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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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does it baffle anyone else when you see a profile that specifically asks for a face pic when messaging them but they have no pics what so ever in their profile ? |
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Not at all. The ones holding all the cards make the rules. women and couples have lots to choose from. If they don't get a pic off you. They'll get pics off dozens of others .in that way it's fair enough. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"If they have a face pic in private you wouldn't know.
Unless you have access to their friend pics you wouldn't know either."
yh I didnt actually mean private I was just using private as another word for non public |
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"Not at all. The ones holding all the cards make the rules. women and couples have lots to choose from. If they don't get a pic off you. They'll get pics off dozens of others .in that way it's fair enough."
I see what your saying but for me thats not really equality is it. its borderline discriminating a large % of members on here that just like others pay for site supporters membership, just by accepting that being fair when in fact its not |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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on this profile and are couples profile out face pics are private until such a time we share ..
i have a simple rule that i stick to ..you message me first you send face pic first if i message you first then i send first i dont expect it first message and they wont get mine first message |
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Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested  |
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"Not at all. The ones holding all the cards make the rules. women and couples have lots to choose from. If they don't get a pic off you. They'll get pics off dozens of others .in that way it's fair enough.
I see what your saying but for me thats not really equality is it. its borderline discriminating a large % of members on here that just like others pay for site supporters membership, just by accepting that being fair when in fact its not "
But isn't that life anyways, there's not much equality? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested "
yh but you have at least 1 pic on your profile, thats not what I was talking about |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"does it baffle anyone else when you see a profile that specifically asks for a face pic when messaging them but they have no pics what so ever in their profile ?"
Yep daily  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested
yh but you have at least 1 pic on your profile, thats not what I was talking about "
It's alright fella, I know what you're on about.
I usually skip past such profiles.
I don't necessarily have a problem with profiles that don't have any public pictures, just the ones demanding that you send a picture first. |
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"Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested
yh but you have at least 1 pic on your profile, thats not what I was talking about
It's alright fella, I know what you're on about.
I usually skip past such profiles.
I don't necessarily have a problem with profiles that don't have any public pictures, just the ones demanding that you send a picture first."
I think your word demanding is a bit ott
They ask for it , no demands being made as I see it. Their choice to ask , yours to accept or refuse.simples !  |
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"does it baffle anyone else when you see a profile that specifically asks for a face pic when messaging them but they have no pics what so ever in their profile ?"
I've had this with a few guys that message me, blank profiles asking for a face pic, what do they think will happen?
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Yeah the ones with zero pics I find strange I just don't reply, I do like face pics quickly though, if it's not a face I don't want to kiss or look at it's a waste of everyone's time chatting for hours on end.
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By (user no longer on site)
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I ask for a face pic as how can I tell if I'm interested without seeing what they look like.
I do have my face visible; I understand that not everyone is comfortable with that and that's fine but I need to know what they look like.
I got called a pic collector two days ago because I asked him for a face picture  . |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested
yh but you have at least 1 pic on your profile, thats not what I was talking about
It's alright fella, I know what you're on about.
I usually skip past such profiles.
I don't necessarily have a problem with profiles that don't have any public pictures, just the ones demanding that you send a picture first.
I think your word demanding is a bit ott
They ask for it , no demands being made as I see it. Their choice to ask , yours to accept or refuse.simples ! "
oh I dunno. some say "no pic no reply". thats kind of demanding |
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"Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested
yh but you have at least 1 pic on your profile, thats not what I was talking about
It's alright fella, I know what you're on about.
I usually skip past such profiles.
I don't necessarily have a problem with profiles that don't have any public pictures, just the ones demanding that you send a picture first.
I think your word demanding is a bit ott
They ask for it , no demands being made as I see it. Their choice to ask , yours to accept or refuse.simples !
oh I dunno. some say "no pic no reply". thats kind of demanding "
We'll have to agree to disagree. I see it as their choice. Like any other they may have. to demand i think you need leverage of some kind. Unless you're desperate to meet someone that you deem " demanding " , they have no leverage. So its just a request. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yes it's a buyer's market on here where women and couples can make their own rules. I do insist also on face pic before going into any proper conversation but will offer my face pic in return if I'm interested
yh but you have at least 1 pic on your profile, thats not what I was talking about
It's alright fella, I know what you're on about.
I usually skip past such profiles.
I don't necessarily have a problem with profiles that don't have any public pictures, just the ones demanding that you send a picture first.
I think your word demanding is a bit ott
They ask for it , no demands being made as I see it. Their choice to ask , yours to accept or refuse.simples !
oh I dunno. some say "no pic no reply". thats kind of demanding
We'll have to agree to disagree. I see it as their choice. Like any other they may have. to demand i think you need leverage of some kind. Unless you're desperate to meet someone that you deem " demanding " , they have no leverage. So its just a request. "
so let me get this right, because I dont agree with what your saying that automatically makes me desperate ? |
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"does it baffle anyone else when you see a profile that specifically asks for a face pic when messaging them but they have no pics what so ever in their profile ?"
I’m always surprised that anyone would consider messaging a profile that has no picture whatsoever , or even bother reading the profile  |
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