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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For me- definitely personality. As I can work with and enjoy a smaller cock but I can't deal with a massive dickhead. "
Phew!!! Thank god there are lovely women like you on this site |
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For us, there has to be a balance!
Could be different for single woman, but, if Jeni is after a large cock, or I wish to see her taking one, then the personality really wouldn’t matter to much as not going to be seeing them again or on a regular basis as that is not our thing.
However agree that if you were going to spend more time socialising etc then 1000% the personally would be equally if not more important! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"For us, there has to be a balance!
Could be different for single woman, but, if Jeni is after a large cock, or I wish to see her taking one, then the personality really wouldn’t matter to much as not going to be seeing them again or on a regular basis as that is not our thing.
However agree that if you were going to spend more time socialising etc then 1000% the personally would be equally if not more important!"
Got to be both! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It's a bit of both for me, and the reason I say that is I don't like large cocks. I like average size (I like to be able to enjoy any sexual or oral position without worrying about having my teeth bashed out or my tonsils bashed if you know what I mean  ) but a good personality is very important, why would you want to have fun with someone if they're personality shows they are a complete twat! |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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Personality every single time (unless it's a micro penis). Have done some scientific research in the field and there does seem to be *some* correlation between the size of the dick and the size of the dick |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Been told got personality
Apparently at work I’m arsehole (can live with that )
Only have little cock I’m afraid
Always taught the hands and arms used for cuddling
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"Personality every single time (unless it's a micro penis). Have done some scientific research in the field and there does seem to be *some* correlation between the size of the dick and the size of the dick"
This does seem to hold true - as though.. my cock is so huge im doing you a favour letting you use it type of attitude
Im Mr average in the pants and mr awesome in the bants
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"100% personality. Swinging is just as much about the social side as the actual sex so if all you've got to show is your dick size then your pretty useless!"
In your opinion. We are all different, for us, or indeed in our opinion, a guy no matter how funny or how warm his personality is, unless he has the cock size and will go further, is clean and smooth down there, then he would be pretty useless to us. |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
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"Personality every single time (unless it's a micro penis). Have done some scientific research in the field and there does seem to be *some* correlation between the size of the dick and the size of the dick
This does seem to hold true - as though.. my cock is so huge im doing you a favour letting you use it type of attitude
Im Mr average in the pants and mr awesome in the bants
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Mr average in the pants and mr awesome in the bants
Love it! This should be your strap line, Todger!
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By *enatton2Couple
over a year ago
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We never ask for a cock pic before a meet but we do like to get a gauge for what kind of person we are meeting with a chat before hand. There’s a lot of things I find a massive turn off and will end any chance of a meet, cock size isn’t one of them.
I actually like the moment of reveal too  |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.
What's more important
Cock size or general personality?"
Personality can satisfy you more than any dick |
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By *eliWoman
over a year ago
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Personality. I love penetrative sex but I'm at the point where I'd be happy with lots of chatting and good kissing. Also, cock size isn't a guarantee of a good time is it? There's such an emphasis on p in v but there's so much you can do! |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.
What's more important
Cock size or general personality?"
Situationally dependant. As with many things on Fab and in swinging.
For a once only club hook up personality may be less important. I also wonder how many women who do gang bangs would care about a guys personality when he's one of many in a queue. Likewise for those looking for pure no strings fun then as long as the guy is capable of basic conversation and doesn't communicate via grunts and pointing, then physical attributes may take priority.
Some will be looking for long term or repeat meets where the personality takes a higher position in their priorities.
There's honestly no right answer unless you only look to meet in one specific way. And there's nothing at all wrong with wanting different things at different times.
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"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.
What's more important
Cock size or general personality?
Situationally dependant. As with many things on Fab and in swinging.
For a once only club hook up personality may be less important. I also wonder how many women who do gang bangs would care about a guys personality when he's one of many in a queue. Likewise for those looking for pure no strings fun then as long as the guy is capable of basic conversation and doesn't communicate via grunts and pointing, then physical attributes may take priority.
