"Guys who like to be pegged , whats the best tips for someone whos never tried it? "
Think about your diet leading up to it. Douche prior to doing it, relax, start small with a plug of something and build up to something larger over time.
Enjoy it, it’s something new and it takes a bit of time to get fully comfortable with.
And no, you’re not suddenly gay.  |
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Don’t listen to what anyone says about taking it easy and working up to it, just get the biggest tool you can find and ram it. Also lube spoils the experience, just keep that in mind at all times, less lube is better!!! |
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"Don’t listen to what anyone says about taking it easy and working up to it, just get the biggest tool you can find and ram it. Also lube spoils the experience, just keep that in mind at all times, less lube is better!!!"
Lol. Bloody wind up merchant. Lol |
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Thanks for the tips. Mr will pop on and read them. It’s something we’re both interested in exploring but he has is reservations (much to my disappointment ) |
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"Im new to doing it,
but have enjoyed it so far.
I look forwards to doing it some more soon.
My harness is rigged for different size dildos from small to large, so that is helpful."
Mine has a small and a large.
When it first arrived I was impressed with the differences in size..
I decided I should only rightly try it out size wise.
The best way I thought was to stick it on my mirrors at the bottom of my bed and reverse onto it.
Well....
That was a great idea and very successful. Until it came time to take it off the mirror. Let's. Just say the suction was spectacular!!
Here was I, waiting for my grown daughter to come home from work soon and I've got a 6 inch black dildo stuck to the mirror.
I eventually had to get lots of lube and just slide it along to the side of the mirror. Then a quick tidy up time of sticky lube off the mirror. I learnt my lesson I think!!
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"Im new to doing it,
but have enjoyed it so far.
I look forwards to doing it some more soon.
My harness is rigged for different size dildos from small to large, so that is helpful.
Mine has a small and a large.
When it first arrived I was impressed with the differences in size..
I decided I should only rightly try it out size wise.
The best way I thought was to stick it on my mirrors at the bottom of my bed and reverse onto it.
Well....
That was a great idea and very successful. Until it came time to take it off the mirror. Let's. Just say the suction was spectacular!!
Here was I, waiting for my grown daughter to come home from work soon and I've got a 6 inch black dildo stuck to the mirror.
I eventually had to get lots of lube and just slide it along to the side of the mirror. Then a quick tidy up time of sticky lube off the mirror. I learnt my lesson I think!!
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Hilarious |
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"Im new to doing it,
but have enjoyed it so far.
I look forwards to doing it some more soon.
My harness is rigged for different size dildos from small to large, so that is helpful.
Mine has a small and a large.
When it first arrived I was impressed with the differences in size..
I decided I should only rightly try it out size wise.
The best way I thought was to stick it on my mirrors at the bottom of my bed and reverse onto it.
Well....
That was a great idea and very successful. Until it came time to take it off the mirror. Let's. Just say the suction was spectacular!!
Here was I, waiting for my grown daughter to come home from work soon and I've got a 6 inch black dildo stuck to the mirror.
I eventually had to get lots of lube and just slide it along to the side of the mirror. Then a quick tidy up time of sticky lube off the mirror. I learnt my lesson I think!!
Hilarious "
It was after the event.. |
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"Guys who like to be pegged , whats the best tips for someone whos never tried it? "
Lay on your back or sit on top if you able not to crush the lady. Asshole sex comfort is 99% in the mind and if you have anxiety / nerves it’s going to be painful / hard so being able to have eye contact with partner and converse feelings is key.
Lots of lube / an average sized dong is better that is pliable. Too small skinny it just pulls air inside and jabs too big well it won’t go in. |
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By *reedyKWoman
over a year ago
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Biggest thing I've found is if the man isn't relaxed then it's not going to be enjoyable for either of you. Definitely start small with fingers/butt plug etc until he's relaxed and not worried about it being painful. |
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We are working our way up.
Have started with fingers, plugs, a vibrating prostate massager etc.
Now we have the strap on kit with multiple size dildos. I've managed to take all 4 sizes, but only 2 or 3 of them with any actual thrusting without discomfort.
Few more test runs and I think mrs will get the green light to strap it up!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Biggest thing I've found is if the man isn't relaxed then it's not going to be enjoyable for either of you. Definitely start small with fingers/butt plug etc until he's relaxed and not worried about it being painful. "
What about kissing the box and give it a little tickle with tongue? |
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By *KentMan
over a year ago
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"Guys who like to be pegged , whats the best tips for someone whos never tried it? "
Patience, and plenty of lube.
It’s worth experimenting with positions as well until you find the one that works best for you guys!
Enjoy it, it’s amazing!!! |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
village life, closest main town inverness |
"Im new to doing it,
but have enjoyed it so far.
I look forwards to doing it some more soon.
My harness is rigged for different size dildos from small to large, so that is helpful.
Mine has a small and a large.
When it first arrived I was impressed with the differences in size..
I decided I should only rightly try it out size wise.
The best way I thought was to stick it on my mirrors at the bottom of my bed and reverse onto it.
Well....
That was a great idea and very successful. Until it came time to take it off the mirror. Let's. Just say the suction was spectacular!!
Here was I, waiting for my grown daughter to come home from work soon and I've got a 6 inch black dildo stuck to the mirror.
I eventually had to get lots of lube and just slide it along to the side of the mirror. Then a quick tidy up time of sticky lube off the mirror. I learnt my lesson I think!!
