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Couples with profile photo of just the woman

By *uitednbooted2 OP Man over a year ago

Berkshire

A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps in their dynamic the male half might not “play”

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By *ubynaughtyCouple over a year ago

sheffield

We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man over a year ago

Berkshire

"Perhaps in their dynamic the male half might not “play” "

That’s a really good point, however you and I have been on here long enough to know that’s not correct

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Maybe the male is the shy one

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man over a year ago

Berkshire

"Maybe the male is the shy one "

That’s one of a few possibilities

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

It bugs me (when it's not the same women who plays alone) we get lots of messages asking to meet, no pics attached, none of the man on the profile, occasionally a close up cock pic, I find it kinda insulting that the man doesn't seem to matter, I'm not into blind date so we just ignore those profiles.

If I only posted me and not the Mr I think he'd get a little offended I mean he's the one the ladies want to see.

I don't have pics of us separately we come as a pair.

Mrs

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By *ipi2001Couple over a year ago

Birmingham

Most couples have just female pics because females are sexier,more attractive ect ect.

However it must be said that males pics are also important as well if you want to play as a couple.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Maybe the male is the shy one "

Or she is more attractive

well that's what I'd assume

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I’m the one that uses the profile the most , we tend to meet with single guys for hotwife meets or mfm and I like taking pictures more than my other half does. Having said that we do still have some pictures of us together and more on our private gallery.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I’m the one that uses the profile the most , we tend to meet with single guys for hotwife meets or mfm and I like taking pictures more than my other half does. Having said that we do still have some pictures of us together and more on our private gallery. "

To me that's a different situation and justified.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

SO the lady draws you in

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man over a year ago

Berkshire

"It bugs me (when it's not the same women who plays alone) we get lots of messages asking to meet, no pics attached, none of the man on the profile, occasionally a close up cock pic, I find it kinda insulting that the man doesn't seem to matter, I'm not into blind date so we just ignore those profiles.

If I only posted me and not the Mr I think he'd get a little offended I mean he's the one the ladies want to see.

I don't have pics of us separately we come as a pair.

Mrs "

And fabulous photos they all are may I say. Very creative

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By *winging_couple300Couple over a year ago

Doncaster

Draws the attention of the viewer, once you then explore the profile we have pics of both of us that will possibly lead you on to read the bio and perhaps message.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

As above its more to draw people in, once on our profile there is pictures of us both

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "

Yes I noticed this too. One couple, for the guy it's because of his job. But they did send me a private photo of them together so I saw his face before meeting.

I understand why he's not um.... the main attraction but I like the way he looks in the face and in the body. Also some women are more psychologically sensitive and vulnerable to the thought of thousands of women perving over their partner while men seem to find it more of a turn-on when other men fancy/desire their woman.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

Oh I've seen some hella sexy photos of men on here....It's the multiple willy photos I find boring. But all the GQ and tastefully posed nude shots of men are hot and sexy to me.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Maybe the male is the shy one "

that could definitely be true.

Male sexuality is often all focused on the penis but Men's entire bodies are sexual/sexy.

I definitely like a grab-able bum on a man to pull into me.

other body parts that...um..get me...um hot are....man's hands, men's body & facial hair, men's shoulders, men's thighs.

Come on.....the happy trail and that pelvic hip crease that men have....omg....definitely thirsty with tongue out.

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man over a year ago

Berkshire

"Maybe the male is the shy one

that could definitely be true.

Male sexuality is often all focused on the penis but Men's entire bodies are sexual/sexy.

I definitely like a grab-able bum on a man to pull into me.

other body parts that...um..get me...um hot are....man's hands, men's body & facial hair, men's shoulders, men's thighs.

Come on.....the happy trail and that pelvic hip crease that men have....omg....definitely thirsty with tongue out.

Calm down, calm down love! (read in Scouse accent)

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple over a year ago

Coventry

Its not a game of blind date. The job of a profile is to help us know if they'd be a couple we'd be interested in. We love to see some good photos. It's no good to us to see the woman is smoking hot but no idea what the male is like. No one wants to take one for the team. Mutual attraction is so important. So naturally we show both of us in the same way we'd like to see others.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

If I only posted me and not the Mr I think he'd get a little offended I mean he's the one the ladies want to see.

I don't have pics of us separately we come as a pair.

Mrs "

I'm always curious as to why people do or don't do certain things. Most of the time it's not malicious intent but just down to their psyche.

And I know for a fact given my own experience and those around me, that changing your psyche is a long arduous, draining process that most people don't have the capacity for until they reach a crisis point.

I don't even have kids or a partner and I easily get overwhelmed....so I try to practice a little empathy, compersion, curiosity, and mentalization when looking at profiles.

I'm neurodivergent and I had a whole bunch of hang-ups but I mask them well..not everyone can mask that well.

Most people don't even realise that what they are doing is putting people off. I know I'm great at putting foot in mouth in all types of scenarios. That's why I ask for patience on my profile.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Maybe the male is the shy one

that could definitely be true.

Male sexuality is often all focused on the penis but Men's entire bodies are sexual/sexy.

I definitely like a grab-able bum on a man to pull into me.

other body parts that...um..get me...um hot are....man's hands, men's body & facial hair, men's shoulders, men's thighs.

Come on.....the happy trail and that pelvic hip crease that men have....omg....definitely thirsty with tongue out.

Calm down, calm down love! (read in Scouse accent)

Too late! I already had a look at your happy trail and pelvic-hip crease....tongue out.

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man over a year ago

Berkshire

If I only posted me and not the Mr I think he'd get a little offended I mean he's the one the ladies want to see.

I don't have pics of us separately we come as a pair.

Mrs

I'm always curious as to why people do or don't do certain things. Most of the time it's not malicious intent but just down to their psyche.

I don't even have kids or a partner and I easily get overwhelmed....so I try to practice a little empathy, compersion, curiosity, and mentalization when looking at profiles.

