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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.
Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I don't know the actual reason. But when I get messages from a couple with only pictures of one I assume it's because the other is less than pleasing to the eye."
Hope it's not the case with us lol. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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People run their profiles as they wish. Maybe if they are only looking for men for the lady then they feel they don't need photos of the man. Maybe the man doesn't like his photos on show. Who knows. Could be lots of reasons. |
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"Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.
Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.
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We put more of john up if and when i decide to as i run the account. At the moment only one is in show but more often or not i have several of us both on show. Joanne. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it just comes down to personal choice, we have a few of Rob on our public photo's (prob should put a few more on) but he usually likes taking the photos rather than being in them. |
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"Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.
Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.
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Couples should run their accounts however they want. What you think they “should” do is irrelevant.
I’m sure you’ll have people tell you that it is cos the female half of the couple is the effectively the *honeytrap*, but that really only applies to the subset of couples looking exclusively for straight singles who will primarily play with her, or couple arrangements where she plays alone.
Regardless, if a couple doesn’t have many pics of the make half visible, you can always request one if/when you are chatting to them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.
Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.
Just bo not meet them not hard !"
We agree. We just don’t look twice at a couple profile which doesn’t have pics of both of them. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have plenty of both in ours but I'm guessing if a couple is only looking to meet single men they post pics that appeal to their target audience
RB"
This ^ |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.
Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.
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the woman's gorgeous and the guy isn't maybe or it's just a woman NO guy or its just a man no woman or the guys shy  |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Why do so many couples accounts only have pictures of the female.
Couples accounts should have plenty of pictures of both, the female and the male together.
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If you really want an answer check
out some of the other thousands of threads on exactly the same topic. If you can't be bothered, the simple answer is that people are allowed to post whatever pictures they like, within Fab rules. If they want to post pictures of just the man, or the woman, or cocks, cunts or anything else it is entirely up to them and no one else, and if it works for them that's all that matters. If it doesn't work for you, so what? Just move on to another profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I don't know the actual reason. But when I get messages from a couple with only pictures of one I assume it's because the other is less than pleasing to the eye."
Food for thought!!  |
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Each to their own, we are a couple so you see both of us as we come as a pair.
Maybe the male doesn’t play and he’s there for his wife’s safety, maybe he looks like shriek, maybe he’s like most blokes and doesn’t like his picture being taken. Their profile their rules.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I find this frustrating as a straight women who is half a couple.
I totally get it if only the lady meets/plays.
We now just delete messages from couple profiles without pics of him ,or just a cock pic,unless they've attached pics of him.We have plenty public pics of my partner on our profile.
It seems like it's all about the woman of the couple to me ,if they don't show the man too.
I know many will say they don't take a good pic or are shy ,but you only need 1 or 2 pics of him,to get an idea of what he's like. |
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Of course people are entitled to manage their profile how they like, but a lot of the time the man in the couple is intended to be part of play but still few/no pics that really show anything. This is off putting to us as if both intending to play or discussing full swap we wanna see both. Just comes across as trying to hide something. |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
leeds |
"Of course people are entitled to manage their profile how they like, but a lot of the time the man in the couple is intended to be part of play but still few/no pics that really show anything. This is off putting to us as if both intending to play or discussing full swap we wanna see both. Just comes across as trying to hide something. "
A bit like people hiding their faces because they're really pig ugly?
What people choose to show, or not show, is entirely up to them, and not for you or anyone else to guess the reason. If it puts you off because there are no pictures of the man perhaps it's because they want to put off people like you. Manage your own profile and look for profiles you like. Don't expect people to post what you want to see. That's not what Fab is about. |
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I literally said it’s each to their own how they manage their profile…just how it comes off to us personally.
We always play together so we’ve made sure to include male pics as well and we look for the same. Can only imagine it’s more frustrating for straight women as 20+pics of women in lingerie doesn’t give much indication if the man is someone would want to play with. It’s off putting to only be shown one half if play with both is expected.
As i said people are entitled to use their profiles as see fit…can just save a lot of time if everyone who will be playing has something up there as teaser if nothing else to get interest going.
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By *EAT..85Woman
over a year ago
Nottingham |
It should be based on who they're looking for to me. Most couples that message me WILL send a couple's photo which helps. But it's often one sided on the profile showing mainly the woman. Fine if only the women is intending to play, otherwise I'd like to see both. |
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By *eyeYCouple
over a year ago
Nr Leicester |
We just don't worry about those who choose to hide..
The irony tends to be a wink from a sparse profile which states "Don't respond to wink's, send us a message with face pics" Erm... Double standards anyone   |
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I love to take photos of M and absolutely hate having mine taken. As for should!!! I personally don’t believe in should, more in a persons freedom to express themselves as they see fit.
Do we miss out on couples and single women?? More than likely but absolutely my loss and one I have to accept for my reluctance to be photographed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ours is because of Morks job.
He has to be careful because of people in the same area recognising him. But we send a couples picture when we chat to people. We both message other people and you can tell our different styles. |
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