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 Brilliant |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"First of all find a women that doesnt mind doing it. They more rare than rocking horse shit
"waves" I would love to do it again!  "
Would gladly be a victim....  |
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First of all, douche properly and make sure he is clean.
Secondly, start small. Lovehoney have a harness with a small “starter” dildo that is perfect for first timers. Stick a condom over it (makes cleanup easier) use plenty of lube and go slow. He can also work his way up using small plugs and things.
Once he’s used to that you can gradually work up the sizes. I’m still fairly new but I’ve got a 6” slim toy that works really well. Next up is a bit more girth, then a bit more length and so forth.
Always practice and always use plenty of lube before moving up a size, and prep before every session (ie use a smaller toy to open things up before going big). Above all, as with any play like this, always check he’s OK and comfortable.
Positions can be a pain depending on relative height and size, but I enjoy the good, old fashioned, face down and ass up, haha! |
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Start slow and steady, plenty of lube, and more lube. Get one designed for anal play if you can.
Finger or butt plug to start then work your way up.
Go at your own pace, it's not a competition.
Look at dildos with different angles until you find what you like.
I've found that my straight dildos work much better for pegging than my curved ones. |
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What I have found interesting are the number of men on fab who express an interest in wanting to try, claim they can't find someone to peg them, then when given the opportunity, don't follow through with it. 
I've arranged to meet and peg 6 guys in the few months I've been here. None of them made it as far as meeting. Either didn't show, or suddenly stopped contact before the meet.
Please note, this is my observation, based on my experience. Don't need messages about it.
Have my guy who loves it, and enough people at clubs to play with,so doesn't bother me. Just find it interesting.
Please, guys don't message me asking me to peg you. I won't. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Guys who like to be pegged , whats the best tips for someone whos never tried it? "
A tentacle shaped dildo from JT, it starts off very small and nicely opens me up with little effort....oh and the obvious lube lol  |
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Build up to it , don’t order a massive dong xD , use plenty of lube and try and relax as much as possible , will hurt more if your all tense. Once you’ve got your mind passed the taboo side of it ( the oh god things don’t go up a straight man’s bum mentality) you’ll have the best orgasm of your life xD , enjoy |
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"Build up to it , don’t order a massive dong xD , use plenty of lube and try and relax as much as possible , will hurt more if your all tense. Once you’ve got your mind passed the taboo side of it ( the oh god things don’t go up a straight man’s bum mentality) you’ll have the best orgasm of your life xD , enjoy "
It arrived yesterday, surprised myself   |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Men who want to be pegged:
Have you ever put your cock in anyone's ass before?
But.. tongue, then lots of lube - fingers, small plug, bigger plug, small dildo, larger dildo. Breath.
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Men who want to be pegged:
Have you ever put your cock in anyone's ass before?
But.. tongue, then lots of lube - fingers, small plug, bigger plug, small dildo, larger dildo. Breath.
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Well you seem to know what you're talking about. Do you offer personal demonstrations? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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First of all clean out so no poop accidents.. clean up and shave.. and start of small and work your way up to what he is comfortable with.. just enjoy the experience I say x |
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"First of all find a women that doesnt mind doing it. They more rare than rocking horse shit
Couldn’t agree more! They are very rare! "
Couldn’t disagree more!
There’s plenty of women on Fab that love pegging. Myself included. |
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"First of all find a women that doesnt mind doing it. They more rare than rocking horse shit
Couldn’t agree more! They are very rare!
Couldn’t disagree more!
There’s plenty of women on Fab that love pegging. Myself included."
I think it’s definitely becoming more popular both for guy’s enjoyment and women wanting to do it, which is good for those of us that love it |
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By *igDave8Man
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the tips. Mr will pop on and read them. It’s something we’re both interested in exploring but he has is reservations (much to my disappointment ) "
Get him to have a play himself first so he isn’t shocked what it feels like or how far in you’re going. X |
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"Thanks for the tips. Mr will pop on and read them. It’s something we’re both interested in exploring but he has is reservations (much to my disappointment ) "
Have you asked what his reservations are? He probably needs reassurance from you.
It can be intimate or a really femdom session or anything between so you need to discuss the dynamic as much as the how to fit it in! |
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One of my absolute favourite things! Start off with some mutual masturbation with the Mr using a small toy or prostate massager, once he knows what he likes himself he will be able to communicate it to you better. Lots and lots of lube, take it nice and easy to start with and make sure he’s really aroused as it’ll help him relax. When you use a strap on, him on top works well so he can control the depth and speed etc plus it means he can play with your tits and you can stroke his cock. Enjoy!
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"First of all find a women that doesnt mind doing it. They more rare than rocking horse shit
Couldn’t agree more! They are very rare!
Couldn’t disagree more!
There’s plenty of women on Fab that love pegging. Myself included."
That’s lovely to hear that you do, however I really struggle finding ladies that want to try it. |
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"First of all find a women that doesnt mind doing it. They more rare than rocking horse shit
"waves" I would love to do it again! "
Well I’d love to chat and arrange something |
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It no different from any anal play which for me always starts with a long deep wet rimming to loosen and open things. Then gently move through small finger through to index finger and go deep without causing pain before finally inserting any peg apparatus… after which the receiver is relaxed and begging for deeper pleasure. Done right lube insnt needed and its an act for true sensitive and patient lovers who can create a gape over a longer period of time. Prostate massage is very beneficial for a man health. Find the "male G-spot" slowly …. and it’s a source of mind-blowing pleasure, |
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