I'm neurodivergent and I had a whole bunch of hang-ups but I mask them well..not everyone can mask that well.

Most people don't even realise that what they are doing is putting people off. I know I'm great at putting foot in mouth in all types of scenarios. That's why I ask for patience on my profile."

I like what you have said it makes sense to me. I don’t necessarily agree with it all but it’s clear you are an intelligent lady so don’t worry about the odd ‘foot in mouth’. Xx

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By *nicornExplorersCouple over a year ago

north east

"We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

Agreed, the female form can do so much in pics that the male form (for those male bravado driven men) you can't really pose as much, our male side isn't one for pics and well, male takes pics of the female because he likes them so yeah....

By no means is it a reflection of our dynamic, pics publicly for us are to tease, not to satisfy, that's for in person

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I don’t meet MF couples as I’m into into guys, but the idea that “women are the sexy ones” is always so depressing to me. I like men. I actively desire men. I want to see attractive men, and not just their penises.

When I want to look at sexy pictures of men I usually end up consuming porn or erotica aimed at gay or bi men, because in those the men are the objects, the sexy ones. But it makes me sad that men don’t present themselves like that for women.

I disagree that once you’ve seen 1 picture of a man that’s all you need to see. I want to see sexy men in all kinds of poses, in sexy underwear (jocks, briefs, harnesses, fetishwear etc).

Some of us actively desire men and don’t want to be “the sexy ones” ourselves.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple over a year ago

Portstewart

It’s my pics on the profile as hubby had them on his phone already and he hates getting pictures taken even more than I do but he said over the weekend we will some of him and not just the usual up close cock pics.

Neither of us are on the skinny side and we know that’s not everyone’s cup of tea.

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By * and R cple4Couple over a year ago

swansea

It don’t really bother us what other’s choose to do with their profile.

If we are chatting to a couple on here with the intention of meeting and theirs hardly any pics of him we will ask for some .If we don’t see any then we won’t meet it’s no big deal.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple over a year ago

liverpool

"I don’t meet MF couples as I’m into into guys, but the idea that “women are the sexy ones” is always so depressing to me. I like men. I actively desire men. I want to see attractive men, and not just their penises.

I disagree that once you’ve seen 1 picture of a man that’s all you need to see. I want to see sexy men in all kinds of poses, in sexy underwear (jocks, briefs, harnesses, fetishwear etc).

Some of us actively desire men and don’t want to be “the sexy ones” ourselves. "

I really.like this line of thinking and I will definitely try and get more photos of myself along those lines.

I hate profiles where there no pics of the male.

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man over a year ago

Berkshire

I disagree that once you’ve seen 1 picture of a man that’s all you need to see. I want to see sexy men in all kinds of poses, in sexy underwear (jocks, briefs, harnesses, fetishwear etc).

Some of us actively desire men and don’t want to be “the sexy ones” ourselves.

I really.like this line of thinking and I will definitely try and get more photos of myself along those lines.

I hate profiles where there no pics of the male."

I agree with you she makes a good point.

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By *heron212Man over a year ago

London

If a couple messages me and there are not photos of BOTH - when BOTH state they are down to 'play' - then what are we doing here?

Expecting an answer when only half of the equation is shown?

Either present yourselVES or EXIT stage left.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "

Agree... and then they complain that men just address the woman!

They use the woman as sex bait. Or say the man doesn't look great so they hide him, presumably hoping that the couples they are meeting will fuck him anyway out of sympathy.

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By *eslie19Couple over a year ago

Birmingham

..because of his profession.

Our pics together are shown only to possible meets.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

"Maybe the male is the shy one

that could definitely be true.

Male sexuality is often all focused on the penis but Men's entire bodies are sexual/sexy.

I definitely like a grab-able bum on a man to pull into me.

other body parts that...um..get me...um hot are....man's hands, men's body & facial hair, men's shoulders, men's thighs.

Come on.....the happy trail and that pelvic hip crease that men have....omg....definitely thirsty with tongue out.

Completely agree with this, there's so many pics males can do, teasing, towel, bath, shower, boxers, just unzipped jeans, body shots.

I'm always surprised when they say women have more choice of photos, we don't we do the same old in different undies.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"..because of his profession.

Our pics together are shown only to possible meets."

I see this a lot but there are plenty of women in professions too. What do they do!

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By *ucelleCouple over a year ago

Bishops Stortford

It’s almost all men looking for women. All the visits I’ve had no one has ever asked what’s he look like. The guys are just happy when I shag them

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By *oobysinmancuniaCouple over a year ago

Partington

We only take pics on the spur of the moment and generally when in lingerie. We don't think about pics when shagging but more about the sex.

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By *ubynaughtyCouple over a year ago

sheffield

We share multiple photos once we get talking to someone, face too. It's just the one picture of the man on the profile to show his body type ect.

We only play with women and are more into FF than anything!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Must admit a high % of ours are of me but there are some of us together and Mr W&W in public and more in freinds and private of Mr W&W due to he has lots of very recognizable tattoos. Think our profile does show what is on offer from us both though lol

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By *issmorganWoman over a year ago

Calderdale innit

As half a couple I find it v frustrating to just see all pics of the lady and one of his cock.

If only the lady plays ,that's cool I get it.

If both people want to play ,they should really have one or 2 of the male ,just to give an idea of him.

On our joint account I just avoid these profiles,I'm straight so the lady won't sell it for me.We have plenty of my partner public .

It's their choice at the end of the day how to run their profile ,but often they're on the forum's asking why they struggle to meet ladies or couples.

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By *enrietteandSamCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

It’s absolutely terrible.

We wrote to our local MP about it… waiting on a response.