Some will be looking for long term or repeat meets where the personality takes a higher position in their priorities.
There's honestly no right answer unless you only look to meet in one specific way. And there's nothing at all wrong with wanting different things at different times.
A"
this 100% |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"A good spanner doesn’t fix your car. A good mechanic does."
But of course a good mechanic needs the right tool for the right job.
No point going in with a 10mm spanner when the task requires a 50mm.
Yes, a big cock isn't a magic wand that guarantees endless organisation and a shag to beat all shags.
But if the person on the receiving end has a preference for them then the best personality on the planet won't be of any use.
There will be those with great personalities and big dicks, those with one or the other.....and the poor souls with neither.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"A good spanner doesn’t fix your car. A good mechanic does.
But of course a good mechanic needs the right tool for the right job.
No point going in with a 10mm spanner when the task requires a 50mm.
Yes, a big cock isn't a magic wand that guarantees endless organisation and a shag to beat all shags.
But if the person on the receiving end has a preference for them then the best personality on the planet won't be of any use.
There will be those with great personalities and big dicks, those with one or the other.....and the poor souls with neither.
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*orgasms, not organisation FFS! 
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"For a relationship? I would say personality is more important.
But for hook ups on Fab? Surely it has to be cock size.. you can't fuck a personality "
If the personality stinks there'll be no fucking anyway though. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"good to see diferent opinions on this one . put the sho on the other foot , a woman with a great personallity , or a great body ? dont say both !!"
'Great body' is subjective.
I think most people would want to have sex with someone they find sexually attractive regardless of their gender |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.
What's more important
Cock size or general personality?"
As a man I think too much is made of cock size. It’s what you do with it that counts. Also personality is important because that’s who you are. |
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"A good spanner doesn’t fix your car. A good mechanic does.
But of course a good mechanic needs the right tool for the right job.
No point going in with a 10mm spanner when the task requires a 50mm.
Yes, a big cock isn't a magic wand that guarantees endless organisation and a shag to beat all shags.
But if the person on the receiving end has a preference for them then the best personality on the planet won't be of any use.
There will be those with great personalities and big dicks, those with one or the other.....and the poor souls with neither.
A"
Winner winner chicken dinner |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Why is it either or? I bring both in abundance!"
Because this is the fab forum. Guys with big dicks can't be nice/ interesting, pretty girls are stuck up, gym fit people are vacuous. The list goes on!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes… personality…
Cue guy moan in 3, 2,…
If that’s the case why will women not entertain even a social with me. I’m a nice enough guy!
It’s (on here) a big chunk of looks, then personality then cock size for most (not all) women
Guy moan over.
But seriously there is some truth in that statement. Personality is difficult to portray on profile but looks… yeah. Looks are easy. |
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"Women have hundreds of well endowed men to choose from on here but i am pretty sure the reason I do ok with fab isn’t anything to do with my dick but rather my personality "
From having a nosy at your profile, it would appear that you have both |
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"Women have hundreds of well endowed men to choose from on here but i am pretty sure the reason I do ok with fab isn’t anything to do with my dick but rather my personality "
This is Fab, apparently you are a unicorn if you have both |
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"Women have hundreds of well endowed men to choose from on here but i am pretty sure the reason I do ok with fab isn’t anything to do with my dick but rather my personality
From having a nosy at your profile, it would appear that you have both "
Just looked at your profile and I’m very flattered. I’m happy with my appendage but it doesn’t define me xx |
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"Women have hundreds of well endowed men to choose from on here but i am pretty sure the reason I do ok with fab isn’t anything to do with my dick but rather my personality
From having a nosy at your profile, it would appear that you have both
Just looked at your profile and I’m very flattered. I’m happy with my appendage but it doesn’t define me xx"
Thank you  That’s exactly the type of attitude that most women like! Someone who is confident enough within themselves and what they have to offer that they don’t even need to mention their dick size xx |
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Many times I've been approached by women at the sort of clubs where you take your clothes off. I've never had that happen at a club where you keep them on.
