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Ever fucked someone who was better than your partner ?
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Not sure if too many will admit it but you gone on meets as a couple or if your a stag and vixen you slept with someone's who better than hubby ? "
I haven't but I know of one couple whose wife did much to the hubby's displeasure  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Better at sex? Personally I don't think sex with a relative stranger would ever be better than sex with someone you love and know inside out. It will be different and exciting because of that. "
That's what I thought. Can't see sex being better than with your partner as you know them inside out and where to press their buttons etc. Especially if you been together a long time and are a strong couple because let's be honest if your not a strong couple you shouldn't swing in the first place |
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"Not sure if too many will admit it but you gone on meets as a couple or if your a stag and vixen you slept with someone's who better than hubby ? I haven't but I know of one couple whose wife did much to the hubby's displeasure "
This happened to me in London when I lived there. I met this couple around mid 40s. I was in my 30s and I was banging away the wife while husband was sat on chair watching as he had cum and was spent.
She starts orgasming as we going at it still and her mouth goes off about how she has never cum like this ever and it’s the best etc I am subtlety looking to my right at her hubby and see he us getting stressed so jumped off and said I need loo. They started having this huge argument I could hear so I got my clothes on from living room and just left  |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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No, it doesn't quite work like that for me. Sex with people who I'm not in a relationship with is different. Hot. But I don't really compare them and think oh x is far better than y. I like the different responses people bring out of my body, that's part of the fun of having sex with others. |
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"No, it doesn't quite work like that for me. Sex with people who I'm not in a relationship with is different. Hot. But I don't really compare them and think oh x is far better than y. I like the different responses people bring out of my body, that's part of the fun of having sex with others."
Yeah, for me it's not about comparisons. I don't think it's possible to compare a brief encounter to a 42 year relationship really |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Mrs O here…. Errr nope and I don’t think I will ever come across anyone. My Mr O, is some what quite good at giving me a bloody good old rogering
He has a proud personal best of 32 orgasms he’s given me in one sitting and I bloody well loved every moment.
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"No, it doesn't quite work like that for me. Sex with people who I'm not in a relationship with is different. Hot. But I don't really compare them and think oh x is far better than y. I like the different responses people bring out of my body, that's part of the fun of having sex with others.
Yeah, for me it's not about comparisons. I don't think it's possible to compare a brief encounter to a 42 year relationship really"
agree, I suppose some guys have been physically better but the mental stimulation of a very long term relationship cannot be beaten x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's same for men. Sex with a stranger ( for me at least) is fun but that person doesn't know me I don't know them so in a relationship sex is much more intense |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My fella, prefers younger to me, he always seams to enjoy them more than me. what the actual fuck?????
This is sad 
Very"
Don't get me wrong he enjoys my age but much older and younger sends him to another level |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My fella, prefers younger to me, he always seams to enjoy them more than me. what the actual fuck?????
This is sad
Very"
I felt for the Mrs reading this
Definitely doesn't seem to be the right base to be swinging from.
Your partner should be making you feel the centre of the world and the most important thing in the world to him. Any swinging sex should be an additional enhancement to an already amazing and fulfilling sex life between you 2.
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"My fella, prefers younger to me, he always seams to enjoy them more than me. what the actual fuck?????
This is sad
Very
Don't get me wrong he enjoys my age but much older and younger sends him to another level"
There's more to a relationship than sex though. Seeing me with another man sends my partner to another level but it's no threat to our relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"My fella, prefers younger to me, he always seams to enjoy them more than me. what the actual fuck?????
This is sad
Very
Don't get me wrong he enjoys my age but much older and younger sends him to another level
There's more to a relationship than sex though. Seeing me with another man sends my partner to another level but it's no threat to our relationship "
Honestly we love each other so much he is aloud to enjoy others |
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"My fella, prefers younger to me, he always seams to enjoy them more than me. what the actual fuck?????
This is sad
Very
Don't get me wrong he enjoys my age but much older and younger sends him to another level
There's more to a relationship than sex though. Seeing me with another man sends my partner to another level but it's no threat to our relationship
Honestly we love each other so much he is aloud to enjoy others "
Exactly! Your pictures show a loving relationship  |
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"My fella, prefers younger to me, he always seams to enjoy them more than me. what the actual fuck?????