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By *tranger swings 69Couple over a year ago

cheshire

We came across a “ couples” profile recently that had only dick pics

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By *ady23Woman over a year ago

Coventry

"Perhaps in their dynamic the male half might not “play” "

Exactly

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By *agertha73Couple over a year ago

Cardiff

Perhaps they rotate their profile photo from time to time, sometimes together, sometimes not.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It is nice to see both if looking to meet couples, but it’s their profile so I guess they run it how they want

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By *KG12Couple over a year ago

Burnley

We do need more of me in our profile, it's just finding one jme happy with, that isn't a cock pic

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By *hatCoupleNextDoorCouple over a year ago

nearby

We have been guilty of this but getting a little better of late

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

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By *ophieslutTV/TS over a year ago

Central

"We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

It depends who you are trying to attract. If securing the full attraction of both halves of a couple, you want to typically ensure that all parties get the same level of security.

Getting both of us interested also demonstrates thoughtfulness and consideration towards all of us. It bodes well for the other areas of engagement, if they put us both central and equal to the involvement.

If it's only about our needs, we don't trouble too much on what those others might want? It's about us. Or, sometimes, the 1 of us most involved in getting his needs met.

A banquet doesn't need the full details of each course, coupled with snaps of them, like in some of the more downmarket cafés, letting you view double sausage and chips.

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By *urious Wakefield CoupleCouple over a year ago

Wakefield

There are a healthy amount of both of us on ours, but definitely more of the female half of us, as she is nicer to look at than I am

.K.

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By *ose and her beastCouple over a year ago

Watford

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "

There's not as many of male half because I'm not as confident in myself rose I like to show off I have confidence just don't have the natural beauty like rose does

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

You'll generally hear three main reasons.

He doesn't play, just her.

He's behind the camera so can't be in front.

He can't have photos because of 'work'.

The truth is generally that she's perceived as better looking and as such good 'bait'.

It will of course depend who their target market is. If it's just single, straight males then it makes sense. If they're looking for couples or single females to play with the guy too, then it's not a good representation of themselves and won't do them any favours.

Of course (as with the single guy cock profile pic thread from yesterday) People can do what they want. But if a couple want to attract interest in.both of them then logically they'd be better off being in a profile pic.

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By *J45Couple over a year ago

Birmingham

There's not many pics of me in our public gallery but if we speak to a cple and get on then we'll send more pics, S takes a much better pic than me but we do intend putting more pics of me on and S is always saying I should put more on but I suppose I'm slightly body conscious

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By *astesLikeMagicWoman over a year ago

Newcastle

They just want their woman admired, goes for during their play time too.

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By *arlomaleMan over a year ago

darlington

Used as bait for us men

not that I mind I’d prefer to see a nice pair of boobs as opposed to Hubbys wedding tackle like when viewing the cams and you think I’ll have a look only to be greeted by the bloke tossing his often limp cock it’s such a turn off

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By *ldaCouple over a year ago

sutton Coldfield

Bugs us too. Hotwife just looking for guys, fine. Couples looking for couples, we want to see at least body pics of the guy, as There are some bodies I really don’t find attractive, however good the personality. We now tend to filter out couples with no pics of the guy, which may mean all us are missing out.

So guys, post pics!!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "

We have been lazy about couples pictures, I will admit…we keep meaning to get round to it then always get caught up in the moment and forget lol. We are also still finding our feet on here and in no hurry - we’ll get round to it when we get round to it

Mrs

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By *ORBCouple over a year ago

Dundalk

We are more than happy to have pics of both of us because we enjoy taking pics of each other and together.

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By *adCherriesCouple over a year ago

Cheshire/Northwest

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "

Our profile... our choice, comes to mind.

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

Occasionally I'll change our profile pic to just me for photo challenges!

As for the public photos, I feel we've got a good mix of us both now. We aren't specifically searching for swaps but I feel everyone should have a vague idea of who they'll be interacting with if a meet is on the cards!

Far too many profiles have 0 pics of the man or just a blurry cock pic - there'd have to be an absolutely killer profile for us to consider

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By *enrietteandSamCouple over a year ago

Staffordshire

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "

Fancy a bum?

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple over a year ago

peterborough

"Perhaps in their dynamic the male half might not “play” "

Exactly this! My husband doesn’t play, he watches. There are a couple of photos of him/us on our private pics but there’s not point in putting pics of him elsewhere tbh!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Let's be right.... a pic of a woman is a lot hotter than a cock...

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By *he ass man 666Man over a year ago

paradise city

"We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

True and what a fucking ass by the way

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Frankly didn't read full thread

But as a lone fem I'm seeking full pics of both parties if it's a couple seeking full sex I might meet... Be pretty weird if not

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's be right.... a pic of a woman is a lot hotter than a cock... "

Unless you're expecting to have sex with both parties? In which case I'd frankly like to see the male element of the male party, if his foreskin is fully retractable, and if he looks like he's been fully fucking preserved in Pompeii

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

"Let's be right.... a pic of a woman is a lot hotter than a cock...

that last part wiped me out!! -Xeno

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By *mber and FireCouple over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

"Perhaps in their dynamic the male half might not “play”

Exactly this! My husband doesn’t play, he watches. There are a couple of photos of him/us on our private pics but there’s not point in putting pics of him elsewhere tbh! "

Same, but I don't watch. I've put pictures up of me and us because I think it's just good form. They don't need to be much, just something.

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By *ames-77Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"Perhaps in their dynamic the male half might not “play”

Exactly this! My husband doesn’t play, he watches. There are a couple of photos of him/us on our private pics but there’s not point in putting pics of him elsewhere tbh!

Same, but I don't watch. I've put pictures up of me and us because I think it's just good form. They don't need to be much, just something."

