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Would you put a face pic public?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Obviously it's a swinging site and privacy is everyones main concern, but for those who don't already have public face pictures, have you ever nearly been tempted and what held you back? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously it's a swinging site and privacy is everyones main concern, but for those who don't already have public face pictures, have you ever nearly been tempted and what held you back?"
I have |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Tempted but I've recognised people here down the years & aware of it being used by people i probably know so its held me back.
I'd love to just not give a shit lol |
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I've been tempted but it's a risk I'd rather not take, especially when I've left nothing else to the imagination in my pics.
It's a shame because I'm really quite attractive, but that's for me to know and for you to find out  |
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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago
Welling |
This is quite specific site. I am not going after any public role or work so have no issues with my face here. If someone knows me - it’s not a problem. I love sex and not ashamed of it. If they point ot out I’d ask where they found it and what they were doing on the site  )
Golden rule - no nudes with face pics, it could be used against you. |
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"I only show face pic if he shown me his and I'm interested in him. Never ever would i put it public. "
I’m exactly the same.
I’ll send one if interested and hope for the same back.
My daughter is 23 so her / her friends could even be on here so wouldn’t risk public recognition purely for that reason! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As I work in education I am only putting one on with people I have chatted too for a while. Those who insist on a face pic before chatting sorry but no. Those who insist on a face pic but won’t reciprocate sorry but Definately no |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not at all, we have them in our friends only photos, but we would like to keep this side private from everyday life.
Nothing worse than if a family member recognised us. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No. I don’t want that guy from the Texaco garage knowing I’m on here. Or that pervy window cleaner… or….
A colleague worked out I was on another site, like this one. I was faceless on that too, but somehow he knew. He told me if I didn’t have sex with him he’d print my pictures off and stick them up around the offices. I felt sick to my stomach but I told him no and luckily he never did. Everyday for months I drove to work, thinking - is today the day he’ll do it? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"No. I don’t want that guy from the Texaco garage knowing I’m on here. Or that pervy window cleaner… or….
A colleague worked out I was on another site, like this one. I was faceless on that too, but somehow he knew. He told me if I didn’t have sex with him he’d print my pictures off and stick them up around the offices. I felt sick to my stomach but I told him no and luckily he never did. Everyday for months I drove to work, thinking - is today the day he’ll do it?"
Also illegal! You should of reported him to your work and the police |
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"No. I don’t want that guy from the Texaco garage knowing I’m on here. Or that pervy window cleaner… or….
A colleague worked out I was on another site, like this one. I was faceless on that too, but somehow he knew. He told me if I didn’t have sex with him he’d print my pictures off and stick them up around the offices. I felt sick to my stomach but I told him no and luckily he never did. Everyday for months I drove to work, thinking - is today the day he’ll do it?"
If someone knows you, I think you're probably showing enough of your face that would be recognisable |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
"No. I don’t want that guy from the Texaco garage knowing I’m on here. Or that pervy window cleaner… or….
A colleague worked out I was on another site, like this one. I was faceless on that too, but somehow he knew. He told me if I didn’t have sex with him he’d print my pictures off and stick them up around the offices. I felt sick to my stomach but I told him no and luckily he never did. Everyday for months I drove to work, thinking - is today the day he’ll do it?"
Unfortunately this is the issue. There are disgusting people out there. RedForDanger, I’m sorry you had to experience that fear and worry everyday you went to work  That kind of threat (won’t let me use the word BMail) is illegal but I know it’s not as simple as reporting someone. I hope you’re no longer under that threat. |
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By *ayHaychMan
over a year ago
Leeds (Home) / Sheffield (Work) |
I originally come from a small town with a nosey community. Several times now people who know I am on here, have made profiles to message me and say they’ll out be for being bi, etc. They’re just idiots with nothing better in their lives to do.
However I sometimes still do post face pics. |
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My profile is a face pic, did have one nasty experience with someone who messaged (anonymously of course) "how would you feel if I told everyone at the pub/club/whatever that you`re on here?" He never really thought that threat through, I guess! |
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By *glyBettyTV/TS
over a year ago
About 3 feet away from the fence |
Absolutely not.
Anyone who has a problem with that just needs to read the story a few posts above about how someone tried to threaten them into sex.
Ive also been IRL stalked before by weirdos off Fabguys & Grindr.
The grindr fellow actually tried to follow me into a park one night, I spotted him & responded in a very hostile way & he left.