This is sad
Very
Don't get me wrong he enjoys my age but much older and younger sends him to another level
There's more to a relationship than sex though. Seeing me with another man sends my partner to another level but it's no threat to our relationship
Honestly we love each other so much he is aloud to enjoy others "
He is allowed to enjoy others.... but your original post reads that he enjoys them more than he enjoys you, maybe it's been read the wrong way..... or not worded how you wanted it to look?? |
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"My fella, prefers younger to me, he always seams to enjoy them more than me. what the actual fuck?????
This is sad
Very
Don't get me wrong he enjoys my age but much older and younger sends him to another level
There's more to a relationship than sex though. Seeing me with another man sends my partner to another level but it's no threat to our relationship "
That's not the same though as you enjoying the lad more than you enjoy your husband which is how the 1st message reads |
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By *UFSWoman
over a year ago
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I'm not in a relationship at present,but if we are talking about my ex husband?yes,I've had many lovers that were more passionate more caring for my needs and much more stamina than my ex husband.
Great father,lousy lover. |
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"My fella, prefers younger to me, he always seams to enjoy them more than me.
Don't get me wrong he enjoys my age but much older and younger sends him to another level"
What do you enjoy though xx   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So although I'm on here as a single guy I'm married and we started off swinging as a couple, one of the things before we started doing all this was talk and think things through, one thing particular was the thought that we would find people that will be better at certain things then each other, and although when swinging together it was a rarity as there was so much distractions during group sex sometimes we did find the odd person that was better at something but that is OK and a good reason for doing all this,
my wife has now stopped swinging and gone down the polyamory route as she prefers the loving relationship side of things more then the sex and even in a non sexual way my wife finds that her BF can satisfy her better in other aspects of day to day stuff, again this is OK no one is the best at something there will always be someone come along and be better,
What we can't get from each other we get from other people, it has taken the stran off each other to be each others everything and has made us so much stronger as a couple. |
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In jest, M sometimes 'complains' if I make him come too fast, suggesting we need to try others so it lasts longer. 
In reality, we match the comments above about knowing each other so well, others may be good, but can't match what we have. |
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Wouldn't say it's better but more different experience.
K sometimes wants someone bigger than me just for sex but with me it's more intimate type of sex with her.
And for more also just feeling of being with someone else. |
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"Not sure if too many will admit it but you gone on meets as a couple or if your a stag and vixen you slept with someone's who better than hubby ? I haven't but I know of one couple whose wife did much to the hubby's displeasure
This happened to me in London when I lived there. I met this couple around mid 40s. I was in my 30s and I was banging away the wife while husband was sat on chair watching as he had cum and was spent.
She starts orgasming as we going at it still and her mouth goes off about how she has never cum like this ever and it’s the best etc I am subtlety looking to my right at her hubby and see he us getting stressed so jumped off and said I need loo. They started having this huge argument I could hear so I got my clothes on from living room and just left "
I think it was the build up to the meet, how they both felt, perhaps she was pissed off with him or wanted to show dominance. But to think it was all down to your prowess and masculinity is laughable and honestly childish. Couples have so many different stimulants and situations in their lives, trust me it wasn’t just you. |
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I have been to adult parties before I met my now wife. I went to one that was mindblowingly memorable. A few years after I met my now wife I took her to an adult party. That night turned her into the woman I have had the best sex in my life with. She is also the only woman I have actually made love to. She still turns me on after 20 years she is the one I think about when masturbating.I know there is much more mind blowing sex ahead.
Just typed this with one hand… |
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C has had some mind blowing orgasms with others when we’ve all been playing together. That’s because everyone has been working towards building the heat and the situation has been red hot! It’s not one person, it’s the situation that sends her over the edge 
Are they better than with me? They aren’t for me to compare and I honestly want her to have as many incredible orgasms as possible.
They are a sight to behold and everyone says they’ve never experienced orgasms like it
K |
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100% L has better sex with other men than she does with me.