I agree with this well said

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By *ouple4PlayXCouple over a year ago

Essex

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "

Mrs definitely takes a better photo and no denying the women on here got more attention

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I love to see more pics of the women on a couples profile than a guys cock

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By *TG3Man over a year ago

Dorchester

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "
Women look hotter so attract more interest am I right or am I right plus beautiful women tend to be attracted to not so attractive men lol

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By *ames-77Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"I love to see more pics of the women on a couples profile than a guys cock

If they are looking for a threesome your going to have to look at it at some point me ol mucka

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"I love to see more pics of the women on a couples profile than a guys cock

If they are looking for a threesome your going to have to look at it at some point me ol mucka"

Very true m8

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By *ames-77Man over a year ago

milton keynes

"I love to see more pics of the women on a couples profile than a guys cock

If they are looking for a threesome your going to have to look at it at some point me ol mucka

Very true m8"

Come on mate get into the swinging side of it it's not just about looking at womens pics a cock is coming with the couple haha

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's be right.... a pic of a woman is a lot hotter than a cock...

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Let's be right.... a pic of a woman is a lot hotter than a cock...

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By *uitednbooted2 OP Man over a year ago

Berkshire

"Perhaps in their dynamic the male half might not “play”

Exactly this! My husband doesn’t play, he watches. There are a couple of photos of him/us on our private pics but there’s not point in putting pics of him elsewhere tbh! "

He is still present and you are a couple so I don’t understand the reluctance

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By *aggy dollsCouple over a year ago

bradford

Because it's our profile and we can present ourselves however we see fit

Mr Hayes.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps in their dynamic the male half might not “play” "

Should at least put the guys in a cock cage

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By *aughty Couple ABCCouple over a year ago

West Bromwich

I (Mrs) am on here the most. I'll see a photo opportunity and take it, hubby is not always around when I do that so therefore there are less pics of him. Our profile pic is of the both of us though

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By *utterypopcornCouple over a year ago

oxford

Op as you will only meet the female half of a couple. Why for you of all should it make a difference?? I would have thought that would be a preference for you.

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By *ouple8889Couple over a year ago

Nottingham

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "

Because my wife is stunning. I on the other hand aren't. Batting well above my average!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I think that we do a fairly sensible spread. At the end of the day it's the male half that "let's the side down" in our case. Saves alot of time and effort seeing him up front rather than getting all involved and then springing the munter on them

Reminds me a bit of one of those saucy Blackpool postcards with a scantily clad huge chested, mini skirted, pointy nippled woman thumbing a lift with 4 guys with her hiding behind a sign post

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me!

Because my wife is stunning. I on the other hand aren't. Batting well above my average!"

We don't know if you are or aren't without seeing you thought, we are all our own worst critics.

Mrs

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By *bi HaiveMan over a year ago
Forum Mod

Cheeseville, Somerset

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me!

Because my wife is stunning. I on the other hand aren't. Batting well above my average!"

But if you're looking to meet and play with women and couples with both of you involved, aren't you more likely to have issues after initial contact has been made if someone decides when they finally see you that you're not for them?

Genuinely curious how couples who give a prospective meet no idea on what they guy looks like deal with pre-meet communication. Or is it just left as a surprise for the main event?

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By *mber and FireCouple over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

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By *mber and FireCouple over a year ago

Carmarthenshire

I went off on a tangent, what I wrote really wasn't relevant to the topic. Sorry!

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By *peak and SpellCouple over a year ago

Greenwich, SE LONDON

We hate this. If you are on here as a couple, then you should have photos of both (unless it is only the wife that is playing).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me!

Because my wife is stunning. I on the other hand aren't. Batting well above my average!

Yeah I'd imagine it's worse to be ruled out once they've requested a pic, rather than never knowing you've been ruled out based on public pics of both of you. I suppose the same thing could happen with face pics though. It's one of the reasons I prefer clubs, no messing about ha.

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By *iss KinkWoman over a year ago

North West

"We hate this. If you are on here as a couple, then you should have photos of both (unless it is only the wife that is playing)."

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By *ouseofhoneyCouple over a year ago

North West

Our public ones are all of the female half... much easier on the eye

But if someone is interested and genuine we will either private message them face pics of us both or occasionally add them as friends after chatting where we have them on our private photos

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By *ogan WillowCouple over a year ago

Leeds

My wife always comments on this point. Although a little guilty ourselves, as my wife is the main attraction.

However I do appear in our videos and a few pictures.

Interesting that my pictures are fabbed more by males than females!

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By *iercedCplCouple over a year ago

Greater Manchester

We try to have a mix of pics on our profile, some of Mrs P, some of Mr P, some of us, and some of more than us.

Hopefully it's appreciated

Mrs & Mr P xx

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

If I only posted me and not the Mr I think he'd get a little offended I mean he's the one the ladies want to see.

I don't have pics of us separately we come as a pair.

Mrs

I'm always curious as to why people do or don't do certain things. Most of the time it's not malicious intent but just down to their psyche.

I don't even have kids or a partner and I easily get overwhelmed....so I try to practice a little empathy, compersion, curiosity, and mentalization when looking at profiles.

I'm neurodivergent and I had a whole bunch of hang-ups but I mask them well..not everyone can mask that well.

Most people don't even realise that what they are doing is putting people off. I know I'm great at putting foot in mouth in all types of scenarios. That's why I ask for patience on my profile.

I like what you have said it makes sense to me. I don’t necessarily agree with it all but it’s clear you are an intelligent lady so don’t worry about the odd ‘foot in mouth’. Xx"

Noted and Thanks.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

I disagree that once you’ve seen 1 picture of a man that’s all you need to see. I want to see sexy men in all kinds of poses, in sexy underwear (jocks, briefs, harnesses, fetishwear etc).

Some of us actively desire men and don’t want to be “the sexy ones” ourselves. "

Same I end up on bi/gay porn/erotica looking at men.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"It’s my pics on the profile as hubby had them on his phone already and he hates getting pictures taken even more than I do but he said over the weekend we will some of him and not just the usual up close cock pics.

Neither of us are on the skinny side and we know that’s not everyone’s cup of tea. "

We so need to normalize plus-sized men.

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Maybe the male is the shy one

that could definitely be true.

Male sexuality is often all focused on the penis but Men's entire bodies are sexual/sexy.

I definitely like a grab-able bum on a man to pull into me.

other body parts that...um..get me...um hot are....man's hands, men's body & facial hair, men's shoulders, men's thighs.

