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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?"
Wow who wouldnt make themselves available for you? You are stunning |
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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?"
Just throwing it out there. I'm not far from Oxford and am free tomorrow. Food for thought |
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Yes super common, people are busy. If you want to pick the people you'll have to work out a mutually convenient date. If you want to pick the date just see who is available, I'm sure there'd still be plenty to choose from  |
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"Yes super common, people are busy. If you want to pick the people you'll have to work out a mutually convenient date. If you want to pick the date just see who is available, I'm sure there'd still be plenty to choose from "
Yes it's the mutual date is proving difficult as I have an very tight schedule. Ironically, I normally busy on Fridays and people kept asking for weekend meets so I freed up my Fri to get fab meets and can't seem to find a suitable person to meet. |
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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?"
My stumbling block is I'm only free evenings and some weekends. People I've shown interest in are looking for day meets. |
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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?
My stumbling block is I'm only free evenings and some weekends. People I've shown interest in are looking for day meets. "
Wow you wouldn't think that. Definitely sods law. I used to be only available on Tues or wed eve but people kept saying they can only do weekends. I can't do Saturday or Sunday so the compromise is Fridays. But still no luck. Never mind. I keep trying |
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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?
My stumbling block is I'm only free evenings and some weekends. People I've shown interest in are looking for day meets.
Wow you wouldn't think that. Definitely sods law. I used to be only available on Tues or wed eve but people kept saying they can only do weekends. I can't do Saturday or Sunday so the compromise is Fridays. But still no luck. Never mind. I keep trying "
Mines Tuesday, Thursday and Friday evening..play pool Monday's and Wednesday work in local pub. Weekends I'm flexible, I don't work, no dependents, so my time my own. |
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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?"
To be fair the age range cuts down your options too, possibly increase to the same age as yourself? Also, this time of year is murder for arranging anything, everyone is so busy with vanilla stuff like Xmas works dos or visiting family that it plays havoc. You might have better luck in one of the clubs, when people will be anyway. |
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I tend to find no one is available when I am. Then ontology historically I find meets rarely happen if you plan weeks ahead as interest wanes over the time
I try to meet people within 14 days of talking |
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By *r TriomanMan
over a year ago
Chippenham Malmesbury area |
"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?"
Or you really get on well with someone but they are at the other end of the country... Forget sods law, this is Fab law... |
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"Yes super common, people are busy. If you want to pick the people you'll have to work out a mutually convenient date. If you want to pick the date just see who is available, I'm sure there'd still be plenty to choose from
Yes it's the mutual date is proving difficult as I have an very tight schedule. Ironically, I normally busy on Fridays and people kept asking for weekend meets so I freed up my Fri to get fab meets and can't seem to find a suitable person to meet. "
Ooh unlucky! You gave a two-week notice and nobody could shift things around to meet on their preferred day, that's disappointing yes  It's a funny time of the year, lots of prep and social engagements, and the world cup takes up a lot of time too yes, fabs has been pretty quiet but I know in two weeks everyone will commence their partying and the site will be exploding! Well I hope you find something exciting to do with your Friday whether it involves fabbers or not  |
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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?"
It’s commonly, I’m afraid.
I can only ever meet Saturday afternoon/evening and trust me, suddenly everyone is busy. Hence, you can call me Fab virgin, literally. |
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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?"
I’m free tomorrow night, but unfortunately I’m a creaking dinosaur, and way above your upper age limit |
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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?
My stumbling block is I'm only free evenings and some weekends. People I've shown interest in are looking for day meets.
Wow you wouldn't think that. Definitely sods law. I used to be only available on Tues or wed eve but people kept saying they can only do weekends. I can't do Saturday or Sunday so the compromise is Fridays. But still no luck. Never mind. I keep trying "
Just go to a club. You’ll probably double the number of single ladies in  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?"
That's why we just go to clubs. Could not be bothered with organising meets and no shows. |
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"I can only ever meet Saturday afternoon/evening and trust me, suddenly everyone is busy. Hence, you can call me Fab virgin, literally."
I’m totally coming down your way for a weekend sometime in the new year. A promise is a promise. |
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By *r_PinkMan
over a year ago
london stratford |
"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?
