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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "
Yeah its pathetic to be honest, and actually disrespectful to a woman. Suggesting she needs the big man warning all the other big bad evil men not to mess with her or he'll come riding to her rescue |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Totally cringeworthy and, in my view, unimaginative. It's as if they can't think of enough to say.
I treat everyone with respect. Always have.
This is like a lot of those other things you see on fab that really should go without saying, such as discretion and hygene |
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It can be interpreted so many ways.
Only some women are worthy of respect.
Men need to be told to treat this particular woman with respect
Despite the fact that she's on fab you should still respect her
I'm warning you to treat her with respect
Or it's just a throw away line intended to compliment
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"It can be interpreted so many ways.
Only some women are worthy of respect.
Men need to be told to treat this particular woman with respect
Despite the fact that she's on fab you should still respect her
I'm warning you to treat her with respect
Or it's just a throw away line intended to compliment
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri?
Yeah its pathetic to be honest, and actually disrespectful to a woman. Suggesting she needs the big man warning all the other big bad evil men not to mess with her or he'll come riding to her rescue"
This. Very infantilising. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Often used on certain websites when reviewing working girls. An attempt to be respectful but quite the reverse, treat everyone with respect until they earn the right not to be treated so |
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over a year ago
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"Doesn't it go hand in glove with... She sucks like a Dyson and loves the taste of a man's tonsils.? "
She looked like a plasterer's radio, swallowed 18 pints of my cum, deep throated my cock while taking 3 cucumbers and a melon up her arse. Treat her with respect guys.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly the guy who posted this doesn't think other women are worth treating with respect.
No you can’t come to that conclusion at all about the OP !!! All he said is the phrase he found odd in the context he outlined. I find it an odd thing to say because why wouldn’t any decent guy treat a lady with respect?? I’m pretty sure that’s why the OP is saying it’s an odd thing to say in this context.  "
OP is a woman.
The comment is about the type of man who would use the "treat her with respect" comment on a veri. |
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"Clearly the guy who posted this doesn't think other women are worth treating with respect.
No you can’t come to that conclusion at all about the OP !!! All he said is the phrase he found odd in the context he outlined. I find it an odd thing to say because why wouldn’t any decent guy treat a lady with respect?? I’m pretty sure that’s why the OP is saying it’s an odd thing to say in this context.
OP is a woman.
The comment is about the type of man who would use the "treat her with respect" comment on a veri. "
Yes I know I corrected my typo with a hashtag. You didn’t make it clear , I read that differently |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Clearly the guy who posted this doesn't think other women are worth treating with respect.
No you can’t come to that conclusion at all about the OP !!! All he said is the phrase he found odd in the context he outlined. I find it an odd thing to say because why wouldn’t any decent guy treat a lady with respect?? I’m pretty sure that’s why the OP is saying it’s an odd thing to say in this context.
OP is a woman.
The comment is about the type of man who would use the "treat her with respect" comment on a veri.
Yes I know I corrected my typo with a hashtag. You didn’t make it clear , I read that differently "
Someone else posted the words. I posted the thumbs.  |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
It's a fab cliche line commonly used.
Often I suspect in the joke of getting a repeat meet. Much like OTT graphic descriptions of sucking like a dyson, riding me for hours and generally being the best shag they've ever had.
Of course you should respect anyone you meet.
But putting that in a verification is as pointless as saying 'she did in fact have a head, two arm, a pair of tis and a vagina'.
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
Forum Mod Cheeseville, Somerset |
"It's a fab cliche line commonly used.
Often I suspect in the joke of getting a repeat meet. Much like OTT graphic descriptions of sucking like a dyson, riding me for hours and generally being the best shag they've ever had.
Of course you should respect anyone you meet.
But putting that in a verification is as pointless as saying 'she did in fact have a head, two arm, a pair of tis and a vagina'.
A"
*hope, not joke. Frigging autocarrot
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By (user no longer on site)
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri?