Come on.....the happy trail and that pelvic hip crease that men have....omg....definitely thirsty with tongue out.

Completely agree with this, there's so many pics males can do, teasing, towel, bath, shower, boxers, just unzipped jeans, body shots.

I'm always surprised when they say women have more choice of photos, we don't we do the same old in different undies.

Mrs "

I was out at Heathrow Ab Fab and there were a couple of guys ( assumed straight) in harnesses and leather and jock straps. I thought omg I have to watch these guys play because they are owning their sexuality.

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By *astandtheCurious2Couple over a year ago

letchworth

Because mr is crap at taking pictures of himself (not that I’m great at it) and with two teenagers in the house it’s almost impossible to find a time to take pictures together, we keep trying though

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By *elaninMaverickWoman over a year ago

near Putney Heath

"Must admit a high % of ours are of me but there are some of us together and Mr W&W in public and more in freinds and private of Mr W&W due to he has lots of very recognizable tattoos. Think our profile does show what is on offer from us both though lol

Yeah I do get the recognizable tattoos thing.....I'd like to get a tattoo but it will mostly be covered up when I'm at work so only nudist club and beachgoers would see it.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple over a year ago

chester

"Because mr is crap at taking pictures of himself (not that I’m great at it) and with two teenagers in the house it’s almost impossible to find a time to take pictures together, we keep trying though

Exactly this ^^

We also don’t want to scare anyone off

although, there are a couple of token photos of my beloved on there now

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By *rFoxAndXenoCouple over a year ago

Weymouth

The brutal comments about people's fellas on here are killing me!!!

- Xeno

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By *orl1971Couple over a year ago

Glasgow

We think women’s photos get the most attention. As a couple post a female picture. See how many Fabs you get. Post a male picture. See how many Fabs you get.

Female pictures just get more attention. Even from couples. We’ve got more female photos than male photos but we only need enough to get to a social as that’s when you see the real person.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me!

Yes I noticed this too. One couple, for the guy it's because of his job. But they did send me a private photo of them together so I saw his face before meeting.

Correct... My wife can't cope with the thought of another woman drooling over me. We advertise just to meet men for hotwife so the pictures are tailored towards attracting the guys. ...simple. we're a couple but not looking for couples or women right now...it may change but we'll cross that road as and whenever.

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By *onksoozeCouple over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I think couple profiles, especially straight couples should have clear pics of the male half for perusal. We are not looking for a couple, but, if we were, as the straight female half, I'd need to see the guy before any consideration.

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By *penbicoupleCouple over a year ago

Northampton

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "

I guess it's something to do with them using the profile pic they want? As long as there are photos of both of them elsewhere in their photos, I don't really see the problem.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I rarely see photos of the male side so I assume the woman looking for FMM and FFM if she's bi. But it's all pretty much about her.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Then you got to ask for male photos and apologise for not being attracted to them.

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By *ervertsCouple over a year ago

halesowen

There’s pics of me in our private pics, but the public ones are all mrs pervert, because I’m ugly.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Perhaps you should write the rules for Fab?

It’s their profile though isn’t it?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

It’s sad that so many of the guys here feel like they’re not as attractive as their partners

I’m sure that’s not the case , would love to see more guys have some self confidence to post pics of themselves too

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By *ittenAndTheFoxCouple over a year ago

plymouth

We have both xx

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

If I only posted me and not the Mr I think he'd get a little offended I mean he's the one the ladies want to see.

I don't have pics of us separately we come as a pair.

Mrs "

To be fair though that guy could be anyone

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

By no means is it a reflection of our dynamic, pics publicly for us are to tease, not to satisfy, that's for in person

Very well said and I agree

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By *uckherwithmeXXXCouple over a year ago

Sunderland

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "

Because for us it’s all about her getting fucked off guys, so why would the guys want to see me.

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By *M70Couple over a year ago

fareham

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me!

Because for us it’s all about her getting fucked off guys, so why would the guys want to see me. "

This basically, we’re not looking to meet couples it’s Mmf fun and I’m straight only so she’s the one at the centre of fun . If we were looking to meet couples of course both would be on the public profile

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Its not a game of blind date. The job of a profile is to help us know if they'd be a couple we'd be interested in. We love to see some good photos. It's no good to us to see the woman is smoking hot but no idea what the male is like. No one wants to take one for the team. Mutual attraction is so important. So naturally we show both of us in the same way we'd like to see others."

Totally agree with this

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By *amoruUsagiCouple over a year ago

Glasgow

According to my partner, I am the selling point in the profile.

I mean, he is not wrong, look at my tits

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By *aked2sumCouple over a year ago

Coast

"According to my partner, I am the selling point in the profile.

I mean, he is not wrong, look at my tits

Maybe a selling point but knowbody seems to be buying

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

The reason Taurus isn’t in our photos is because he’s holding the camera. Oh and our profile our choice.

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By *M70Couple over a year ago

fareham

"The reason Taurus isn’t in our photos is because he’s holding the camera. Oh and our profile our choice."

Exactly

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By *aked2sumCouple over a year ago

Coast

There’s a couple of me in ours but strangely the mrs gets more fabs which I’m pretty gutted about but hey ho such is life

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By *andb69Couple over a year ago

leeds

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "

That says more about you than it does about them. It's their profile and they can post whatever photos they like (within Fab rules). Why is that any more "odd" than you posting the photos that you want?

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me! "

Or just one photo of the fella

Missy x

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By *anilla-sinCouple over a year ago

lancs

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me!

Or just one photo of the fella

Missy x"

we have a fair mix..

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"A very high proportion of couples main profile photos are of just the woman! Why aren’t they presenting themselves as a couple in there photo? Just seems odd to me!

Or just one photo of the fella

Missy x

And a mere 200+ miles away!

we have a fair mix.."