It’s commonly, I’m afraid.
I can only ever meet Saturday afternoon/evening and trust me, suddenly everyone is busy. Hence, you can call me Fab virgin, literally."
i WOULD BE MORE THEN HAPPY TO MEET YOU ON A SATURDAY XXX ESPECIALLY AFTER MEETING YOU AT A SOCIAL XXX |
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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?
That's why we just go to clubs. Could not be bothered with organising meets and no shows. "
Yes but when I eventually got to go to clubs it was worst than being on fab. Men don't talk! At least they chat to you on here |
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"Yes but when I eventually got to go to clubs it was worst than being on fab. Men don't talk! At least they chat to you on here"
You should come to Scotland. Nobody here ever shuts up. Talk, talk, talk. |
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"Yes but when I eventually got to go to clubs it was worst than being on fab. Men don't talk! At least they chat to you on here
You should come to Scotland. Nobody here ever shuts up. Talk, talk, talk."
I love Scotland but never been on a date there. I mainly just see sheep where I go. In the clubs, men are like wanking zombies, very off putting. Especially they don't even bother getting undress, just with their cocks out |
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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?
My stumbling block is I'm only free evenings and some weekends. People I've shown interest in are looking for day meets.
Wow you wouldn't think that. Definitely sods law. I used to be only available on Tues or wed eve but people kept saying they can only do weekends. I can't do Saturday or Sunday so the compromise is Fridays. But still no luck. Never mind. I keep trying
Just go to a club. You’ll probably double the number of single ladies in "
You know my views on clubs...never again. No thanks |
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"Sods law when I'm free, others aren't. Looking for a new meet on Friday and all the men so far I been interested in aren't available. Is this common?
My stumbling block is I'm only free evenings and some weekends. People I've shown interest in are looking for day meets.
Wow you wouldn't think that. Definitely sods law. I used to be only available on Tues or wed eve but people kept saying they can only do weekends. I can't do Saturday or Sunday so the compromise is Fridays. But still no luck. Never mind. I keep trying
Just go to a club. You’ll probably double the number of single ladies in
You know my views on clubs...never again. No thanks "
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By (user no longer on site)
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This very common. Advanced planning is everything lol Much as we have admired you for a long time OP we would have to say the same thing... not that you would ask lol xxx hope something turns up x |
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"This very common. Advanced planning is everything lol Much as we have admired you for a long time OP we would have to say the same thing... not that you would ask lol xxx hope something turns up x "
Oh the conclusion of this thread is I had a fabulous meet. Thank you for all given me positive energy and karma to make my fantasy come true |
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"This very common. Advanced planning is everything lol Much as we have admired you for a long time OP we would have to say the same thing... not that you would ask lol xxx hope something turns up x
Oh the conclusion of this thread is I had a fabulous meet. Thank you for all given me positive energy and karma to make my fantasy come true"
I'm not afraid to try. Would you like to come to Abfabs with me on Friday?   |
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"This very common. Advanced planning is everything lol Much as we have admired you for a long time OP we would have to say the same thing... not that you would ask lol xxx hope something turns up x
Oh the conclusion of this thread is I had a fabulous meet. Thank you for all given me positive energy and karma to make my fantasy come true
I'm not afraid to try. Would you like to come to Abfabs with me on Friday? "
Sorry no thanks |
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"This very common. Advanced planning is everything lol Much as we have admired you for a long time OP we would have to say the same thing... not that you would ask lol xxx hope something turns up x
Oh the conclusion of this thread is I had a fabulous meet. Thank you for all given me positive energy and karma to make my fantasy come true
I'm not afraid to try. Would you like to come to Abfabs with me on Friday?
Sorry no thanks"
Worth a shot |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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We all have lives outside of Fab. In my experience if a guy is keen to meet you he will propose an alternative time and work with you to make it happen. I find lack of enthusiasm and commitment a huge turn off. |
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"We all have lives outside of Fab. In my experience if a guy is keen to meet you he will propose an alternative time and work with you to make it happen. I find lack of enthusiasm and commitment a huge turn off."
Yes definitely is a turn off but most men that message me do it so easily. Flirt but don't actually take any real action...  |
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