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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago
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"I’m yet to go to a proper club meet. What was your first experience like? I feel it could be a little intimidating your first time!  "
we same wanting to go to one but we keep putting it off |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I was intimidated before entering the club and hung around for ages before ringing the bell. So glad I did had an amazing time. Don’t always play which is fine because everyone is so friendly. |
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First visit we weee very nervous, but if you go with no expectation to play and just relax and de social you will love it. If you do get to play then it’s a bonus, we didn’t play on our first visit even though we did get invited to, we had agreed before that we wouldn’t, but got to know a few people and exchanged Contact details.
When we talked about it the next day it was clear we were both keen to play so arranged another visit, even contacted people we had met on the first visit to see if they were going, within an hour of arriving on our second visit Kelly was in the hot tub having fun with a couple.
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"First visit we weee very nervous, but if you go with no expectation to play and just relax and de social you will love it. If you do get to play then it’s a bonus, we didn’t play on our first visit even though we did get invited to, we had agreed before that we wouldn’t, but got to know a few people and exchanged Contact details.
When we talked about it the next day it was clear we were both keen to play so arranged another visit, even contacted people we had met on the first visit to see if they were going, within an hour of arriving on our second visit Kelly was in the hot tub having fun with a couple.
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Exactly this! But we'd add, do your homework on which club to attend on which night.
Treat it as you would a night out in any nice bar/club.
Approach people you like the look of, be confident but not cocky and learn how to take rejection without being offended. Sooner or later you'll click with someone or some people then take it from there.
We really couldn't recommend it enough.
Good luck
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