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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Hi all, I'm in London and looking for a couple with a bi male but having a hard time finding any.

The reason I'm looking for a couple with a bi male is because I like to give BJ's but only with a male as part of a couple. Oral pleasure for both.

Are you in a couple with a bi male or is he straight but lets guys go down on him?

I'm not into meeting any single guys but have met TS girls.

Any advice? Anyone in london?

Also what are your thoughts on your man getting blown by another man?

Would love to have some more 3ways.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

So you live in the biggest city in the country and you can't find a couple with a bi-male? Or have you tried them all and got nowhere?

Plus you state you are straight on your profile, most couples with a bi male would assume you'd just be after the female. Try changing it to bisexual, as you are if you like sucking cock and fucking tv's.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London

Another "straight" man looking for a bi male...sigh...

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"So you live in the biggest city in the country and you can't find a couple with a bi-male? Or have you tried them all and got nowhere?

Plus you state you are straight on your profile, most couples with a bi male would assume you'd just be after the female. Try changing it to bisexual, as you are if you like sucking cock and fucking tv's. "

I'll have to change that.

I've spoken to a few but when your on someone's "hotlist" since your first week here and all they want is pix you start to wonder if their for real. Especially after sending a dozen or more snaps. LOL

Met two lovely TS girls thow, It's just the 3somes I'm having trouble getting.

I was invited to a club by a nice couple who only meet at clubs but It's not my thing.

I can't accom because I'm in a flatshare but am happy to foot the bill for a hotel.

The search continues.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


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I was invited to a club by a nice couple who only meet at clubs but It's not my thing.

I can't accom because I'm in a flatshare but am happy to foot the bill for a hotel.

The search continues. "

Why not go to the club if they've asked you?! Bloody hell, most men would jump at the chance. And even at club entrance prices it'll cost you less than a hotel room!

Sounds like you're your own worst enemy in this situation.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

it is hard to find a bi couple. the male half also being bi

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Good luck mate dont worry about all the sipers in the forums who will try and knock you.

Live life and enjoy

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Another "straight" man looking for a bi male...sigh... "

Such a tragedy.......

It's set to straight as it got ridiculous my first week here, too many messages from single men.

So I set it to straight and still got messages, blocked single males but forgot to switch it back.

Simples.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


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I was invited to a club by a nice couple who only meet at clubs but It's not my thing.

I can't accom because I'm in a flatshare but am happy to foot the bill for a hotel.

The search continues.

Why not go to the club if they've asked you?! Bloody hell, most men would jump at the chance. And even at club entrance prices it'll cost you less than a hotel room!

Sounds like you're your own worst enemy in this situation. "

Simply put Clubs are not for everyone, it's not that hard to understand is it.

And I don't see how not going to a club makes me my own worst enemy as I said I'm more than happy to pay for a hotel.

Then I control who comes in the hotel room, the same as you control who you let in your home, but we have no control over who is let into the clubs, as long as you can afford the entry fee your in. so yea clubs are not for me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Keep lookin there are plenty of bi couples about, dont give up

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Good luck mate dont worry about all the sipers in the forums who will try and knock you.

Live life and enjoy"

Yea, I get that, it is the internet after all.

I like comments like "most men would" because, newsflash, I'm not most men and we are all different.

Most men like football, I don't

Most men like beer, I don't

Most men don't like cock, I do

Most men are not the same as other men.

See my point, LOL

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Keep lookin there are plenty of bi couples about, dont give up "

Nah I won't give up, there must be some nice couples like you in london, I'll just have to look a bit harder, cheers

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Newsflash. A lot of clubs have private rooms.

I just think that if you are genuinely up for meeting with a couple where the male is bisexual, in the most populous city in the country, then it would have happened.

You are placing more barriers in your own way by not having bisexual on your profile, not having public pics, only wanting to meet in hotels and being worried about being in a club. For whatever reason.

Its more likely to happen if you relax a bit. It doesn't mean being less safe out there.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

helps if you have public photos to.

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By *iss_tressWoman  over a year ago

London


"Good luck mate dont worry about all the sipers in the forums who will try and knock you.

Live life and enjoy"

What's the point in joining a site like this, where EVERY taste is catered for, and deny what you're looking for...but come and post it in the forums where hardly anybody sees it?