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By *edHeelsCplCouple over a year ago

Kenilworth

"We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

Exactly! Sorry but unless you’re a gay man, a woman's body is a lot nicer to look at than a guy.

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By *r and Mrs A HornyCouple over a year ago

coventry

I think it’s just up to the couple I do quirky pictures for me but not to many as men and women like the wife pictures more

xx mr horny

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

Exactly! Sorry but unless you’re a gay man, a woman's body is a lot nicer to look at than a guy.

Yeah it's all about what men want to see. Who cares what women want to see.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

Exactly! Sorry but unless you’re a gay man, a woman's body is a lot nicer to look at than a guy.

Yeah it's all about what men want to see. Who cares what women want to see."

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By *anilla-sinCouple over a year ago

lancs

"We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

Exactly! Sorry but unless you’re a gay man, a woman's body is a lot nicer to look at than a guy.

silly thing to say.. if you want to meet a couple.. surely you dont want a surprise male half

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

If I only posted me and not the Mr I think he'd get a little offended I mean he's the one the ladies want to see.

I don't have pics of us separately we come as a pair.

Mrs

To be fair though that guy could be anyone"

I'm not sure what that means "that guy" is my partner and is shown for the ladies who want to see him, we come as a pair, our pics are as a pair.

I think our verifications speak for themselves

Mrs

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By *irldnCouple over a year ago

Brighton

Our profile has significantly more pictures of Mrs B than me. Truth is I am better at taking pictures, she is better at “modelling”, she is more exhibitionist than me. We probably should have a better balance but for now it is what it is (could easily post less of Mrs B to even things out but again, we enjoy posting the pics).

Bottom line really though is that people should manage their profiles how they see fit. If you don’t like it then don’t contact them or reply. If their approach is working for them, then what does it really have to do with anyone else? Is there a Fab Rule or Minimum Quota that must be enforced?

Personally we prefer tasteful, erotic, full body pictures. Some people prefer extreme close ups of their genitals. Surely it is whatever floats your boat as it is your profile?

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By *irldnCouple over a year ago

Brighton

"Our profile has significantly more pictures of Mrs B than me. Truth is I am better at taking pictures, she is better at “modelling”, she is more exhibitionist than me. We probably should have a better balance but for now it is what it is (could easily post less of Mrs B to even things out but again, we enjoy posting the pics).

Personally we prefer tasteful, erotic, full body pictures. Some people prefer extreme close ups of their genitals. Surely it is whatever floats your boat as it is your profile?"

Oh and just to add...

The pics of Mrs B are fabbed so many more times/mores often than those of Mr B (me).

When she has pics over 1500 fabs and my best is 182, it pretty much tells a story! I actually get a buzz when one of my pics as opposed to one of hers gets a fab (sad perhaps) and am flattered whoever it is (couples, females, straight/bi/gay males). It’s nice to be appreciated

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

Exactly! Sorry but unless you’re a gay man, a woman's body is a lot nicer to look at than a guy.

Women also like to look at men? Your comment seems to imply that only men are viewers/observers/consumers of pics.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Then you got to ask for male photos and apologise for not being attracted to them."

That's exactly my point. Rather actually not know how many I turned off

plus there's those you never get the opportunity to turn on because they won't ask to see what you are taking to the bring and buy stall!!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I wonder if most of the reluctance to share pictures of the male half is anything to do with the fact that there is a plethora of hugely hung and incredibly ripped single male comparisons on here that erodes confidence?

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By *anilla-sinCouple over a year ago

lancs

"I wonder if most of the reluctance to share pictures of the male half is anything to do with the fact that there is a plethora of hugely hung and incredibly ripped single male comparisons on here that erodes confidence?"

now you mention it.. damn

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By *ORBCouple over a year ago

Dundalk

Can't speak for anyone else but as I'm not competing or comparing with any other men on here that wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Personally we prefer tasteful, erotic, full body pictures. Some people prefer extreme close ups of their genitals. Surely it is whatever floats your boat as it is your profile?

Oh and just to add...

The pics of Mrs B are fabbed so many more times/mores often than those of Mr B (me).

But it shouldn't really be about popularity competition. Aren't a couple suppose to work in unity. Men from couple profiles write to me alot but when i look at their profile all I see is pussy or boobs. Not exactly enticing from a straight women's point of view.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"We are a couple profile with mainly me on, think we have one of J.

Im the one that's uses the profile most, J just has a quick look ect. We've only got one of J as once you've seen one picture, they're are all the same of a man.

Pictures of women are just sexier

By no means is it a reflection of our dynamic, pics publicly for us are to tease, not to satisfy, that's for in person

If you look at the history of art, you'd see that the opposite is probably true and that it's the male form that is depicted more often and in more interesting ways. Once you've seen one pic, you've seen them all is no more true of men than it is of women.

Let's face it, most of the pictures of women on here are a handful of the same basic poses and it shouldn't take much effort to depict the man in a couple in a way that's also interesting and attractive to potential playmates.

It's puzzling why so many men don't feel like anyone would want to see them (assuming it's not just the woman who plays). Do they not look after themselves as much as their partner, is it an issue of confidence or body image (something I struggled with a lot when I was younger), or does the system of likes on Fab make them think nobody wants to see pics of them?

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By *irldnCouple over a year ago

Brighton

Personally we prefer tasteful, erotic, full body pictures. Some people prefer extreme close ups of their genitals. Surely it is whatever floats your boat as it is your profile?

Oh and just to add...

The pics of Mrs B are fabbed so many more times/mores often than those of Mr B (me).

They are probably hoping you are like spaghetti...straight until wet!

The point is that female photos appear to get a lot more appreciation than male photos.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Agreed, the female form can do so much in pics that the male form (for those male bravado driven men) you can't really pose as much, m"

This is such a heteronormative attitude. You only have to look at media aimed at gay/bi men to see a huge variety of male poses, looks etc.

I think it’s because heteronormativity dictates that only women are sexual objects. Men are too, but only for the male gaze. It’s 2022, time to change the narrative imho. Some women and non men want to see men. We want to see more than just their cocks, we want to see the whole man and actively desire him.

