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Having Sex a session where you focus Ultimately on your own pleasure
Making love focusing on the others pleasure selflessly making sure they are totally satisfied which ultimately satisfies yourself
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I'm not sure I agree with that, oxxo. Perhaps there might be a little more focus on one's own pleasure if it is just 'sex', but not totally. Just as when making love it is not totally about your partner's pleasure either. A lot of the pleasure for me is to be found in giving pleasure, whether it's sex or making love. It's just heightened to the nth degree if emotions are involved as well. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having Sex a session where you focus Ultimately on your own pleasure "
Not always, Some people actually get satisfaction on knowing they are pleasing the other person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having Sex a session where you focus Ultimately on your own pleasure
Not always, Some people actually get satisfaction on knowing they are pleasing the other person."
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I'm not sure I agree with that, oxxo. Perhaps there might be a little more focus on one's own pleasure if it is just 'sex', but not totally. Just as when making love it is not totally about your partner's pleasure either. A lot of the pleasure for me is to be found in giving pleasure, whether it's sex or making love. It's just heightened to the nth degree if emotions are involved as well."
We make love because we love each other. We don't love the people we meet through swinging |
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"I'm not sure I agree with that, oxxo. Perhaps there might be a little more focus on one's own pleasure if it is just 'sex', but not totally. Just as when making love it is not totally about your partner's pleasure either. A lot of the pleasure for me is to be found in giving pleasure, whether it's sex or making love. It's just heightened to the nth degree if emotions are involved as well."
Says it for me too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I make love with my wife, I have sex with my swinging friends.
Whichever I'm doing I am trying to make sure that my partner is getting as much pleasure as myself.
I cannot see any point in making love/ having sex with someone if they are not enjoying it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I find that I get the most pleasure from making sure my sexual partner gets what she wants and is fully satisfied, if she is happy then she will make me happy. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I find that I get the most pleasure from making sure my sexual partner gets what she wants and is fully satisfied, if she is happy then she will make me happy. "
The last regular I had, it was very intimate/love making but in the end its still just a meet. Whatever works best for all parties.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You don't have to be in love to 'make love'
A really intimate and erotic meet with kissing, stroking holding and eye contact can be fantastic. My favourite kind. "
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I make love with my wife, I have sex with my swinging friends.
Whichever I'm doing I am trying to make sure that my partner is getting as much pleasure as myself.
I cannot see any point in making love/ having sex with someone if they are not enjoying it. "
Sometimes you don't know until during or after ? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You don't have to be in love to 'make love'
A really intimate and erotic meet with kissing, stroking holding and eye contact can be fantastic. My favourite kind. "
We think you make love to the person you love. Being caring and tender is not making love . |
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"I make love with my wife, I have sex with my swinging friends.
Whichever I'm doing I am trying to make sure that my partner is getting as much pleasure as myself.
I cannot see any point in making love/ having sex with someone if they are not enjoying it. "
Completely agree!
Making love used to be a euphemism for sex - when I was living in a flat in London years ago with three other guys, I said to one that he'd obviously had fun as we could hear him and a girl he'd brought back from the pub making love all night. He said "I wasn't making love, I was shagging her!" which really amused everyone. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You don't have to be in love to 'make love'
A really intimate and erotic meet with kissing, stroking holding and eye contact can be fantastic. My favourite kind. "
Totally agree with this. I had a great night of love making with a guy a few weeks ago but we aren't in love with each other |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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I totally divorce the ideas of love and sex when I meet. However, that does not mean I am selfish. In fact, I expect and want the other person to have as much fun as I do, and vice versa. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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I love sensual sex. i wouldnt call it making love, to me making love is a emotion shared between two people and without that connection i do not believe you can make love, no matter how passionate or sensual your session is is still just sex |
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"I'm not sure I agree with that, oxxo. Perhaps there might be a little more focus on one's own pleasure if it is just 'sex', but not totally. Just as when making love it is not totally about your partner's pleasure either. A lot of the pleasure for me is to be found in giving pleasure, whether it's sex or making love. It's just heightened to the nth degree if emotions are involved as
well."
I'm feeling very lazy this evening so just agreeing or not posting....agree with this guy. Saves me typing....  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Having Sex a session where you focus Ultimately on your own pleasure
Not always, Some people actually get satisfaction on knowing they are pleasing the other person."
Sorry got it right at last. |
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"Having Sex a session where you focus Ultimately on your own pleasure
Not always, Some people actually get satisfaction on knowing they are pleasing the other person."
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