Yeah its pathetic to be honest, and actually disrespectful to a woman. Suggesting she needs the big man warning all the other big bad evil men not to mess with her or he'll come riding to her rescue"
Food for thought!! |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "
its so odd but think about a veri what else can you say...... You can't say her name, you can't give details of what you did so you give a stock answer  |
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? its so odd but think about a veri what else can you say...... You can't say her name, you can't give details of what you did so you give a stock answer "
I always thought verifications were about confirming the person you met was who they claim to be in their profile. |
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"Repeat is sadly lacking from single males on here.
They’re wanting to fuck someone’s wife after all. Treat her with respect and not like a whore?"
I think all women should be treated with respect (within reason) not just wives. |
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"Repeat is sadly lacking from single males on here.
They’re wanting to fuck someone’s wife after all. Treat her with respect and not like a whore?
I think all women should be treated with respect (within reason) not just wives. "
I think all people should be treated with respect until they prove otherwise. |
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"Repeat is sadly lacking from single males on here.
They’re wanting to fuck someone’s wife after all. Treat her with respect and not like a whore?
I think all women should be treated with respect (within reason) not just wives.
I think all people should be treated with respect until they prove otherwise. "
Yep |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"It's a fab cliche line commonly used.
Often I suspect in the joke of getting a repeat meet. Much like OTT graphic descriptions of sucking like a dyson, riding me for hours and generally being the best shag they've ever had.
Of course you should respect anyone you meet.
But putting that in a verification is as pointless as saying 'she did in fact have a head, two arm, a pair of tis and a vagina'.
A"
Well said!
There is, I believe, no malice afore thought in this throw away line and it’s for the most part a way in ingratiating one into the verse.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wonder if anyone has ever put it in a veri on a man’s profile…"
I suspect most single chaps on Fab would love to feel used and disrespected ........... |
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"I wonder if anyone has ever put it in a veri on a man’s profile…
I suspect most single chaps on Fab would love to feel used and disrespected ..........."
Think the disrespect is for free. Don't need a veri for that. The used bit...is a lot thinner on the ground. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It’s become a throw away line, but I get why it became a thing. There are so many total ass hats on here that don’t respect others and just treat this place as a meat market, assuming that if you’re here you must be desperate for a fuck and should be just treated that way.
The one that bugs me is “what can I say about…” I don’t know, that’s why I’m reading this to find out!!! |
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "
Yeah it is. It’s the male equivalent of when women veri and say “I wish I could have him all to myself lol joking”
Both cringe and both ways of trying to assert some sort of ownership over the other person. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "
Quite agree.
It's written by stupid people, and the white knight virtue signalling brigade... And those that find it a virtue to have it said are equally stupid. Like so much of the crap you see today it's completely unnecessary worthless thing to say because any semi intellectual already knows and lives by this obvious concept of respect in general, respect to women and respect to men ..
Those of us with intellect find this kind of thing a flag for stupidity .. and it grates.. |
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri?
Quite agree.
It's written by stupid people, and the white knight virtue signalling brigade... And those that find it a virtue to have it said are equally stupid. Like so much of the crap you see today it's completely unnecessary worthless thing to say because any semi intellectual already knows and lives by this obvious concept of respect in general, respect to women and respect to men ..
Those of us with intellect find this kind of thing a flag for stupidity .. and it grates.. "
Are you one of Fabs intellectuals? |
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "
In the real world I would but on Fab not at all because Fab is a land with a bountiful abundance of cringe and irony. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Treat everyone with respect in all aspects of life. If they don't they kicked them out of your life.
I can only assume a lot of women get a lot of disrespect which I don't understand. Why be disrespectful? |
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri?
Quite agree.
It's written by stupid people, and the white knight virtue signalling brigade... And those that find it a virtue to have it said are equally stupid. Like so much of the crap you see today it's completely unnecessary worthless thing to say because any semi intellectual already knows and lives by this obvious concept of respect in general, respect to women and respect to men ..
Those of us with intellect find this kind of thing a flag for stupidity .. and it grates..
Are you one of Fabs intellectuals?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think it’s a well meaning attempt at manners that comes across as patronising to some.