This is definitely what’s putting me off joining the swinging scene (I currently go to kink & queer parties). The fact that in swinging it seems to be all women on display and the men don’t look after themselves. Or straight to admit they don’t look good (plenty if men in this thread have said they’re not easy on the eye). What’s in it for people like me, then? I want to list after delicious men just like the men lust after the women.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Personally we prefer tasteful, erotic, full body pictures. Some people prefer extreme close ups of their genitals. Surely it is whatever floats your boat as it is your profile?

Oh and just to add...

The pics of Mrs B are fabbed so many more times/mores often than those of Mr B (me).

They are probably hoping you are like spaghetti...straight until wet!

The point is that female photos appear to get a lot more appreciation than male photos."

But my point is why does that matter this popularity contest with eachother? If you're a couple, show us you're a couple, not just tits and pussy. I just wouldn't believe they're really a couple unless they seem to have genuine verifications. Then you get single men profile acting like they're a couple with tons of sexual act photos. The logic baffles me sometimes

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By *irldnCouple over a year ago

Brighton

Personally we prefer tasteful, erotic, full body pictures. Some people prefer extreme close ups of their genitals. Surely it is whatever floats your boat as it is your profile?

Oh and just to add...

The pics of Mrs B are fabbed so many more times/mores often than those of Mr B (me).

They are probably hoping you are like spaghetti...straight until wet!

The point is that female photos appear to get a lot more appreciation than male photos.

Agreed. As we said, our picture preference is for full body erotic pics rather than extreme close ups of genitals (some ppl prefer that clearly). The majority of the pics of us together or with others are in the friends folder or hidden.

Again though, nobody on here has the right to dictate how others choose to run their profile. If someone’s approach doesn’t appeal then scroll on by!

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Agreed, the female form can do so much in pics that the male form (for those male bravado driven men) you can't really pose as much, m

This is such a heteronormative attitude. You only have to look at media aimed at gay/bi men to see a huge variety of male poses, looks etc.

You touch on an interesting point. Do you think there's a cultural thing among many straight men in Britain that they almost don't like to think of themselves or other men in terms of sexual attractiveness? They perhaps don't see themselves or men generally as desirable to women in the way that women are desirable to men, so it doesn't occur to them that anyone wants to see pics of them, and they don't look at other guys and see ideas for how they could present themselves.

One thing about Fab is that the very skewed sex ratios will always lead to a pic of a woman getting more likes than a similar pic of a man, and I suspect that men might also "Fab" more photos on average than women do.

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Personally we prefer tasteful, erotic, full body pictures. Some people prefer extreme close ups of their genitals. Surely it is whatever floats your boat as it is your profile?

Oh and just to add...

The pics of Mrs B are fabbed so many more times/mores often than those of Mr B (me).

They are probably hoping you are like spaghetti...straight until wet!

The point is that female photos appear to get a lot more appreciation than male photos.

Again though, nobody on here has the right to dictate how others choose to run their profile. If someone’s approach doesn’t appeal then scroll on by!"

But if they want female women, surely it makes more sense to show the male pics? I know these are unicorn couples who let the male part play with another woman separately. It just seems like on fab and in clubs it's all about the woman being in charge and getting the physical sexual pleasure

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

Can't speak for anyone else but as I'm not competing or comparing with any other men on here that wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

RB"

And you sir have a profile with evenly distributed photos! Bad Bitch would really appreciate your profile - so much so I'm gonna hotlist it so she sees it on the rare occasion she visits the site now.

I only show her the interesting ones now as she is easily bored.

My original point still stands though, you aren't exactly a munter are you boss?

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By *irldnCouple over a year ago

Brighton

Personally we prefer tasteful, erotic, full body pictures. Some people prefer extreme close ups of their genitals. Surely it is whatever floats your boat as it is your profile?

Oh and just to add...

The pics of Mrs B are fabbed so many more times/mores often than those of Mr B (me).

They are probably hoping you are like spaghetti...straight until wet!

The point is that female photos appear to get a lot more appreciation than male photos.

Again though, nobody on here has the right to dictate how others choose to run their profile. If someone’s approach doesn’t appeal then scroll on by!

Sure if the focus of the couple is to find straight women then it certainly would make more sense to have more focus on the male.

I have not done any calculations, but based on being in this “scene” for many years, I would say there is a skew towards couples being straight male and bi woman (though that might be changing with more men feeling confident to admit they are bi).

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

There's two mainstream schools here (in the fish sense) one is the hot wife MFM threesome circuit and the other the singles playing the market.

The couples for couples element which I always thought was THE mainstream seems to almost be a by product on the site now.

Maybe clubs have become the ground that couples meet rather than sites now?

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By *hromosexualsCouple over a year ago

Near Abercynon

We are guilty of this, although we've specifically used a profile picture with me (the Mr) in it.

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By *irldnCouple over a year ago

Brighton

"There's two mainstream schools here (in the fish sense) one is the hot wife MFM threesome circuit and the other the singles playing the market.

The couples for couples element which I always thought was THE mainstream seems to almost be a by product on the site now.

Maybe clubs have become the ground that couples meet rather than sites now? "

I think that is a good observation. The vast majority of couples we have played with and then continued to meet were originally met at parties or clubs rather than from sites. Conversely most of the time we have found the single guys we have played with via websites.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

We are a couple where we don’t play as a foursome, rather than it’s him or me, i get more attention on here naturally (no ego) from males, where as he works his charm and wit with females in person.. that’s probably the reason for us x

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"There's two mainstream schools here (in the fish sense) one is the hot wife MFM threesome circuit and the other the singles playing the market.

The couples for couples element which I always thought was THE mainstream seems to almost be a by product on the site now.

Maybe clubs have become the ground that couples meet rather than sites now?