I'll openly admit I'm rubbish at sex. I honestly have a small cock and last no more than 30 seconds i often cum as soon as i enter her.
Does it bother me. No. Are we a rock solid couple who are there in every sense for each other. Yes. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"100% L has better sex with other men than she does with me.
I'll openly admit I'm rubbish at sex. I honestly have a small cock and last no more than 30 seconds i often cum as soon as i enter her.
Does it bother me. No. Are we a rock solid couple who are there in every sense for each other. Yes."
I absolutely adore your honesty and there’s so much more to a relationship than sex.
The O’s xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It would need to be a hell of a shag to break a 42 year marriage. It hasn’t happened yet, as much as I’ve appreciated the guys, they have never been a match to my husband. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We are on the scene for shared experiences as a couple, and nothing will ever beat the feeling of sex with someone you completely trust and connect with at all levels. I'm sure we will share many hot experiences as a couple but personally speaking, I doubt I'd ever enjoy sex as much with anyone else as I enjoy it with J.
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"100% L has better sex with other men than she does with me.
I'll openly admit I'm rubbish at sex. I honestly have a small cock and last no more than 30 seconds i often cum as soon as i enter her.
Does it bother me. No. Are we a rock solid couple who are there in every sense for each other. Yes.
I absolutely adore your honesty and there’s so much more to a relationship than sex.
The O’s xx"
Thanks.
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"Not sure if too many will admit it but you gone on meets as a couple or if your a stag and vixen you slept with someone's who better than hubby ? "
I’ll never forget one of my Fab ladies saying to me; “Sex with your own partner? Where’s the fun in that?” |
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Actually had issues related to this with a woman who I met as part of a couple and she wanted to leave him for me as I was her "ideal man". I felt so bad for him and felt she was in the scene for the wrong reasons and that I also did not want to be part of breaking up a relationship so sadly had to cut my ties. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Absolutely not, after being together over 30 years we pretty much know exactly what each other likes during sex, we're very open and tell each other what hits the spot.. the wife is the only woman that's ever made me cum through oral for instance.
Sex with others is fun and exciting and that's the reason we started to swing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Almost every guy we've been with was better at sex than my husband but he is great at oral so we still have fun together. He loves watching so it's all about having fun together. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I personally believe that when you are start to rank or hierarchise your sexual experiences in terms of who was the best, you set yourself to fail and forgot that on the other end of this hierarchisation, there are humans with feelings. Especially and essentially if the one you are comparing with is your partner.
Of course there would be some experiences that felt ‘better’ than others and it would be due to a plethora of factors, including contexts. Indeed, as it has been said the connection between romantic partners and different sexual partners is totally different. Doesn’t mean that one cancel the other. And it shouldn’t be seen as such either, well at least, in my opinion. |
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I hope that the guys that my partner swings with are as good in bed as possible. Some may even technically be better than me.
But I'm confident that no other guy will compete with me for her, once you take the years we've been together into account. That's why we can swing. |
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I'm pretty certain K has had this. I know when after one particular guy who was quite girthy that she felt stretched for a while. My cock didn't do the trick for a while lol.
Care to elaborate K? X |
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"I'm pretty certain K has had this. I know when after one particular guy who was quite girthy that she felt stretched for a while. My cock didn't do the trick for a while lol.
Care to elaborate K? X"
All ears |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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As long as your secure in yourself I don’t think this should be a problem for most swingers.
When we first got into this stuff I might have struggled to process another man be better than me, but now I’d welcome it.
As yet we haven’t met a guy whose come anywhere near but hopefully one day
Why would I want my wife to have mediocre sex?
I actually think it would be a great turn on watching her cumming so hard on some studs fat cock.
I think the added element of it being someone new and the taboo nature of Hotwifing would add an element of excitement that could lead something extra that perhaps can’t be had in an established relationship.
Not necessarily something better but certainly different so potentially extremely exciting.
Wouldn’t have a problem at all if she had the best sex of her life with someone else as I would be part of that experience, either watching or just by allowing/encouraging her to do it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course someone might be bigger or have some moves that you haven't had before but ultimately sex with stranger wont compare with someone that you know, love and care for.
