant / soft daddy type. I don’t like that femdom is just assumed to be cruel/humiliating etc It really puts me off using the term as so many just apply their own interpretation to you.
People will always apply their own interpretation of titles and labels unfortunately and assumptions are made by people who don’t have a full understanding of the diversity that’s covered under a single label. Anyone who’s either experienced and/or educated in the subject will know that the interests and desires of 2 subs or 2 Doms aren’t going to be exactly the same, there are things that I enjoy that other subs may not and vice versa.
Yep. It kinda makes me wish there were more variation in labels than dom/sub/switch/top/bottom. On the black site I use Daddy which definitely fits me better. "
for me the teems are just a quick indication to help filter ... If I can't work out the energy from a profile (and then from chatting) I'm cool with passing. .. it makes me worry they can't communicate. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I l for me the teems are just a quick indication to help filter ... If I can't work out the energy from a profile (and then from chatting) I'm cool with passing. .. it makes me worry they can't communicate. "
That would be awesome if the men who messaged me used them like that |
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