Doesn't make any sense to me - if you're honest with yourself you'll find what you want - hardly a revelation is it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Newsflash. A lot of clubs have private rooms.

I just think that if you are genuinely up for meeting with a couple where the male is bisexual, in the most populous city in the country, then it would have happened.

You are placing more barriers in your own way by not having bisexual on your profile, not having public pics, only wanting to meet in hotels and being worried about being in a club. For whatever reason.

Its more likely to happen if you relax a bit. It doesn't mean being less safe out there. "

It's not like I'm gonna die if I don't have a 3way. I can wait.

My rules are my rules, everyone has them. I already said why it was set to straight and thats now been changed, when I message someone I attach a pic, I work with the public so I don't really feel comfortable having one on my profile.

rules and preferences are there for a reason, we all have our own way of going about this. It's worked for me so far in respects to meeting two nice TS girls, so I can't be doing too bad for a member of 7 weeks without a veri.

So shall I bend my rules just to please someone else and get a meet or shall I wait untill someone is willing to meet and accept my rules as I would theirs. I think I'll wait.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Good luck mate dont worry about all the sipers in the forums who will try and knock you.

Live life and enjoy

What's the point in joining a site like this, where EVERY taste is catered for, and deny what you're looking for...but come and post it in the forums where hardly anybody sees it?

Doesn't make any sense to me - if you're honest with yourself you'll find what you want - hardly a revelation is it. "

Read my profile, do'h.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You are a single male. Your rules usually mean nothing when trying to get a meet. If you want to meet a couple you will have to either A:Go to a club, or B:Be more flexible with your rules.

If you go into it saying "I'll only meet at yours or a hotel" then straight away you alienate probably half of the couples you get in touch with.

Meeting a TV is not that difficult usually. Trust me, I'm one of the choosy ones. Meeting a couple is an entirely different ball game.

Just trying to give you the advice you asked for. If you don't like it, don't ask for it.

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By *olfcartweaselCouple  over a year ago

Melrose


"it is hard to find a bi couple. the male half also being bi"

Not as rare as all that.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago


"Newsflash. A lot of clubs have private rooms.

I just think that if you are genuinely up for meeting with a couple where the male is bisexual, in the most populous city in the country, then it would have happened.

You are placing more barriers in your own way by not having bisexual on your profile, not having public pics, only wanting to meet in hotels and being worried about being in a club. For whatever reason.

Its more likely to happen if you relax a bit. It doesn't mean being less safe out there.

It's not like I'm gonna die if I don't have a 3way. I can wait.

My rules are my rules, everyone has them. I already said why it was set to straight and thats now been changed, when I message someone I attach a pic, I work with the public so I don't really feel comfortable having one on my profile.

rules and preferences are there for a reason, we all have our own way of going about this. It's worked for me so far in respects to meeting two nice TS girls, so I can't be doing too bad for a member of 7 weeks without a veri.

So shall I bend my rules just to please someone else and get a meet or shall I wait untill someone is willing to meet and accept my rules as I would theirs. I think I'll wait."

Well said , bet if it was a f asking something no bugger would tell her to change her rules.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

post a meeting request

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

You asked for advice in an open forum so I gave my opinion.

Some of which you acted on, like changing your status to bisexual.

I also think you have already passed up an opportunity to meet a bi couple because you are afraid of going to clubs.

I would ask a woman to relax her rules slightly if she came on here moaning about not getting a meet in a city with millions of people in it. But they don't, because they don't have to, because they have the pick of men.

A single guy has to be nothing if not flexible on here and willing to compromise, if only a little. I'm not saying drop your standards or anything.

Just stop being shit scared of being recognised or something.

And just so you know, you shouldn't abuse other forum members, you'll get banned. I'll not report you though as, well I couldn't give a monkeys toss what you think of me.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

Oh I forgot. I'm also a bisexual man (with a profile here) who Has met with couples where the man is bi, so perhaps you should listen to me instead of whining.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Wasn't moaning or whining.

Report me all you want It's a free site not hard to go and make another profile. See I like honesty.

And you maybe a bisexual man but you are also a tv/ts which would already get you more attention.