It will be exciting and new but that doesn't mean better just different. |
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Alit of couples reassuring there parents on this one lol
For me bell yes it’s always better as mine not horny or even like sex
But making love is always better with her as that only happens with her , not sure it means the same to her but for me it’s incredible when it happens |
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By *ockforplay66Man
over a year ago
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Sadly, this was exactly the reason why first wife and I split up. We met another guy for a 3some and he managed to turn her head, she met him solo many times. Eventually, she preferred him and ended up leaving me. Within 2 months of our divorce, she married him. |
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"Sadly, this was exactly the reason why first wife and I split up. We met another guy for a 3some and he managed to turn her head, she met him solo many times. Eventually, she preferred him and ended up leaving me. Within 2 months of our divorce, she married him. "
Ffs thats heavy man. |
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"Sadly, this was exactly the reason why first wife and I split up. We met another guy for a 3some and he managed to turn her head, she met him solo many times. Eventually, she preferred him and ended up leaving me. Within 2 months of our divorce, she married him. "
Do you mind?? Or is it the case you loved her so much you just want her to be happy? |
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"Better at sex? Personally I don't think sex with a relative stranger would ever be better than sex with someone you love and know inside out. It will be different and exciting because of that. "
I agree with this. As the attachment and emotions make it better with your partner. Have I had amazing sex with people I've not been with.. God yes.
But nothing compares to the intimacy with my partner xx |
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By *ockforplay66Man
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"Sadly, this was exactly the reason why first wife and I split up. We met another guy for a 3some and he managed to turn her head, she met him solo many times. Eventually, she preferred him and ended up leaving me. Within 2 months of our divorce, she married him.
Do you mind?? Or is it the case you loved her so much you just want her to be happy? "
I didn’t mind at first as she was literally getting the best of both worlds. Was pissed if when we split, although even after the divorce, still fucked her from time to time, even after she married him |
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Every sexual experience I’ve had with another partner throughout our journey has been completely unique, some even unforgettable but I wouldn’t say any would beat the intimacy, bond and connection I have with my wife. The sex we have with others is recreational or sex for fun, sometimes intimate sometimes pure carnal hedonism. The reason we indulge in the lifestyle is because we both love and trust each other, are extremely perverse and enjoy sampling the pleasures of the flesh this lifestyle gifts us. |
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Met a couple at Le Boudoir and ended up in a private room for a threesome. As I was fucking her she kept telling him that it was amazing to be fucked properly. Was a really weird dynamic and while she was great it was very weird and he looked desperately sad which wasn't particularly fun but maybe they had a cuck dynamic going on. |
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By *RWoodyCouple
over a year ago
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I've only one comparison to go on so not exactly a lot, but, was he better than R? No. Not by a mile, it was totally different, theres not that connection there.
Now was it good? Such a different question, and a very different answer 
J&R x |
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This may sound strange, but it's a different experience - in y 20s I had a few lovely girlfriends, pretty and fun and we had good sex...I the ended up with an older woman who took sex to another level! Her sex drive, enthusiasm, willingness to do things the girlfriends would not, meant that sex with her was amazing...probably not beaten since. Would I have married her - no! Same with another FB in my 30s amazingly sexy and great in bed but a nightmare otherwise. Sex is one part of a happy life so I believe you can get amazing sex but the rest would not work for happiness |
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Isn’t that sort of the point? Finding different people with different techniques?
If I like something then I’ll get hubby to try and replicate it
The the only time it might have been a problem is a guy we met on holiday. He had a very curved cock and was bigger than hubby (not massively so). It literally rubbed places that hadn’t been rubbed before. I am lucky that I cum easily through PIV, but that one had me bouncing of the ceiling literally seconds in.
Coming down, I glanced over to stag and he was in literal Stag heaven, he experienced compersion to a point he nearly came in his cage
K xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Think sex with a partner is much better as much more relaxed no pressure and aware of people’s limits where as if you meet some one new it’s pressure to preform maybe overstepping the mark and just no connection |
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