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By *aluk OP Man
over a year ago
Solihull/Birmingham |
I’ve found out that a sexy blonde that used to work for me is on here, as a couple, described as a hot wife looking for bulls.
We haven’t seen each other in 5 years, but always flirted. Always found her sexy.
Her pics are in tight dresses, lingerie etc.
I have wanked over them sooo many times
I wonder what she would think of she knew?
Would love to fuck her.
I haven’t reached out as think she would panic.
She shows her face in 1 pic so it’s defo her.
What you guys think?
What should I do?
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
I'd leave it alone if it was me to be honest,but that's me.
If you do go for it,be sure to tell her who you are right away ,it's proper creepy when people say they know you ,but don't tell you who they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Personally, I would leave it. Maybe if you really want to rest the water then like a few photos or send a wink and see if you get a reply.
I often find that men misinterpret women being friendly with flirting. |
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"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??
That's just grim"
Yep, I figure you have two choices, either grow a pair and shoot your shot, or just block/ignore now. Just remember if you know her, she probably knows you. Don't be a creep.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Unless I'm missing something, I see no harm in dropping a message clearly saying who you are with a face picture, if she likes you then she'll reply, if not you know the answer |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??"
Oh please…..don’t waste a friend request on her to have wank material - please send to us instead. That’s just what we look for in a guy - PPPPPLLLLLEEEEAAAAASSSSSSEEEEE send us a blind friend request - it’s what we, and other couples and women, crave.
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Did you pick up on the sarcasm ?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a similar issue where I work in quite a public forum, and on browsing I found at least 4 people and 2 couples I know in my local area, I have quite a distinctive tattoo and I spotted one lady from hers there lies the dilemma of a profile pic that isn’t like 99.9 percent of men on here and whacking their dick on it, I could be fuck it they are on here but I like to keep my work life separate from my private  |
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"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??
Oh please…..don’t waste a friend request on her to have wank material - please send to us instead. That’s just what we look for in a guy - PPPPPLLLLLEEEEAAAAASSSSSSEEEEE send us a blind friend request - it’s what we, and other couples and women, crave.
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Did you pick up on the sarcasm ? "
You’re living dangerously there. You’re assuming that they will have got to the end of your post before messaging you!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??"
Right there, it goes creepy. Its not the attraction, its what you think about doing with it. |
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Move on. Don't spoil her fun. I've seen a number of people on here that I know outside of Fab.
No intention of mixing Fab and friends. A can of worms I don't need open.
Mostly because I'm not sure how discreet they would be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??
This is why guys get a bad rep on here you utter scumbag
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Sadly yes it is.
Looks like OP has also been green arrow busted as well.
KJ |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Thanks for the comments, even the stupid ones.
Clearly I won’t message and say hi ? It’s ? I’ve seen you on a swingers site
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But you’ll send her a friend invite?  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I find this a tad disturbing and creepy but maybe it's just me......you don't want her to panic or undecided if she should know but you started a post along these lines ? |
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By *aluk OP Man
over a year ago
Solihull/Birmingham |
Thanks Melrose.
And that is exactly what I will do. And haven’t indicated anything other than that.
Wasn’t intending to be ‘creepy’ as some of the messages have indicated.
I was merely saying that I had come across someone that I knew and was asking for other people’s experiences.
Thanks for being so polite. |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
"I haven’t reached out as think she would panic.
What you guys think? What should I do?
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You’ve answered your own question.
Don’t reach out as it will cause her to panic.
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"Unless I'm missing something, I see no harm in dropping a message clearly saying who you are with a face picture, if she likes you then she'll reply, if not you know the answer "
For us, the problem is the power dynamic. If someone messaged us to say they recognised us from work, we'd feel hugely vulnerable. Even if it's totally benign, we'd feel there was some implied threat that we'd be outed to mutual colleagues.
Not saying the OP would do this and the fact the woman in question has a public face pic implies she's probably not too fussed about anonymity. But still, it's always best to approach people on fab from a level playing field. You knowing something they don't know skews the power dynamic. |
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"Thanks guys. Would love to send her a friend request so I have more wank material ??
Oh please…..don’t waste a friend request on her to have wank material - please send to us instead. That’s just what we look for in a guy -PPPPPLLLLLEEEEAAAAASSSSSSEEEEE send us a blind friend request - it’s what we, and other couples and women, crave.
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Did you pick up on the sarcasm ? "
I want you so bad
i would ruin you
i will be the best youve ever had
leave him I will take care if you
fancy earning some £££
Here are some ideas foryour first 5 messages. Dont bother waiting for a reply. She will be too turned on to respond
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I’ve found out that a sexy blonde that used to work for me is on here, as a couple, described as a hot wife looking for bulls.
We haven’t seen each other in 5 years, but always flirted. Always found her sexy.
Her pics are in tight dresses, lingerie etc.
I have wanked over them sooo many times
I wonder what she would think of she knew?
Would love to fuck her.
I haven’t reached out as think she would panic.
She shows her face in 1 pic so it’s defo her.
What you guys think?
What should I do?
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