I think if you're hoping to meet a forumite, and your green arrow reveals nothing but posts moaning about a lack of action, it would hurt your chances, yes. A positive attitude is generally more attractive and appealing than negativity |
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I've had more knock backs than I've had meets on fabs.
Without a positive mindset you won't get a meet.
Sure there have been times when it's been bleak but you have to stay positive, believe in yourself and it will happen.
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I think a positive mindset makes you a generally more attractive person, nobody has the energy to be sapped away by someone who’s negative all the time. People want to surround themselves with positive people, and fab isn’t any different
(Coming from someone who’s not met off here yet but I keep trying and not someone who moans about it) |
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to me positive thinking is about viewing a situation with a positive mind set. It won't change reality, but it can help you deal with it more easily.
Having said that not many people want to mix with someone who is relentlessly negative. Mind you relentless positivity can be wearing |
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"Do you think it really works? For example, people who complain about they can't meet anyone off fab will never meet anyone with that mindset? So if they change it, they will get meets? "
Saying they will get meets as an absolute would be wrong, but their chances will increase greatly. People are drawn to fun, light-hearted people, and someone demonstrating a positive outlook on life is very attractive.
Who wants to go and fuck a grumpy cunt? No one. |
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Definitely helps, those people that spread positivity are a rare and precious gift. The ones that light up and room and make you feel better for knowing them.
As for fab then yes, i see how those moaning about no fun fab with a blank profile would struggle  |
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