I can only think that my personality gets a lot bigger when I take my clothes off. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Surely it’s about balancing those scales. No one wants to be split in two do they? (Maybe they do)?
What about a confident guy with an nice sized cock "
"Nice size" is subjective
To some women a larger one is a "nice size" |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Personality is far more important to me as I need to be comfortable with guy joining us . Plus I’m not fan of big cocks more average size for me xx "
being relaxed is a really important part of it |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"Both. I had average cock sizes but nice personality. Still doesn't entice me to see them again and again. I struggle with sexual chemistry, it's really rare for to experience "
Big cock good personality for you then |
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"Both. I had average cock sizes but nice personality. Still doesn't entice me to see them again and again. I struggle with sexual chemistry, it's really rare for to experience
Big cock good personality for you then "
Yes rare to find on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Both. I had average cock sizes but nice personality. Still doesn't entice me to see them again and again. I struggle with sexual chemistry, it's really rare for to experience
Big cock good personality for you then
Yes rare to find on fab "
Probably not just on fab |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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So last night got a message from a nice looking couple they said I fit what they are looking for so looked at their profile and yes seemed so then I got asked how big my dick was so I said average they replied "minimum 8+inches sorry" then blocked me wow |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So last night got a message from a nice looking couple they said I fit what they are looking for so looked at their profile and yes seemed so then I got asked how big my dick was so I said average they replied "minimum 8+inches sorry" then blocked me wow"
Delightful! Guess they weren’t after the personality as much |
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"So last night got a message from a nice looking couple they said I fit what they are looking for so looked at their profile and yes seemed so then I got asked how big my dick was so I said average they replied "minimum 8+inches sorry" then blocked me wow"
Yes for me too, it's a turn off. I came here to satisfy my sexual desires. Average cocks can be fun but not completely satisfying for a size queen. My free time is rare so I need the right person to spend it with. |
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"So last night got a message from a nice looking couple they said I fit what they are looking for so looked at their profile and yes seemed so then I got asked how big my dick was so I said average they replied "minimum 8+inches sorry" then blocked me wow
Delightful! Guess they weren’t after the personality as much"
No they wanted both...like me I would want the same. There's million of choices here for couples and single women. Why settle for less? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So last night got a message from a nice looking couple they said I fit what they are looking for so looked at their profile and yes seemed so then I got asked how big my dick was so I said average they replied "minimum 8+inches sorry" then blocked me wow
Yes for me too, it's a turn off. I came here to satisfy my sexual desires. Average cocks can be fun but not completely satisfying for a size queen. My free time is rare so I need the right person to spend it with."
yeah you got a point preference and all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"So last night got a message from a nice looking couple they said I fit what they are looking for so looked at their profile and yes seemed so then I got asked how big my dick was so I said average they replied "minimum 8+inches sorry" then blocked me wow
Delightful! Guess they weren’t after the personality as much
No they wanted both...like me I would want the same. There's million of choices here for couples and single women. Why settle for less?"
I take your point. I’ve all want to find someone (or more) that satisfy all of our desires. Tough thing for the less well endowed to hear even so  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet "
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size  |
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"So last night got a message from a nice looking couple they said I fit what they are looking for so looked at their profile and yes seemed so then I got asked how big my dick was so I said average they replied "minimum 8+inches sorry" then blocked me wow
Delightful! Guess they weren’t after the personality as much
No they wanted both...like me I would want the same. There's million of choices here for couples and single women. Why settle for less?
I take your point. I’ve all want to find someone (or more) that satisfy all of our desires. Tough thing for the less well endowed to hear even so "
Not really. Majority of women prefer average cock by the sounds of it. So it's not really an issue. Only for us size queens lol |
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size "
See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say |
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size "
You can't really tell if the woman is tight or not. Plus the size of the cock, especially girth affects how it feels inside? |
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size
See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say "
Chilli sauce or garlic mayo?
