Lifestyle. But it can become an obsession if you're not careful. This should become an enhancement to your sex life and not a replacemrnt. whether being on here for the full swinging experience or you're just after sex only you should never let it take over your life. Jo

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By *d4funtimesMan over a year ago

Cambridge

"Ladies and gentlemen,in your own opinion is swinging/swapping an obsession or your part of your lifestyle?Xx"

A correction against prejudicial taboo wrongly imposed upon everyone.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Neither.. it is something we dip in and out of when we feel the need..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Part of my lifestyle. Like BDSM is.

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By *exy Ruby 100 300Couple over a year ago

unknown

Morning its part of my lifestyle. A secret part Ruby x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Kind of like asking if the vibrator in the bedside draw is an obsession.

It’s a little extra fun and that’s all it is.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

Neither. It's just a hobby that will never take priority over real life.

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By *ogan WillowCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Obsessed with the effect I have on Logan when I'm being naughty and flashing him

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Both we think "

Yes, definitely a bit of both for us too

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By *onkeyandBonesCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

Neither for us, we dip in and out

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan over a year ago

Coventry

It's a lifestyle I chose and sexual non-monogamy is part of who I am. Its hardly an obsession but its a nice enjoyable aspect to have as part of my life and also a feature of my relationship. Having the freedom to enjoy variety and follow my desires (especially in a committed relationship) is great but it's just one aspect of my multifaceted life.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

Neither really, it's something that's a bit of fun, I wouldn't say we're in the lifestyle I don't really understand what that means to be honest.

Mrs

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

"Neither really, it's something that's a bit of fun, I wouldn't say we're in the lifestyle I don't really understand what that means to be honest.

Mrs "

This. It's shared fun and enjoyment for us, where we can live out our shared sexual fantasies.

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By *oxy jWoman over a year ago

somerset

lifestyle i/we have never allowed it to become a obsession its just our sexual lifestyle as other life like family and work and other things we like like hobbies n music sex is not the be all of life its part of the puzzle

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By *ixenandhoundCouple over a year ago

Plymouth, South west

More like a great hobby for us, something we really look forward to when we get time out of real life x

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

My sex life as romantic relationships never seem to work.