It doesn’t actively bother me, but I can understand why it would bother some people x |
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "
I suspect it was something an OG said back in the day on a veri, and then just got copied relentlessly as an easy sign off (many veris on here tend to read similar, with slight variety in wording) |
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri?
Quite agree.
It's written by stupid people, and the white knight virtue signalling brigade... And those that find it a virtue to have it said are equally stupid. Like so much of the crap you see today it's completely unnecessary worthless thing to say because any semi intellectual already knows and lives by this obvious concept of respect in general, respect to women and respect to men ..
Those of us with intellect find this kind of thing a flag for stupidity .. and it grates.. "
I'd say it's not even about someone's intellect, more a matter of basic courtesy and being a decent human being.
It is a weird virtue-signalling thing to say. Do we need to be told what else to do or not do? "Don't wipe your dick on her curtains then punch here in the face guys..." |
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It serves very little purpose.
For any man who needs to be reminded that he needs to treat a woman with respect will be the very man who has no appetite or any due care to read profiles/verifications, let alone be susceptible to modern manners and common sense.
The remark "...treat her with respect." is an aberration to my intelligence.
If you're going to write that for someone, then it's unlikely that I will engage with you.
If you're going to display that from someone, then it's unlikely that I will engage with you.
It's a great 'double' filter. |
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I don't mind it. If someone wants to see it as simping then that's on them. Some people are simply aware of the amount of disrespect offered in general on here and so include that phrase.
If the whole veri is just the usual bland same old then I tend to ignore it and look for the ones that actually say something specific to the person, but having the odd cliche in there isn't the end of the world. |
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"It serves very little purpose.
For any man who needs to be reminded that he needs to treat a woman with respect will be the very man who has no appetite or any due care to read profiles/verifications, let alone be susceptible to modern manners and common sense.
The remark "...treat her with respect." is an aberration to my intelligence.
If you're going to write that for someone, then it's unlikely that I will engage with you.
If you're going to display that from someone, then it's unlikely that I will engage with you.
It's a great 'double' filter."
You dont get no respect |
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By *ase4122Man
over a year ago
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "
Surely treating someone with respect is just normal, so yes I'd agree it is an odd thing to write |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "
Especially when all you want to do is shoot a load in her fake eyelashes |
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"I don't mind it. If someone wants to see it as simping then that's on them. Some people are simply aware of the amount of disrespect offered in general on here and so include that phrase.
If the whole veri is just the usual bland same old then I tend to ignore it and look for the ones that actually say something specific to the person, but having the odd cliche in there isn't the end of the world."
Very much this |
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"“Treat her with respect guys”
Am I the only one who find this to be an odd thing when it’s said at the end of a veri? "
So do I. Its like every one else is going to be rude and disrespectful to them! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've done things that would make most people's toes curl. I also won't entertain anyone who wasn't respectful in every message. If someone writes that on my veri or I've seen it on others I see done with good intentions |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I treat them like Dr. Disrespect: violence, speed, momentum 
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"No. Too many guys just think they are going to get sex without showing any respect to me as a woman. I am not a piece of meat "
Exactly this.
So many think your a piece of meat and are going to fuck anyone with pulse. Maybe guys are like that, but not us fems.
Get alot of this on my single profile. |
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"No. Too many guys just think they are going to get sex without showing any respect to me as a woman. I am not a piece of meat
Exactly this.
So many think your a piece of meat and are going to fuck anyone with pulse. Maybe guys are like that, but not us fems.
Get alot of this on my single profile."
From what I hear from lots of females who i chat with regularly they all think the men on here think that this is a cattle market x no respect or manners x but i have got to tell you that there is a lot of respectful and decent guys on here too xx |
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"It serves very little purpose.
For any man who needs to be reminded that he needs to treat a woman with respect will be the very man who has no appetite or any due care to read profiles/verifications, let alone be susceptible to modern manners and common sense.
The remark "...treat her with respect." is an aberration to my intelligence.
If you're going to write that for someone, then it's unlikely that I will engage with you.
If you're going to display that from someone, then it's unlikely that I will engage with you.
It's a great 'double' filter."
Absolutely spot on |
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