It may well have an impact on your decision to meet |
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size
You can't really tell if the woman is tight or not. Plus the size of the cock, especially girth affects how it feels inside?"
Simple dimensions aren’t the only measure, I completely agree |
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size
See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say "
From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.
Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size
See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say
Chilli sauce or garlic mayo?
It may well have an impact on your decision to meet"
Possibly but I wouldn't want to upset her if her even if her vag looked like a 4 week old axe wound |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size
See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say
From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.
Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality "
It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.
(Wondering how I measure my personality) |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size
You can't really tell if the woman is tight or not. Plus the size of the cock, especially girth affects how it feels inside?"
You can definitely get a good idea from seeing it .. I can .. know what to look for ! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size
See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say
From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.
Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality
It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.
(Wondering how I measure my personality)"
Well I messaged a profile for a private party sent a face pic got messaged back saying very handsome yes you'd be welcome had to send body pic and because I don't have abs I then got told no so proper deflated seems good looks a personality isn't enough |
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size
See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say
From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.
Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality
It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.
(Wondering how I measure my personality)
Well I messaged a profile for a private party sent a face pic got messaged back saying very handsome yes you'd be welcome had to send body pic and because I don't have abs I then got told no so proper deflated seems good looks a personality isn't enough "
Sounds like to me to avoid disappointment with these messages, is to post more body and cock pics. Then if the face isn't want they're looking for then you really know the answer. As it's annoying playing talk tennis with someone when it could easily be prevented with more information on their profile. I don't just really go there anymore. If there's very little on their profile and they didn't offer much in the initial message, I just ignore and move on |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size
See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say
From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.
Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality
It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.
(Wondering how I measure my personality)
Well I messaged a profile for a private party sent a face pic got messaged back saying very handsome yes you'd be welcome had to send body pic and because I don't have abs I then got told no so proper deflated seems good looks a personality isn't enough "
Where's this party bro I'm going haha na I'm joking that's bad man fuck em mate |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size
See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say
From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.
Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality
It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.
(Wondering how I measure my personality)
Well I messaged a profile for a private party sent a face pic got messaged back saying very handsome yes you'd be welcome had to send body pic and because I don't have abs I then got told no so proper deflated seems good looks a personality isn't enough
Sounds like to me to avoid disappointment with these messages, is to post more body and cock pics. Then if the face isn't want they're looking for then you really know the answer. As it's annoying playing talk tennis with someone when it could easily be prevented with more information on their profile. I don't just really go there anymore. If there's very little on their profile and they didn't offer much in the initial message, I just ignore and move on"
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size
See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say
From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.
Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality
It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.
(Wondering how I measure my personality)
Well I messaged a profile for a private party sent a face pic got messaged back saying very handsome yes you'd be welcome had to send body pic and because I don't have abs I then got told no so proper deflated seems good looks a personality isn't enough
Where's this party bro I'm going haha na I'm joking that's bad man fuck em mate "
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"OP whats more important to you in a meet? A womens personality or her Vag?
Personality, I can confirm I've never asked for a vag pic prior to a meet
Hard to find an angle that clearly shows vag size
See this is a good point what if I asked for a vag pic and it looked like a dropped kebab should I say
From what I read, men seem to not care about the looks of a vagina.
Personally, if the guy had a 6 inch cock but over 5 girth, I would be happy with his girthy cock and good personality
It may matter less to some, but I think the appearance of a vagina has the same significance to many men as the appearance of a cock will to women.
(Wondering how I measure my personality)
Well I messaged a profile for a private party sent a face pic got messaged back saying very handsome yes you'd be welcome had to send body pic and because I don't have abs I then got told no so proper deflated seems good looks a personality isn't enough
Where's this party bro I'm going haha na I'm joking that's bad man fuck em mate
Haha have a gooden lol I give up"
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"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.
What's more important
Cock size or general personality?"
I see a lot who like a big personality. |
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By *ames-77Man
over a year ago
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"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.