I change for no one and expect no one to change for me. We are who we are. Accept it as it is or move along.

The point of this thread was to see if I'd get any replys from couples, I understand It's an open forum but you only picked on the first line of the first post and told me stuff I already knew and are that way for a reason, but you came back telling me I'm my own worst enemy for having rules and not being more flexible just because I won't do clubs.

If I don't want to go to a club I don't have to. You having a go about it isn't going to change that fact.

So quick hit the report button before I call someone else a troll, I can really see how much damage that can do, you better protect everyone else from the bad words.

Sir, sir, the bad man said a bad thing to me

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Sorry guys and girls, I'm not trying to be a arsehole but I know I can sound like one sometimes.

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

And you wonder why you can't get laid?

What, from reading my other forum posts makes you think I'll run off crying about your bad words? You mistake me for someone with a thin skin and clearly have no idea why I dress as a woman.

So you just run along and ignore what I've said. Delete your profile when you get bored with rejection, then a week later when you are sat wanking behind your keyboard one Friday night while the rest of us are out shagging, start one up again. Then start another thread whining that you can't get laid. That you're really straight even though you fuck male arse and suck cock. And i'll still be here, fresh faced and ready to annoy you once again.

Merry Christmas.

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By *ub bbwWoman  over a year ago

oldbury


"Wasn't moaning or whining.

Report me all you want It's a free site not hard to go and make another profile. See I like honesty.

And you maybe a bisexual man but you are also a tv/ts which would already get you more attention.

I change for no one and expect no one to change for me. We are who we are. Accept it as it is or move along.

The point of this thread was to see if I'd get any replys from couples, I understand It's an open forum but you only picked on the first line of the first post and told me stuff I already knew and are that way for a reason, but you came back telling me I'm my own worst enemy for having rules and not being more flexible just because I won't do clubs.

If I don't want to go to a club I don't have to. You having a go about it isn't going to change that fact.

So quick hit the report button before I call someone else a troll, I can really see how much damage that can do, you better protect everyone else from the bad words.

Sir, sir, the bad man said a bad thing to me "

This attitude is not good and paints you in a poor light I am part of a couple with a bi male and we travel to London regularly how ever I'm probably too fat and opinionated for you. Word of advice don't post on a public forum asking for help then abuse the people giving it you

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"And you wonder why you can't get laid?

What, from reading my other forum posts makes you think I'll run off crying about your bad words? You mistake me for someone with a thin skin and clearly have no idea why I dress as a woman.

So you just run along and ignore what I've said. Delete your profile when you get bored with rejection, then a week later when you are sat wanking behind your keyboard one Friday night while the rest of us are out shagging, start one up again. Then start another thread whining that you can't get laid. That you're really straight even though you fuck male arse and suck cock. And i'll still be here, fresh faced and ready to annoy you once again.

Merry Christmas. "

I do get laid, a lot as it happens don't need this site for that just to meet ts and couples, thank you,

You said you won't report me this time from being a troll, thats why I took the piss.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago


"Wasn't moaning or whining.

Report me all you want It's a free site not hard to go and make another profile. See I like honesty.

And you maybe a bisexual man but you are also a tv/ts which would already get you more attention.

I change for no one and expect no one to change for me. We are who we are. Accept it as it is or move along.

The point of this thread was to see if I'd get any replys from couples, I understand It's an open forum but you only picked on the first line of the first post and told me stuff I already knew and are that way for a reason, but you came back telling me I'm my own worst enemy for having rules and not being more flexible just because I won't do clubs.

If I don't want to go to a club I don't have to. You having a go about it isn't going to change that fact.

So quick hit the report button before I call someone else a troll, I can really see how much damage that can do, you better protect everyone else from the bad words.

Sir, sir, the bad man said a bad thing to me

This attitude is not good and paints you in a poor light I am part of a couple with a bi male and we travel to London regularly how ever I'm probably too fat and opinionated for you. Word of advice don't post on a public forum asking for help then abuse the people giving it you"

Fyi I LOVE Bbw with an opinionated nature its people who call you out for having rules in place and more or less call you a fool for not bending those rules that I don't like.

But it seems some don't like an honest guy with an opinionated nature and who won't do what others want just to get laid.

