I keep my bush trimmed, and save the full shave for my cock itself - its more considerate if you're expecting a lady to perform oral on you, and makes my cock look better (and longer!).
I don't like hair anywhere my tongue might go! My favourite playmates that I've asked back for more have been smooooth - can resist locking my lips round shiny balls!
R x
For us its woman totally shaved and me totally shaved balls and cock but neatly trimmed just above.
We look for the same or at least very neatly trimmed.