What's more important
Cock size or general personality?
I see a lot who like a big personality. "
Good stuff |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Perhaps the whole point on here is the freedom of choice.
Quite simply people are allowed to choose what they want. It’s a swingers site isn’t it.
Personally i would rule out some on seeing their vag. I like to spend a lot of time intimitely down there so it’s not to appeal to me. same with cocks… I might call myself a cock snob too but it’s got to look right for me to want to play.
But also doesn’t mean there aren’t exceptions to the rule. But humans are fickle and the initial starter for me is attraction and then exploring more. |
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"Perhaps the whole point on here is the freedom of choice.
Quite simply people are allowed to choose what they want. It’s a swingers site isn’t it.
Personally i would rule out some on seeing their vag. I like to spend a lot of time intimitely down there so it’s not to appeal to me. same with cocks… I might call myself a cock snob too but it’s got to look right for me to want to play.
But also doesn’t mean there aren’t exceptions to the rule. But humans are fickle and the initial starter for me is attraction and then exploring more. "
For me I need to be visually and sexually stimulated by the appearance of his cock and body. If he's got a crud attitude, I won't continue as he probably he a pain in the butt. I don't need that drama. But if he speaks to me the right way, looks hot in his photos then I will meet him. I want to know I will be really comfortable having his cock in my mouth. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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Personality for me. I tend to chat for a good while on here before I meet anyone if I can't get on with them then I won't meet them.And unless they have a cock pic on their profile I have never asked anyone I met before I met them about their cock size either. So ye I guess it's definitely personality for me.
The only time cock size would come into the equation at all is if it is the extreme either way in size. |
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I'd like both but if it had to be one or the other begrudgingly I'd go with personality. Afterall during a pre meet social it would be his personality that had me reaching into his pants in the first place. |
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I'm told I'm about average, but bring an above average game...
Unfortunately that doesn't seem to be the deciding metric for many on here.
I get the personality thing, but it's hard to judge a personality without chatting, and to chat you need to exchange messages...
Or converse on here or the chat rooms I guess. Still, let's hope our personalities shine through |
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"Cock size for sure x"
What if they have a huge dick but they cum in 10 seconds, grunt.. then tell you to get an uber asap because they want to play xbox alone in peace and order pizza.
Lol maybe the average schlong with the good personality would have been a better meet? |
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"Cock size for sure x
What if they have a huge dick but they cum in 10 seconds, grunt.. then tell you to get an uber asap because they want to play xbox alone in peace and order pizza.
Lol maybe the average schlong with the good personality would have been a better meet?"
Anyone can make up hypotheticals |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Cock size for sure x
What if they have a huge dick but they cum in 10 seconds, grunt.. then tell you to get an uber asap because they want to play xbox alone in peace and order pizza.
Lol maybe the average schlong with the good personality would have been a better meet?"
What if the average schlong gets stage fright and can't get hard? What if it lasts 15 seconds?
I suppose with the great personality you can talk your way out of her being left disappointed, using devastating wit and charm whilst she browses Fab looking for another guy.
As above.....anyone can come up with hypothetical scenarios.
People will like what they like. Big. Small. Average. Funny. Talkative. The strong silent type with no need for conversation. You can only be you and offer what you have.
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"Cock size for sure x
What if they have a huge dick but they cum in 10 seconds, grunt.. then tell you to get an uber asap because they want to play xbox alone in peace and order pizza.
Lol maybe the average schlong with the good personality would have been a better meet?"
This are things that can happen with a cock of any size .... |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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In my view this isn't an either/or question. We swing almost entirely in clubs. There, for one off play, overall attractiveness is key, and a cock that I find good looking, irrespective of size, is important. Personality is almost immaterial, though we have met, and kept in touch with, some guys with great personalities (and nice cocks). In terms of size, a very big cock is nice to look at, play with and wank, but I simply can't take one bigger than about eight inches. |
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"Cock size for sure x
What if they have a huge dick but they cum in 10 seconds, grunt.. then tell you to get an uber asap because they want to play xbox alone in peace and order pizza.