Sorry for not wanting to blow smoke up your arse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP     over a year ago

Did I really come across that bad? I don't express myself too well in writing, bad jimmy very bad.

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By *ady4ladyWoman  over a year ago

liverpool

In answer to your original post, I think a pic would help, doesnt need to be a face, a nice body pic or jeans with shirt open etc would help. It makes you more 'real' and helps in a search.

For the record, I too would not visit a club, and would not change how I feel about that just to meet someone. I think different people feel comfy in different situations. Just a matter of personal choice

Good luck x

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By *rightonsteveMan  over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"Another "straight" man looking for a bi male...sigh... "

OP has sorted it out to 'bi'....can get confusing at times, I guess. Maybe straight with a slight kink?

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

I'll look you up next time I'm down south. My bloke's bi and you sound ideal for us. x

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By *ub bbwWoman  over a year ago

oldbury


"Wasn't moaning or whining.

Report me all you want It's a free site not hard to go and make another profile. See I like honesty.

And you maybe a bisexual man but you are also a tv/ts which would already get you more attention.

I change for no one and expect no one to change for me. We are who we are. Accept it as it is or move along.

The point of this thread was to see if I'd get any replys from couples, I understand It's an open forum but you only picked on the first line of the first post and told me stuff I already knew and are that way for a reason, but you came back telling me I'm my own worst enemy for having rules and not being more flexible just because I won't do clubs.

If I don't want to go to a club I don't have to. You having a go about it isn't going to change that fact.

So quick hit the report button before I call someone else a troll, I can really see how much damage that can do, you better protect everyone else from the bad words.

Sir, sir, the bad man said a bad thing to me

This attitude is not good and paints you in a poor light I am part of a couple with a bi male and we travel to London regularly how ever I'm probably too fat and opinionated for you. Word of advice don't post on a public forum asking for help then abuse the people giving it you

Fyi I LOVE Bbw with an opinionated nature its people who call you out for having rules in place and more or less call you a fool for not bending those rules that I don't like.

But it seems some don't like an honest guy with an opinionated nature and who won't do what others want just to get laid.

Sorry for not wanting to blow smoke up your arse."

I didn't ask you to blow smoke but you do come across as quite aggressive

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By (user no longer on site)  over a year ago

We,re a couple, new to this site but not new to the scene....here,s my take on this discussion ( I,m the male of this couple ), BTW I,m not having a go at anyone elses opinion but thought I,d share my point of view, hope its taken in a positive way ( gulp lol).

We,re a M/F couple who has been swinging for about 7 yrs now, we,re not into the club scene tho this is maybe cos we,re a couple and don,t find it too hard to find a "meet" so to speak ( not being big headed in saying that at all, just that generally couples maybe find meets easier to find ?)

The first thing that struck me about this discussion was the OP didn,t seem relaxed / confident enough to acknowledge his own sexuality in public, hiding behind a keyboard etc ( maybe I,m wrong but thats what I thought etc ).

I always thought I,d always be a straight guy but during a swinging time have felt relaxed & inquisitive enough to be open minded in our sex life & when a "Bi" situation arose ( excuse the pun ) I felt ok about going with the flow so to speak, & can honestly say I found it a turn on which didn,t make me want to run for the hills etc .....

So, thats why when we created our profile I have myself down as "Bi Curious" ( so far only had an oral bi experience ), Also, we feel confident in ourselves to have our face pics on our profile ( I accept the various reasons why some don,t ), this in my humble opinion helps to create a profile that comes across as genuine & hopefully encourages others to make contact etc .

So my point being ......

If a person creates a profile that has a vagueness about it then that "closes alot of doors",

As for so called rules...we all have them but if those rules are so severe & inflexible then this also can "close even MORE doors"

So on reflection this is maybe why the OP is finding it difficult to find "meets".

My suggestion ( coming from a bi curious male of a swinging couple) is to RELAX, be open to new idea,s /situations & go with the flow a bit more , you can always say no if you feel uneasy , nobody is forcing you etc ...just be more open minded & you,ll find what you are looking for & enjoy yourself .

Good luck & hope you find the fun you wish for.

Nothing I have said here is intended to be rude to anyone, I hope nobody takes offence at MY opinion...Happy Hunting.

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