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"Anyone a fan or not a fan of beards? What is it you like or don't like about them?"
I'm not a massive fan of them myself...my skin is very sensitive.
Don't like the look or feel of them too I have to say. |
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I really like them provided they aren’t too big or bushy and smell good. I prefer men with a rugged look so think they look much sexier than being clean shaven. I also like the feel of them when kissing and paired with sexy eyes, tattoos and good aftershave they are   |
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It’s funny every time we receive a message and I ask Mr what he thinks they always have a beard (I only show him messages from people that interest me) He’s beginning to think I have a beard fixation. He doesn’t have a beard  |
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So what is classed as a beard though, what sort of length?? I’m not meaning the obviously large ones, but more that at what point does stubble become a beard?? I usually keep trimmed to 2mm in the facial fuzz, shaving every week or 2. Some say no beards but stubble fine, hence wanting clarification (I know, it’s the whole WE, VWE, VVWE thing).
What I do have going for me though is because I am so fair, any growth I have is always really soft rather than spikey (I do occasionally use a conditioner  ) |
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over a year ago
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Massive fan of beards, and hairy men in general. I'm a very tactile person and love running my fingers through them. Also adds to the sensation when they go down on me. Love it! |
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Hahah the number of women who have run up and played with my beard on nights out, and want to plait it is crazy but always fun.
"Massive fan of beards, and hairy men in general. I'm a very tactile person and love running my fingers through them. Also adds to the sensation when they go down on me. Love it! "
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"Hahah the number of women who have run up and played with my beard on nights out, and want to plait it is crazy but always fun.
Massive fan of beards, and hairy men in general. I'm a very tactile person and love running my fingers through them. Also adds to the sensation when they go down on me. Love it! "
I would 100% do this! |
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"Anyone a fan or not a fan of beards? What is it you like or don't like about them?
I'm not a massive fan of them myself...my skin is very sensitive.
Don't like the look or feel of them too I have to say."
Exactly this. They're itchy and irritating. |
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Hubby has a beard which is usually quite short and very soft and has it for very personal reasons. The last time he was clean shaven was the day we buried our daughter he decided to have it as a physical reminder of her not that we need reminding |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Can’t say I like a proper beard! I like T’s long stubble style beard but a bushy beard isn’t for me! Don’t know what it is but they look scratchy and I feel like they’ve got bits of food in them  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Beards are so dividing, it seems people either love them or hate them with no middle ground at all.
One thing I’m picking up from the comments is the assumption bearded men are dirty and beards are itchy.
It isn’t true on either as long as you maintain them, condition, wax/oil and make an effort.
Personally I wouldn’t want to meet someone who was dirty and itchy beard or no beard..
The worst is when a woman assumes you will change your look just to sleep with them, that’s insanity, you’re either attracted to me or not, it’s not conditional to me shaving. |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"Beards are so dividing, it seems people either love them or hate them with no middle ground at all.
One thing I’m picking up from the comments is the assumption bearded men are dirty and beards are itchy.
It isn’t true on either as long as you maintain them, condition, wax/oil and make an effort.
Personally I wouldn’t want to meet someone who was dirty and itchy beard or no beard..
The worst is when a woman assumes you will change your look just to sleep with them, that’s insanity, you’re either attracted to me or not, it’s not conditional to me shaving. "
the amount of guys who message me and say id shave it off just to play with you is high ... there no way in hell i would want anyone to change the way they look or present themselves .. i would not meet anyone who thinks that way be proud of who you are and if you have a beard own it with pride ..just because a few dont like it dont mean you have to change ..anyway far more like it than those of us that dont ...those who say they would shave i just block and move on ...no one will appeal to everyone |
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"Can’t say I like a proper beard! I like T’s long stubble style beard but a bushy beard isn’t for me! Don’t know what it is but they look scratchy and I feel like they’ve got bits of food in them "
This is a common misconception, longer beards are softer than shorter ones. Short trimmed beards tend to be coarse and spikey, like stubble. Longer beards are just... Well, hair. As a rule, someone with a longer beard is more likely to pay attention to it too. Shampooing and conditioning, using beard oils, balms and butters to keep it soft and healthy, that sort of thing.
There's nothing I can do about your paranoia about food in it though, except to explain that I generally put food in my mouth rather than smearing it on my face... |
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I spend an insane amount on conditioners, balms, oils, dermal rollers and more.
Right now my beard is a little unweildly as I'm trying to change the shape, but it's soft, silky and smells of oud, cedar, amber beard wash, then I used basil, bergamot and citrus oil.
The longer my beard got the more I spend looking after it, when it was a box, it was literally number 5/6 clippers and done.
I even use more facial moisturizers and stuff now too.
