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Hi Couples who play separately. I have a question for the Male half. When your partner is having fun with another guy, do you worry that they are okay? Do you think about their safety while they are meeting someone else? |
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By *exy BeckyCouple
over a year ago
Bergerac, France |
It's only natural to think about your partners safety when you're not together.
If it's Becky's first meet we take extra care to ensure she's ok. I would almost certainly be present the first time.
On second or third meets it would normally be a video call while they're together (with his knowledge of course) and after a few more meets it could just be an open phone line. Location sharing is always on anyway.
If it's an outdoor meet, I'm never far away and certainly within shouting distance.
Once trust is built over many meetings, the rules get relaxed and Becky will meet just like a normal BF/GF meet.
Just common sense really.
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Thanks fabbers, this helps a lot. Location will always be on but I can't always be close by because i have the kids to look after.
I think i need to get to know the person too before her next meet, then I might be able to relax a bit. |
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"We have certain times (depending on length of meet) that she has to check in by. Quite often I’ll be receiving pics and vids anyway as that’s our thing  "
This totally I play with women from couples alone time to time. What j found was the lady would make a couple of messages / calls. Sometimes a FaceTime and I’ll say hello as well for a couple of minutes |
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"We have certain times (depending on length of meet) that she has to check in by. Quite often I’ll be receiving pics and vids anyway as that’s our thing
This totally I play with women from couples alone time to time. What j found was the lady would make a couple of messages / calls. Sometimes a FaceTime and I’ll say hello as well for a couple of minutes "
Thank you. I will suggest this with her next meet.
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Me and my partner, we don't have rules about either of us calling/texting the other when either of us has a meet. It's probably because I was swinging for a while already before I met him rather than we were a couple first and then decided to do separate meets. Also, he knows most of the men I meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi Couples who play separately. I have a question for the Male half. When your partner is having fun with another guy, do you worry that they are okay? Do you think about their safety while they are meeting someone else?"
Yes , im exactly the same however it does tend to get a little easier the more you do it. Stick to using hotels or clubs as its much safer than going to someones house |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I play alone but I do text my husband every now and again to let him know I'm safe and enjoying myself. I feel it's only fair so that he doesn't sit and worry. Everyone I have met totally understands me texting my husband and infarct encourages it. |
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Communication is the key we have both had FWB that we have visited in the past and some other fun solo.
We both when there give the other a message and when we leave,
Plus as we know each are having fun and there is no secrets she always shows me the details of who she meets just in case.
I think it works well for both of us as I am away alot I love the idea she has a guy or guys to entertain her when I'm miles away.
Shame she hasn't got one at present, to keep her company.
But she says she wants a discreet guy with a good size cock doesn't even have to be in the south west as we are very busy professional people with M only available occasionally and me away on buisness often, I want her to be happly shagging not just stuck at home, the reclaim sex is awesome when I get back, another Big Bonus
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By *ornado69Man
over a year ago
Princess Risborough |
I used to choose my ex's lingerie for her meets. If its a hotel meet i would drop her off and wait nearby or even in the hotel. If she was meeting alone or just fucking a guy she met out in town tbat night she would let me know and most times call mw and leave the phone connected so i coukd hear |
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As a cuckold couple Dee has had a lot of single dates with guys, but these have always been with guys who knew our cuckold dynamic and we had built a rapport up with first.
Even then she would regularly text me to let me know where she was and how she was, partly to let me know she was safe, partly to tease me. |
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"I seen many couples on here say their women go alone to play but rarely a man. Which from a safety point of view doesn't make much sense. "
I've seen plenty of couples profiles where only the guy is meeting at the moment, but I don't think that's quite what you mean.
But that's actually the difference. A woman playing on her own is a hot wife, but a guy playing on his own is just a sad single guy pretending to be part of a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I seen many couples on here say their women go alone to play but rarely a man. Which from a safety point of view doesn't make much sense.
I've seen plenty of couples profiles where only the guy is meeting at the moment, but I don't think that's quite what you mean.
But that's actually the difference. A woman playing on her own is a hot wife, but a guy playing on his own is just a sad single guy pretending to be part of a couple."
apart from the couple bit |
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