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I’ve noticed more recently is a trend for some using their status updates to really put other fabbers down
Fat shaming those that are on hot pics in particular
The one thing I’ve always loved about the scene / clubs is how inclusive it is to ALL
Really saddens me to see this type of shit especially if it’s women being so mean to other women. I champion all women on here that are confident and happy and damn well sexy with it
I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels like this ?
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Completely agree, my statuses tend to be run of the mill normal. Gotta avoid bitchiness  |
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I have to be honest I haven’t really noticed it as a widespread thing but when it happens I think it is a bad look for that profile - just makes you look jealous and mean spirited and that is unattractive. |
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"Completely agree, my statuses tend to be run of the mill normal. Gotta avoid bitchiness "
As they should be yeah ? Use the update about you not someone else  |
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"Completely agree, my statuses tend to be run of the mill normal. Gotta avoid bitchiness
As they should be yeah ? Use the update about you not someone else "
Absolutely! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I used to it but I block accounts like that now
Used to see so many couples statues slatting bigger women and then messaging me asking to meet as if I'm ever going to feel comfortable considering they've outed themselves as fatphobic!
I love seeing bigger women on hot pics  |
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Ah bless I’m sorry to hear about this. In this day an age we shouldn’t be doing things like this but instead using it as positivity and respectfulness. We everything everyone has been through specially last 2 years you would think people would move on from this childishness.
Stay strong OP and keep your chin. Remember you are as beautiful and caring as the next |
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For me it just typifies some of the people that use this site. They think it’s like Facebook for fucking, it’s not and it’s simply unacceptable.
You would have thought after what we have been through as a world these last 2/3 years people would’ve learn to be a little bit nicer.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I’ve noticed more recently is a trend for some using their status updates to really put other fabbers down
Fat shaming those that are on hot pics in particular
The one thing I’ve always loved about the scene / clubs is how inclusive it is to ALL
Really saddens me to see this type of shit especially if it’s women being so mean to other women. I champion all women on here that are confident and happy and damn well sexy with it
I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels like this ?
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There’s a few on hot pics that are always putting nasty status updates, it’s says far more about them than anyone else.
It’s so unnecessary. |
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"I used to it but I block accounts like that now
Used to see so many couples statues slatting bigger women and then messaging me asking to meet as if I'm ever going to feel comfortable considering they've outed themselves as fatphobic!
I love seeing bigger women on hot pics "
Absolutely |
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"I’ve noticed more recently is a trend for some using their status updates to really put other fabbers down
Fat shaming those that are on hot pics in particular
The one thing I’ve always loved about the scene / clubs is how inclusive it is to ALL
Really saddens me to see this type of shit especially if it’s women being so mean to other women. I champion all women on here that are confident and happy and damn well sexy with it
I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels like this ?
There’s a few on hot pics that are always putting nasty status updates, it’s says far more about them than anyone else.
It’s so unnecessary."
It’s not nice is it
Beauty is in the eye of the beholder
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've either posted fun updates (for example, 'is it time to put the Christmas tree up yet') or thought provoking, like my current one. |
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"I've either posted fun updates (for example, 'is it time to put the Christmas tree up yet') or thought provoking, like my current one."
Yep I like that !
I tend to just put random stuff up or if I can meet / clubs I’m going to etc
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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago
Stourbridge (West-Mids) |
"I used to it but I block accounts like that now
Used to see so many couples statues slatting bigger women and then messaging me asking to meet as if I'm ever going to feel comfortable considering they've outed themselves as fatphobic!
I love seeing bigger women on hot pics
Absolutely "
We use the private note function to record things like gross status updates incase they ever contact us.
It is really sad tbh because when we are around swingers, in clubs or at socials, they are generally an amazing, accepting bunch who love to compliment each other. Swinging has done wonders for my confidence, and I have more friends than ever before 
K x |
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"I used to it but I block accounts like that now
Used to see so many couples statues slatting bigger women and then messaging me asking to meet as if I'm ever going to feel comfortable considering they've outed themselves as fatphobic!
I love seeing bigger women on hot pics
Absolutely
We use the private note function to record things like gross status updates incase they ever contact us.
It is really sad tbh because when we are around swingers, in clubs or at socials, they are generally an amazing, accepting bunch who love to compliment each other. Swinging has done wonders for my confidence, and I have more friends than ever before
K x"
100% agree with this !
I’ve never come across at clubs
You can wear as little as you like no matter age, size , shape whatever and everyone loves it
I’m like you, I had zero confidence before swinging. Didn’t like showing my body off at all |
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We tend to avoid the kind of people that feel the need to put others down .We’re here for fun not drama . |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
It's a good filter, many been blocked. Negativity breeds negativity. Stay positive lovely people  |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I’ve noticed more recently is a trend for some using their status updates to really put other fabbers down
Fat shaming those that are on hot pics in particular
The one thing I’ve always loved about the scene / clubs is how inclusive it is to ALL
Really saddens me to see this type of shit especially if it’s women being so mean to other women. I champion all women on here that are confident and happy and damn well sexy with it
I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels like this ?
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I'm with you on this, let's hear it for the girls |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"I’ve noticed more recently is a trend for some using their status updates to really put other fabbers down
Fat shaming those that are on hot pics in particular
The one thing I’ve always loved about the scene / clubs is how inclusive it is to ALL
Really saddens me to see this type of shit especially if it’s women being so mean to other women. I champion all women on here that are confident and happy and damn well sexy with it
I’m sure I’m not the only one that feels like this ?
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Oh I I just wanted to say I'm not in with you because you're gorgeous but because it's a worthy cause  |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
Can't say I have noticed this between women but it is appalling behaviour in any context - but particularly on a site where you would expect both sex and body positivity |
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"I just cringe, smile & block "
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Haven’t noticed it too much on status updates, but the reason we don’t share all our pics is we have had people put Kelly down for the size of her boobs and that gravity has taken over ect. It’s a shame as a large % of people on here are lovely but the few can really spoil it. |
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By *ugby 123Couple
over a year ago
Forum Mod O o O oo |
Having a dig at anyone on your profile or status is not allowed. We shouldn't really do it while calling other people out either, we should just report please so Admin can take a look |
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