"Can’t say I like a proper beard! I like T’s long stubble style beard but a bushy beard isn’t for me! Don’t know what it is but they look scratchy and I feel like they’ve got bits of food in them
This is a common misconception, longer beards are softer than shorter ones. Short trimmed beards tend to be coarse and spikey, like stubble. Longer beards are just... Well, hair. As a rule, someone with a longer beard is more likely to pay attention to it too. Shampooing and conditioning, using beard oils, balms and butters to keep it soft and healthy, that sort of thing.
There's nothing I can do about your paranoia about food in it though, except to explain that I generally put food in my mouth rather than smearing it on my face..."
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I've got a huge beard (wizard not witch haha), from bottom lip measures 40cm. I get lots of free products from online companies so I post on IG using them. Witch loves the beard, and gets very defensive when we go out as get lots of people wanting to stroke it, she doesnt mind if they ask first haha, but on the flip side lots don't like it, but what I find strange is a lot of time when people don't like beards they feel they to tell you. Anyway bearded or non-beard ML&R 3 |
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"I've got a huge beard (wizard not witch haha), from bottom lip measures 40cm. I get lots of free products from online companies so I post on IG using them. Witch loves the beard, and gets very defensive when we go out as get lots of people wanting to stroke it, she doesnt mind if they ask first haha, but on the flip side lots don't like it, but what I find strange is a lot of time when people don't like beards they feel they to tell you. Anyway bearded or non-beard ML&R 3"
I rocked a chest-length epic for a few years, I didn't actually get all that many strange women wanting to stroke it. Must be my resting bitch face.
I know what you mean about people feeling like they have to tell you they don't like beards though. Ok wow thanks for telling me I disgust you, you couldn't just not say anything then? |
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"I've got a huge beard (wizard not witch haha), from bottom lip measures 40cm. I get lots of free products from online companies so I post on IG using them. Witch loves the beard, and gets very defensive when we go out as get lots of people wanting to stroke it, she doesnt mind if they ask first haha, but on the flip side lots don't like it, but what I find strange is a lot of time when people don't like beards they feel they to tell you. Anyway bearded or non-beard ML&R 3
I rocked a chest-length epic for a few years, I didn't actually get all that many strange women wanting to stroke it. Must be my resting bitch face.
I know what you mean about people feeling like they have to tell you they don't like beards though. Ok wow thanks for telling me I disgust you, you couldn't just not say anything then?"
Haha absolutely that, sometimes I'll tell them I don't like their hair but often just thank them for their opinion and how valued it is haha, |
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over a year ago
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Need to be clean shaven for me.
Not saying a well kept beard isn't sexy.
But I don't want to get red raw down below of a beard if you know what I mean.
Rather I was red raw from a decent session. |
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"Any of you bearded men (or ladies) used beard straighteners ? I keep looking at them. But can't quite push myself over the edge of beard struggle. "
No I've never used them mate,mine fortunately falls straight after shower / blow dry and hold well with wax. And same here, I won't venture to T.B.S |
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"Any of you bearded men (or ladies) used beard straighteners ? I keep looking at them. But can't quite push myself over the edge of beard struggle. "
Blow drying was a revelation for me - literally just a hair dryer and a comb makes a huge difference. A bit of beard balm Combed through afterwards, and voila. |
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"Beards are so dividing, it seems people either love them or hate them with no middle ground at all.
One thing I’m picking up from the comments is the assumption bearded men are dirty and beards are itchy.
It isn’t true on either as long as you maintain them, condition, wax/oil and make an effort.
Personally I wouldn’t want to meet someone who was dirty and itchy beard or no beard..
The worst is when a woman assumes you will change your look just to sleep with them, that’s insanity, you’re either attracted to me or not, it’s not conditional to me shaving.
the amount of guys who message me and say id shave it off just to play with you is high ... there no way in hell i would want anyone to change the way they look or present themselves .. i would not meet anyone who thinks that way be proud of who you are and if you have a beard own it with pride ..just because a few dont like it dont mean you have to change ..anyway far more like it than those of us that dont ...those who say they would shave i just block and move on ...no one will appeal to everyone"
To be fair, it only takes a week for mine to grow back so wouldn't mind shaving it off if that was your preference.
If it was a long beard I wouldn't shave it though. |
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
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Well, I (Mrs R) love my Husbands beard, it is always clean and tickles the right places. It also feels soft.
I guess if beards aren't what you like then you will never know how awesome my Husband is  |
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
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"Well, I (Mrs R) love my Husbands beard, it is always clean and tickles the right places. It also feels soft.
I guess if beards aren't what you like then you will never know how awesome my Husband is "
Awww thank you xxxxx
Mr R |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I always doubt having a beard. But now couldn't imagine not having one"
lol don't feel bad my husband looks like a child without his. I hate it when he shaves it off. I guess it's the optics.
