I usually have a couples of meets a week, well, a couple of days where ill meet several guys, problem is my intercom has been blasting out morning, evening and night with guys who think they can just come round when it suits. And often messages to say there parked up outside, leaving me crawling around on my hands and knees avoiding windows! Anybody else have similar experiences? |
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"I usually have a couples of meets a week, well, a couple of days where ill meet several guys, problem is my intercom has been blasting out morning, evening and night with guys who think they can just come round when it suits. And often messages to say there parked up outside, leaving me crawling around on my hands and knees avoiding windows! Anybody else have similar experiences?"
That sounds horrific and totally disrespectful.
Chose playmates carefully. If they persist with such dreadful behaviour call in the dibble. |
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"I usually have a couples of meets a week, well, a couple of days where ill meet several guys, problem is my intercom has been blasting out morning, evening and night with guys who think they can just come round when it suits. And often messages to say there parked up outside, leaving me crawling around on my hands and knees avoiding windows! Anybody else have similar experiences?"
This would petrify me
Have you tried threatening them w8th the police and see if that works?
Are these guys you've met on fab or elsewhere? |
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when they do just turn up have you ever let any in and played ? because maybe they have the imprestion your cool with it ??
me personally would be answering the door with mobile in hand saying im ringing the police because that discussing behaviour and they would never gey another meet thats for sure ...its stalker ish too..
we had cctv fitted due to a stalker and police involved not nice |
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Nope, I don't answer the door, I've looked through the peep hole and recognised guys that I met through fab. I don't belive im the only person this is happening too, lm not particularly scared, just a little on edge. |
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The hell? That is completely uncalled for and a gross overstep of boundaries on their part.
You should reiterate that they can’t just turn up uninvited, regardless of previous meet status. And if they do, you’ll get authorities involved.
Absolute lack of respect and discretion from those folks, really shouldn’t continue any further contact with them tbh. |
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"Nope, I don't answer the door, I've looked through the peep hole and recognised guys that I met through fab. I don't belive im the only person this is happening too, lm not particularly scared, just a little on edge."
Thank goodness you have a peephole.
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That is appalling. It does prove that only the most very trusted people should ever be invited into your home. Meets with strangers, without even a social first, can be very exciting, but can also be quite dangerous. If at all possible, should only be done in safe places away from where you live eg. in clubs. Or even in dogging spots, if you can take along a friend as backup if anything goes wrong.
OP, perhaps you should also remove your postcode from your profile? By and by most of the folk using the forums tend to be pretty decent people, but there can be absolutely anybody browsing profiles. |
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"That is appalling. It does prove that only the most very trusted people should ever be invited into your home. Meets with strangers, without even a social first, can be very exciting, but can also be quite dangerous. If at all possible, should only be done in safe places away from where you live eg. in clubs. Or even in dogging spots, if you can take along a friend as backup if anything goes wrong.
OP, perhaps you should also remove your postcode from your profile? By and by most of the folk using the forums tend to be pretty decent people, but there can be absolutely anybody browsing profiles."
Pre 2020 I insisted on meeting people in a Wetherspoons for this very reason. It's anonymous and safe |
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"That is appalling. It does prove that only the most very trusted people should ever be invited into your home. Meets with strangers, without even a social first, can be very exciting, but can also be quite dangerous. If at all possible, should only be done in safe places away from where you live eg. in clubs. Or even in dogging spots, if you can take along a friend as backup if anything goes wrong.
OP, perhaps you should also remove your postcode from your profile? By and by most of the folk using the forums tend to be pretty decent people, but there can be absolutely anybody browsing profiles.
Pre 2020 I insisted on meeting people in a Wetherspoons for this very reason. It's anonymous and safe"
I could not think of anything scarier than meeting in a Weatherspoon hostelry ........ |
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"That is appalling. It does prove that only the most very trusted people should ever be invited into your home. Meets with strangers, without even a social first, can be very exciting, but can also be quite dangerous. If at all possible, should only be done in safe places away from where you live eg. in clubs. Or even in dogging spots, if you can take along a friend as backup if anything goes wrong.
OP, perhaps you should also remove your postcode from your profile? By and by most of the folk using the forums tend to be pretty decent people, but there can be absolutely anybody browsing profiles.
Pre 2020 I insisted on meeting people in a Wetherspoons for this very reason. It's anonymous and safe
I could not think of anything scarier than meeting in a Weatherspoon hostelry ........ "
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"That is appalling. It does prove that only the most very trusted people should ever be invited into your home. Meets with strangers, without even a social first, can be very exciting, but can also be quite dangerous. If at all possible, should only be done in safe places away from where you live eg. in clubs. Or even in dogging spots, if you can take along a friend as backup if anything goes wrong.
OP, perhaps you should also remove your postcode from your profile? By and by most of the folk using the forums tend to be pretty decent people, but there can be absolutely anybody browsing profiles.
Pre 2020 I insisted on meeting people in a Wetherspoons for this very reason. It's anonymous and safe
I could not think of anything scarier than meeting in a Weatherspoon hostelry ........
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You couldn’t run away as your feet stick to the carpet |
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