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Secret or open?Xx
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Secret.
Only because it’s part of my own satisfaction. My buddy from the army doesn’t even know. He ribs me at the gym saying how longs your sex drought been now?
I stand there thinking if only you knew what in was doing at a club the other night  |
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over a year ago
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"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx"
There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla. |
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"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx
There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla. "
I don't talk to my friends about sex except in a general way, I'd never go into detail. |
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"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx
There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla.
I don't talk to my friends about sex except in a general way, I'd never go into detail. "
That’s the same. So I don’t really need to keep anything from them.
‘Guess what I did last night?!’ Is never a thing of start with.  |
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I've never had a conversation with a work colleague or vanilla friends about my sex life or theirs.
I have made some very good friends through the site and they are the only ones I have those conversations with. |
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"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx
There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla.
I don't talk to my friends about sex except in a general way, I'd never go into detail.
That’s the same. So I don’t really need to keep anything from them.
‘Guess what I did last night?!’ Is never a thing of start with. "
Friend :did you see that great documentary last night?:
Me : no. I was being gang banged in a village hall just outside Bognor: |
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"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx
There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla.
I don't talk to my friends about sex except in a general way, I'd never go into detail.
That’s the same. So I don’t really need to keep anything from them.
‘Guess what I did last night?!’ Is never a thing of start with.
Friend :did you see that great documentary last night?:
Me : no. I was being gang banged in a village hall just outside Bognor:"
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Who would you chat to about your swinging lifestyle?Is it 100% secret or are you open and upfront?Xx
There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla.
I don't talk to my friends about sex except in a general way, I'd never go into detail.
That’s the same. So I don’t really need to keep anything from them.
‘Guess what I did last night?!’ Is never a thing of start with.
Friend :did you see that great documentary last night?:
Me : no. I was being gang banged in a village hall just outside Bognor:"
*The Queue for the till in Asda stopped moving forward for a moment….
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I'll likely not use it as a topic of conversation with my granny on Christmas day, but it's not anything I'm ashamed of "
As a man its ok to chat openly about it but as a couple with 3 kids and a grandchild then it's top secret for us .. |
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"Bit of both… some friends know and fully accept it, others would run for the hills "
..... Don't you worry that , as you have face pics on here, the run for the hills mob might spot you. I was searching "see who's near" button once when staying away and came across a girl well known to my old friends. Now, my best friend knows I perv porn sites, he also knows I've bumped into a couple dogging once, but he doesn't know about my full FAB membership, or my cross dressing, or my bi side. But we now know, but aren't surprised, by the local girls photos. Apparently she used to flash the postmen, delivery guys etc on a fairly regular basis when she was younger |
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By *humper.Man
over a year ago
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"I'll likely not use it as a topic of conversation with my granny on Christmas day, but it's not anything I'm ashamed of
As a man its ok to chat openly about it but as a couple with 3 kids and a grandchild then it's top secret for us .. "
Granted I've not git grandkids but I do have kids, a business etc to think about. I don't see this lifestyle as something to hide. But I get that everyone has their own view on things |
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"There’s not one friend in the real world away from fab that talks about sex to ever bring up this conversation. My friends are very very vanilla. "
But it's swingers who most need to be secretive about their sex lives. So you never know for sure... |
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It's my guilty pleasure which I keep complete separate from normal life, so 100% secret. Can be quite funny when out with friends and they talk about sex, threesome fantasies etc and I sit there thinking if only they knew. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Open. I have no problem with those I work or socialise with knowing I play in somewhat different circles than them. The more you try to hide from people the more it will end up coming back on you. |
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It is, and will probably always remain secret for us, unless we happen to bump into anyone we already know through chats, meets of clubs.
I'm not particularly 'ashamed' of it, it's just easier to keep it in its own box and not have it out in the open.
Plus I think me and Mrs sneaking away for naughty nights and weekends and having this secret between us adds something to it in some ways |
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