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"I've got a huge beard (wizard not witch haha), from bottom lip measures 40cm. I get lots of free products from online companies so I post on IG using them. Witch loves the beard, and gets very defensive when we go out as get lots of people wanting to stroke it, she doesnt mind if they ask first haha, but on the flip side lots don't like it, but what I find strange is a lot of time when people don't like beards they feel they to tell you. Anyway bearded or non-beard ML&R 3
I rocked a chest-length epic for a few years, I didn't actually get all that many strange women wanting to stroke it. Must be my resting bitch face.
I know what you mean about people feeling like they have to tell you they don't like beards though. Ok wow thanks for telling me I disgust you, you couldn't just not say anything then?"
Yes the opinionated Iove to force their dislikes on others, like any of us care about them anyway ! |
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Personally for me hair is a complete turn off doesn't matter if its on your face or your balls, although on your face is worse especially long beards that look like pubes. Designer stubble can be forgiven but not beards. Oh and those guys that don't even groom it and end up with hairy lips is the most disgusting sight ever. Lbh if you can't take care of your appearance what does that say about your hygiene etiquette so it's an easy block everytime. |
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"Personally for me hair is a complete turn off doesn't matter if its on your face or your balls, although on your face is worse especially long beards that look like pubes. Designer stubble can be forgiven but not beards. Oh and those guys that don't even groom it and end up with hairy lips is the most disgusting sight ever. Lbh if you can't take care of your appearance what does that say about your hygiene etiquette so it's an easy block everytime."
This is the exact reason women should all shave that disgusting filthy hair off their heads, it just shows how manky and gross they all are if they don't even care about basic personal hygiene like shaving their heads. Makes normal un-disgusting people like the rest of us feel sick LBH. |
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"I have a short stubble one. If you don't like it then no worries, we'll go our different ways but I'm not shaving it off for anyone. "
I get it's all about personal preference but some of us ladies are very sensitive in certain areas.
And if anyone wants go there, they must be smooth.
Happy Fabbing |
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"Personally for me hair is a complete turn off doesn't matter if its on your face or your balls, although on your face is worse especially long beards that look like pubes. Designer stubble can be forgiven but not beards. Oh and those guys that don't even groom it and end up with hairy lips is the most disgusting sight ever. Lbh if you can't take care of your appearance what does that say about your hygiene etiquette so it's an easy block everytime.
This is the exact reason women should all shave that disgusting filthy hair off their heads, it just shows how manky and gross they all are if they don't even care about basic personal hygiene like shaving their heads. Makes normal un-disgusting people like the rest of us feel sick LBH."
when a narcissist gets triggered pml |
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By *lueFireCouple
over a year ago
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"Personally for me hair is a complete turn off doesn't matter if its on your face or your balls, although on your face is worse especially long beards that look like pubes. Designer stubble can be forgiven but not beards. Oh and those guys that don't even groom it and end up with hairy lips is the most disgusting sight ever. Lbh if you can't take care of your appearance what does that say about your hygiene etiquette so it's an easy block everytime."
Wow!!
Nice to see everyone is so tolerant on here eh? |
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"Personally for me hair is a complete turn off doesn't matter if its on your face or your balls, although on your face is worse especially long beards that look like pubes. Designer stubble can be forgiven but not beards. Oh and those guys that don't even groom it and end up with hairy lips is the most disgusting sight ever. Lbh if you can't take care of your appearance what does that say about your hygiene etiquette so it's an easy block everytime.
Wow!!
Nice to see everyone is so tolerant on here eh?"
was just thinking the same  don’t worry guys we all don’t think like that some of us love a guy with a bread definitely very sex and even if you don’t no need at all to go all in like that  |
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"Personally for me hair is a complete turn off doesn't matter if its on your face or your balls, although on your face is worse especially long beards that look like pubes. Designer stubble can be forgiven but not beards. Oh and those guys that don't even groom it and end up with hairy lips is the most disgusting sight ever. Lbh if you can't take care of your appearance what does that say about your hygiene etiquette so it's an easy block everytime.
Wow!!
Nice to see everyone is so tolerant on here eh? was just thinking the same don’t worry guys we all don’t think like that some of us love a guy with a bread definitely very sex and even if you don’t no need at all to go all in like that "
meant beard but I do love bread too |
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"Personally for me hair is a complete turn off doesn't matter if its on your face or your balls, although on your face is worse especially long beards that look like pubes. Designer stubble can be forgiven but not beards. Oh and those guys that don't even groom it and end up with hairy lips is the most disgusting sight ever. Lbh if you can't take care of your appearance what does that say about your hygiene etiquette so it's an easy block everytime."