I worry for the ladies & others less adept at being able to defend themselves, given the type of cretins who often frequent the murky corners of these apps. |
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We can never understand people who put photos featuring the face and nudity in public
Surely save it for private if you need to do it at all
Do you not consider who might see you giving a blow job with you face on display?
There are idiots out there who could do all sorts with that photo. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We can never understand people who put photos featuring the face and nudity in public
Surely save it for private if you need to do it at all
Do you not consider who might see you giving a blow job with you face on display?
There are idiots out there who could do all sorts with that photo."
Exactly, keep your face pics private people as plenty on here like to repost your pics elsewhere |
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Nope ,I wouldn't
I've read too many threads started when people have seen others in public & approached them ,when they've been with kids or family.
I wouldn't wanna take that risk .
Too many don't know what discreet is sadly. |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
No! Purely so as not to leave family and close friends open to the potential embarrassment if some idiot decided to out us.. We had one member threatening to contact the venue of Y's birthday bash to do just that, because we said no to them attending!! 
We have plenty on our friends pic's though, hence we don't accept blind requests.. |
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I have face pics public and never had any hassle over it. We are not ashamed of enjoying this lifestyle and don't care who knows about it.
I think nearly everyone in our small town knows we are on here and sometimes when speaking to people they take an interest and ask about swinging. If it does a little to open folks minds and make it seem less taboo then so much the better. |
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I used to . I was self employed, most of my family and friends knows so I wasn’t worried .
I am now employed in a busy, public “youngish” environment and I have been “challenged” whilst at work so the face eventually had to go |
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No… I admire those who are comfortable enough and “out” as swingers who feel they can share face pics in public but I’m not that person. Despite swinging for 30 years or more.
At my work it would be seen as a possible issue. And I don’t want anyone who knows my adult kids from seeing me here and telling them.
Already had a bad experience when the male half of a couple I’d shared my phone number with randomly called me with no warning one lunchtime at a weekend when I had my (then teenage) daughter in the car.
Happy to share in private messages but the face isn’t going public. |
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I'd love to not give a shit because my face pics are much nicer than my body  however, I know far too many judgey, small minded, boring people that would blab and my family would look down on us in disgust. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously it's a swinging site and privacy is everyones main concern, but for those who don't already have public face pictures, have you ever nearly been tempted and what held you back?"
pretty much all my public pics show my face. its the friends only ones that dont due to the type of pics they are |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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nope never have never will this site and others ...one thing you learn in this lifestyle is there are people who will use your photo for many many things from bullys to impersonation they are the few but they are out there ..so private only |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No, I prefer to drip feed more of my flesh to women that actually make me go ooh initially anyway. Both for build up reasons and to not have my mug everywhere on show! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"nope never have never will this site and others ...one thing you learn in this lifestyle is there are people who will use your photo for many many things from bullys to impersonation they are the few but they are out there ..so private only"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Obviously it's a swinging site and privacy is everyones main concern, but for those who don't already have public face pictures, have you ever nearly been tempted and what held you back?"
I'd never have a public face pic... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nope, very riskey job wise"
Nothing illegal is being committed and I don't remember a no multiple People sex sessions clause in my last contract.
But I do get the requirement for discretion for |
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"Nope, very riskey job wise
Nothing illegal is being committed and I don't remember a no multiple People sex sessions clause in my last contract.
But I do get the requirement for discretion for "
I know it's not illegal but for people in education very much frowned upon to at the least |
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On my old profile when I was younger I did, I don't anymore due to my job and also some unfortunate things that happened to a friend of mine.
Her step father who was a real piece if shit found her profile and then sent it around to all her family. She had a lot of face photos, BDSM and some pretty intense pictures. Through this she ended up losing a lot of non-fab friends and it caused some major friction with her family of whom she now only has contact with her mother.
You don't know who's on this site and you don't really know what you have to lose because you don't know how people will react.
I've recognised a few people I went to school with or worked with on this site and one of them is a teacher, everyone is entitled to live the life they want but unfortunately we live in a world that's judgemental and some people would take pleasure in making your life difficult. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never, my work makes it unwise and there is also the chance of other problems.
Totally happy to share one with people if we think it might go somewhere though. |
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We used to have a lot of public pics on here.
We found them on another site ( the sort of ex girlfriend revenge porn site ). There was also a couple of pics from one of our Facebook pages which means it was done by someone who new us.
Since then, we don’t post public shots with our faces in. |
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