I am gonna say this as a straight hetro - you guys should play to your strengths. One of those is a top flight male! Personally I'd be investing a bit of effort in getting some pictures of him interspersed in your profile. Black and whites look good for males. Open shirts and a bit of stubble. Get a copy of GQ and play it from there

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"It just seems like on fab and in clubs it's all about the woman being in charge and getting the physical sexual pleasure "

I’ve seen it says a lot that in swinging women are in charge, but in my world if women were in charge, the men would be the ones on display, and women would be in the background, picking out the prettiest men and fucking them senseless

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

And it's usually the man who runs the account

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"You touch on an interesting point. Do you think there's a cultural thing among many straight men in Britain that they almost don't like to think of themselves or other men in terms of sexual attractiveness? They perhaps don't see themselves or men generally as desirable to women in the way that women are desirable to men, so it doesn't occur to them that anyone wants to see pics of them, and they don't look at other guys and see ideas for how they could present themselves.

I think it’s a lot if things, but it all comes down to heteronormativity. Since I started moving in queer spaces I’ve encountered a lot more men or non-women (nonbinary people etc) who value and enjoy being objectified in the way women are usually objectified.

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By *ealitybitesMan over a year ago

Belfast

"And it's usually the man who runs the account "

I have to say in 6 years here I've chatted to many couples and only 2 or 3 of those profiles were run by the man.

I haven't sent a first contact message in 3 years and in that time every couple that has contacted me apart from one has definitely been run by the woman. All very well verified couples, many with 100+ verifications.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And it's usually the man who runs the account

I have to say in 6 years here I've chatted to many couples and only 2 or 3 of those profiles were run by the man.

Everytime I am contacted by a "couple" it's the man

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"And it's usually the man who runs the account

I have to say in 6 years here I've chatted to many couples and only 2 or 3 of those profiles were run by the man.

Everytime I am contacted by a "couple" it's the man"

If I had a couples profile I’d let her message so I can spend quality time on the PlayStation

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple over a year ago

Neath valley.

"Perhaps they rotate their profile photo from time to time, sometimes together, sometimes not."

This

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple over a year ago

Neath valley.

"And it's usually the man who runs the account "

Not in this relationship. My partner let me set up the account and run it as i see fit. Not all women are in controlled relationships. Jo

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By *hromosexualsCouple over a year ago

Near Abercynon

"And it's usually the man who runs the account

I have to say in 6 years here I've chatted to many couples and only 2 or 3 of those profiles were run by the man.

Everytime I am contacted by a "couple" it's the man"

Although I (the man) post on the forums the most, we both use the account... although she created it and she arrange our first meet... not sure who "runs" it.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

I've noticed with male friends who are gay that on the whole they take more care over their appearance than the average straight guy, and they also seem more willing to show themselves off and enjoy a bit of objectification.

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By *r_Shares.Gym_girl69Couple over a year ago

Bristol

"Perhaps in their dynamic the male half might not “play” "

Exactly this, some people struggle to understand such a simple dynamic.

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By (user no longer on site) over a year ago

"Perhaps in their dynamic the male half might not “play”

Exactly this, some people struggle to understand such a simple dynamic. "

I don't think this is aimed those couples. There are lots of couples where they both play, yet they only have pics of her on their profiles.

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By *ofusplusCouple over a year ago

Limerick

As a straight woman, I'm blue in the face complaining about this, it's even in our bio

I have no attraction to women so profiles like this are really off-putting for me.

When a couple both play, it makes no sense not to have least one body pic of the male and we like to see the couple together, not all single pics.

All pics of the woman tells us nothing about a possible attraction to the couple and we just ignore winks from these profiles now.

Totally different if it's just the lady of the couple who is meeting, if its a stag/vixen dynamic or if they're looking to meet straight guys.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

"As a straight woman, I'm blue in the face complaining about this, it's even in our bio

I have no attraction to women so profiles like this are really off-putting for me.

When a couple both play, it makes no sense not to have least one body pic of the male and we like to see the couple together, not all single pics.

All pics of the woman tells us nothing about a possible attraction to the couple and we just ignore winks from these profiles now.

Totally different if it's just the lady of the couple who is meeting, if its a stag/vixen dynamic or if they're looking to meet straight guys."

I have to compliment the great profile guys, fab pics of both of you.

Mrs

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By *he_Secret_GardenWoman over a year ago

Naughty Lane

Well...as a lady who likes both sexes and meeting couples I would like to see both of them...

not just a lady. But we are all different and put what we want on our profiles.

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By *ofusplusCouple over a year ago

Limerick

"As a straight woman, I'm blue in the face complaining about this, it's even in our bio

I have no attraction to women so profiles like this are really off-putting for me.

When a couple both play, it makes no sense not to have least one body pic of the male and we like to see the couple together, not all single pics.

All pics of the woman tells us nothing about a possible attraction to the couple and we just ignore winks from these profiles now.

Totally different if it's just the lady of the couple who is meeting, if its a stag/vixen dynamic or if they're looking to meet straight guys.

I have to compliment the great profile guys, fab pics of both of you.

Mrs "

Thank you Mrs and may I return the compliment, don't think I've seen so many couples pics of both together on a profile, very impressive

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By *asha86Couple over a year ago

walsall

We have pictures of both of us but find Tash's pics gain alot more attention than mine

but in all seriousness we find that when looking at couples profiles we like to see abit of both

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By *en30216Man over a year ago

york

I’m not complaining

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By *etcplCouple over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Because the man is ugly and they use the photos of the woman as bait to get new fanny!

The real question is why do so many people use black and white photos? To appear artistic and moody, or to hide their bad complexion and pasty skin?

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple over a year ago

Leeds

"Because the man is ugly and they use the photos of the woman as bait to get new fanny!

The real question is why do so many people use black and white photos? To appear artistic and moody, or to hide their bad complexion and pasty skin?"

Because we're monochrome in real life

I just like artistic pics, like your paint ones, we do have some colour shots mixed in mind.

Mrs

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