It's also comments like this that turn many off. |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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They're ok but they can make men I wouldn't be attracted to without one, attractive, sometimes and I don't really like that. So I tend to steer clear all together... I dislike the overly groomed and the hobo look equally too, anyway  always rather liked a goatee though |
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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago
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"I have a short stubble one. If you don't like it then no worries, we'll go our different ways but I'm not shaving it off for anyone.
I get it's all about personal preference but some of us ladies are very sensitive in certain areas.
And if anyone wants go there, they must be smooth.
Happy Fabbing "
Yeah, the rash from stubble and some beards is horrendous... Too much kissing can make my face peel and I love too much kissing ffs! |
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"Personally for me hair is a complete turn off doesn't matter if its on your face or your balls, although on your face is worse especially long beards that look like pubes. Designer stubble can be forgiven but not beards. Oh and those guys that don't even groom it and end up with hairy lips is the most disgusting sight ever. Lbh if you can't take care of your appearance what does that say about your hygiene etiquette so it's an easy block everytime.
This is the exact reason women should all shave that disgusting filthy hair off their heads, it just shows how manky and gross they all are if they don't even care about basic personal hygiene like shaving their heads. Makes normal un-disgusting people like the rest of us feel sick LBH.
when a narcissist gets triggered pml"
Ironic coming from the person who was triggered by hair in the first place  |
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"Personally for me hair is a complete turn off doesn't matter if its on your face or your balls, although on your face is worse especially long beards that look like pubes. Designer stubble can be forgiven but not beards. Oh and those guys that don't even groom it and end up with hairy lips is the most disgusting sight ever. Lbh if you can't take care of your appearance what does that say about your hygiene etiquette so it's an easy block everytime.
This is the exact reason women should all shave that disgusting filthy hair off their heads, it just shows how manky and gross they all are if they don't even care about basic personal hygiene like shaving their heads. Makes normal un-disgusting people like the rest of us feel sick LBH.
when a narcissist gets triggered pml
Ironic coming from the person who was triggered by hair in the first place "
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"I have a short stubble one. If you don't like it then no worries, we'll go our different ways but I'm not shaving it off for anyone.
I get it's all about personal preference but some of us ladies are very sensitive in certain areas.
And if anyone wants go there, they must be smooth.
Happy Fabbing "
Fair point and noted! I'll have to take that into consideration. Happy fabbing to you to.  |
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over a year ago
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Mine comes and goes. I entertain it until it grosses me out by retaining toast crumbs etc. It's always really soft though as I have quite fine hair and I conditioner the hell out of it and oil/balm it twice a day as it's more often than not in the itchy as fuck growing phase.
To my knowledge it's never triggered sensitive skin reactions and my ex wife had terrible skin conditions and bad excema |
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"Personally for me hair is a complete turn off doesn't matter if its on your face or your balls, although on your face is worse especially long beards that look like pubes. Designer stubble can be forgiven but not beards. Oh and those guys that don't even groom it and end up with hairy lips is the most disgusting sight ever. Lbh if you can't take care of your appearance what does that say about your hygiene etiquette so it's an easy block everytime.
This is the exact reason women should all shave that disgusting filthy hair off their heads, it just shows how manky and gross they all are if they don't even care about basic personal hygiene like shaving their heads. Makes normal un-disgusting people like the rest of us feel sick LBH.
when a narcissist gets triggered pml
Ironic coming from the person who was triggered by hair in the first place "
Considering the op asked presumably women for an opinion on the subject it's funny how all these but hurt men not surprisingly in their 40s and 50s seem so desperate to want to dive in with theirs maybe they have the wrong sexuality selected on their profile maybe they are weak minded maybe they are insecure I guess we will never know  |
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"Anyone a fan or not a fan of beards? What is it you like or don't like about them?
No not a fan at all. Just think there is something grubby looking about them."
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"Personally for me hair is a complete turn off doesn't matter if its on your face or your balls, although on your face is worse especially long beards that look like pubes. Designer stubble can be forgiven but not beards. Oh and those guys that don't even groom it and end up with hairy lips is the most disgusting sight ever. Lbh if you can't take care of your appearance what does that say about your hygiene etiquette so it's an easy block everytime.
This is the exact reason women should all shave that disgusting filthy hair off their heads, it just shows how manky and gross they all are if they don't even care about basic personal hygiene like shaving their heads. Makes normal un-disgusting people like the rest of us feel sick LBH.
when a narcissist gets triggered pml"
At least you realise it, I suppose. |
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over a year ago
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"Love a beard, love body hair, but at least keep the nethers v short. Nothing worse then that in your teeth when sucking cock. I wax so would like some courtesy in return. "
Jesus was on about beards |
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