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Impromptu or planned meets?!?!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi guys,
Which do most people prefer most? Those meets that you've planned or the ones where you decide on the spur of the moment that you want some fun, put out a post and 2 hours later you meet up?!?!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With my FB we have to arrange well ahead of time as we live qite a distance apart. I love the build up and the anticipation of seeing him.
As far as anyone else goes, I prefer impromptu meets, as it can be a bit nerve wracking waiting to meet a new person and wondering if it's going to be any good. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi guys,
Which do most people prefer most? Those meets that you've planned or the ones where you decide on the spur of the moment that you want some fun, put out a post and 2 hours later you meet up?!?! "
Up to this weekend meets except clubs were always planned and at least a couple of days in the planning. Saturday evening was at a loose end, got online and two hours later fantastic fun lady was at my door. Great fun and excitement,now certainly open to both planned and spontaneous meets. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We rately plan meets, the most weve planned ahead is probably deciding on the morning to meet later that same day
There have been the odd occasions over the last 3 years we have planned longer than that but they are very rare and involve 'special' people! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Pretty much all of ours have to be planned - it is the only way we can do it with work and family. I have to say that I love the build up to a planned meet, for me that is all part of it.
Only managed a spontaneous meet once and that was with someone that we had already been chatting to. Although that was fun, I think planned wins for us as I love building up the anticipation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Out of the two I prefer the planned meets, especially when you've been exchanging messages, talking on the phone, camming for a significant amount of time.. slowly building up anticipation to the in the flesh meet for real!! |
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"luv both .. variety is the spice of life i guess "
Me too! although I do find the planned ones are more likely to show-up! I've tried a couple of times to do same day and have been left waiting...alone, the thrill of the chase had passed I guess. Others do show tho (like today!) |
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"hope u ate him alive curls in ur trademark style !! go girl go !!  "
Them, actually! A regular guy texted to say could he come over? I was in chat at the time, and a young man asked if he could join in! Teehee..... |
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Never ever planned or arranged private meets..
We are party people so prefer the meeting at clubs or parties,than the long drawn out episode of the internet.Also we find if its to arranged its just not a turn on .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Definately spontaneous meets. I find planning ahead is not very horny at all, but I do recognise the downside of this. Some people are big planners and that might work for them. Same as people who plan what they are going to do during a meet, it just leaves me cold. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The only last minute meet has put me right off... We had been chatting for a while, the texts got a little steamy, so we decided to just go for it! What a let down. He arrived, but once it came down to fun, he wanted bareback. Big NO NO for me, so he then procedes to tell me, he cant fuck with a condom on as it makes him go limp, and boy he wernt kidding... Hence, he left, cos i refused to go bareback. So no sex and left totally frustrated. I should have just stuck to my wand, its much more fun!
All my meets are planned in advance now, and I definitely make sure they are condom friendly! |
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