Lol maybe the average schlong with the good personality would have been a better meet?
Anyone can make up
hypotheticals"
Tbf it's the top to bottom look of the guy either appeals to me or put me off. So large and long doesn't even come in the equation if it's ugly looking |
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Not to sound like a total dick (appropriate for this thread no?!)
But I think any woman that thinks cock size is more important than personality for a meet (because you do have to talk to them and it's clear instantly when someone has 0 braincells) than I wouldn't wanna meet them.
Same goes for me, if a woman has 0 chat or just seems like there's only one basic part of her brain working, it doesn't matter how good she looks, I wouldn't care bothering.
Obviously club or stranger kink that doesn't apply. Just be hot |
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"Not to sound like a total dick (appropriate for this thread no?!)
But I think any woman that thinks cock size is more important than personality for a meet (because you do have to talk to them and it's clear instantly when someone has 0 braincells) than I wouldn't wanna meet them.
Same goes for me, if a woman has 0 chat or just seems like there's only one basic part of her brain working, it doesn't matter how good she looks, I wouldn't care bothering.
Obviously club or stranger kink that doesn't apply. Just be hot "
In clubs, people just come up to me and ask me to play without even knowing my name or voice...scary. I prefer the full package. Won't settle for anything less |
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"What a guy does with his hands, mind, imagination and personality outweighs the size of his cock by a considerable margin
How can you tell that from his profile?"
Usually a guy with 20 photos of only his cock on his profile has neither personality or imagination |
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Terrence Howard is notorious in Hollywood for the size of his member. You can google it. He has what would be called a SBC, and he has a terrible relationship history.
Sometimes God doesn't necessarily balance out what's in the pants with what's in the mind.
There is likely some correlation between penis size and personality. Which would go that many men have an obsession over their penis size. If these men are on the smaller size, then it'll likely increase their insecurities, resulting in so-called 'beta-male' behaviour. Conversely if a man is on the bigger size, then it'll likely increase their confidence, resulting in so-called 'alpha-male' behaviour.
In any case I think the majority of people are more nuanced than that. For every arrogant big dicked guy in a nude spa, you'll find an annoying small dicked guy. But more likely, there'll be so many average guys in the happy medium, that one of them will likely be the one everyone hates.
Point is I feel these sort of questions/polls have an ideological slant to them. An inference that people who have what is seen in society as a desirable trait, must be so fatally flawed in another area of their life, usually their personality.
Perhaps in some cases it's people projecting their own insecurities. Like an unattractive woman always making negative comments about an attractive woman. Assuming the happy and joyful pretty woman getting all the attention must have an ugly personality. When in reality it's the other way around.
I guess the conclusion is that:
The man with the ideal cock size and ideal general personality is more important. Not quite sure what that is, but I guess 4-Times married, wife-beating micro-penis Terrence Howard isn't it anyway. |
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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago
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"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.
What's more important
Cock size or general personality?"
Cock size is never a consideration for me, although I obviously have my preferences. I have to find someone's face attractive & then hope the personality is decent.
A guy could look like Jason Momoa, but if he was a bellend, I'd steer clear!! |
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"So ladies, as I've someone obsessed with his cock size in my inbox, I want to put it to the forum.
What's more important
Cock size or general personality?
I see a lot who like a big personality.
Good stuff "
Eeiiyyee thank you *takes a bow. |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
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I've never asked to see a cock pic before I've met anyone and as long as we get on and can have a laugh that's what it more important to me.
I wouldn't want to be naked with someone who I thought was a dick head even the thought of it it repulses me. So ye personality for me. |
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By *evonrobMan
over a year ago
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Great topic and just think it shows there’s someone for everyone! Men who aren’t blessed with massive Todgers probably have to work just that bit harder to impress, which is only right and proper. Hard to take a pic of “ personality” though! Lol |
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