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By *um6a9fun OP Man
over a year ago
Messy End |
Open to all and a little random, but I’m curious to know how everyone else decides to approach or reply to someone?
1, are their interests list more important than their text or photos?
2, is location important?
3, Boobs or bum, and would you say no if your favourite wasn’t to your liking?
4, Anything that definitely gets a response?
Me
Interests
No
Bum and yes
Pubic hair |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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First I look at location, then I look at his profile, if he's got no pictures or very little on his bio, then I just pass him by, I have to be in his age range, if I'm 10 years out, I'm not interested as that's the age he's looking for, |
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I don't go looking and haven't sent a first contact message in 3 years but if someone gets in touch the first things I look at are age and location.
After that it's all about consistency.
If the collar doesn't match the cuffs in regard to pics and bio or their verification trail tells a different story to their message, it's a hard no.
I'm attracted to people on a similar journey and not those who have been on their journey for many years and are jaded. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
Sandwich |
"Open to all and a little random, but I’m curious to know how everyone else decides to approach or reply to someone?
1, are their interests list more important than their text or photos?
2, is location important?
3, Boobs or bum, and would you say no if your favourite wasn’t to your liking?
4, Anything that definitely gets a response?
Me
Interests
No
Bum and yes
Pubic hair "
1. Profile as a whole.
2. Location is very important.
3. Both equally, absolutely not!
4. Mentions motorbikes or has photos of bikes. |
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When looking it was always
Attraction - there has to be something about them i.e face or body.
Height - 9 times out of 10 I'd go for Women smaller than me.
Past meets - If 90% of their actual meets are tall, very attractive Men with gym bodies and huge cocks, I wouldn't take it any further as I'm neither of them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What they look like, location and similar interests really. I'm not super fussy as in have lots of preferences but I have to find them attractive and feel like we would get on. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’ll always reply to genuine and interesting messages If engaging enough without even looking at the profile, if I’m still further intrigued, I’ll go and have a read. |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
If course, I realise that fab is a jungle and the fittest survive, BUT.
So many ladies/couples say that they want a coherent message from someone making an effort. So I occasionally send one to those that I’m attracted to and dont filter out my age/status…… and in response get a one line message. Fair enough if it’s a polite decline but mostly it’s just a zero effort back. Deflating. |
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"If course, I realise that fab is a jungle and the fittest survive, BUT.
So many ladies/couples say that they want a coherent message from someone making an effort. So I occasionally send one to those that I’m attracted to and dont filter out my age/status…… and in response get a one line message. Fair enough if it’s a polite decline but mostly it’s just a zero effort back. Deflating."
They probably answering back because just to be polite as you put the effort in but not 100% sure about you. It's a buyers market and the men need to sell their wares. |
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