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To swing or not to swing ?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Having been on fab for almost a year now there seems to be almost as many on here that never actually meet as those that do !!!!
Now don't get me wrong , each to their own and all that , but what is the point of being active on a swinging site but never actually doing what supposedly we are all here for ?
Curiosity ?
Just wondered what others thoughts may be ?  |
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I think the point is probably to interact with people and not have to be guarded in what you say. We communicate with a few people that for one reason or another we will either never meet or will only ever meet socially and we enjoy it, it's a big old world and there are many ways to enjoy it |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"on the site or forums ?
I think the percentages of non playing on the forum will be higher than the site due to people staying to enjoy banter with friends."
That makes sense , the original post was general really - we get winks and messages from folk with no meets on a regular basis and half of them have had no meets yet have been here over a year !!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think the point is probably to interact with people and not have to be guarded in what you say. We communicate with a few people that for one reason or another we will either never meet or will only ever meet socially and we enjoy it, it's a big old world and there are many ways to enjoy it"
But you guys are here to meet too !
It's the folk who never meet I meant  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Some just like to chat and make friends here and just happy doing that.
Which is fine , but wouldn't Facebook be just as good for them ?"
ture but some like it here better. You get a real mix , xx |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"how do u know who does and who doesnt meet ?"
When we get a wink we will message back and ask if they would like to meet for a social - no reply .
A message and a friend request - same as above !
Those with hidden verifications nearly always have the verified tick from webcam !
We are getting good at spotting them now |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Having been on fab for almost a year now there seems to be almost as many on here that never actually meet as those that do !!!!
Now don't get me wrong , each to their own and all that , but what is the point of being active on a swinging site but never actually doing what supposedly we are all here for ?
Curiosity ?
Just wondered what others thoughts may be ? "
Perhaps they just like the banter, or they may just be into camming! Who knows?
Everyone is on the site for their own reasons! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Never have been and never would go on Bitch Book.
It seems to cause more trouble and break ups than its worth, there always seems to be some malicious t**t trying to make trouble for others.
Its all, she said, he said, they did this, etc!  
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just because we're not meeting anyone new through the site for the time being doesn't mean we don't meet up with people we already know once in a while.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"but because they decline your invite to meet it doesnt necessarily follow that they dont meet others.
And if the verifications are hidden then how do u know that its a web cam verification ?"
Simple really , when we get past the introductory stage with messages we ask if we can see their verifications .
And why wink or message if you are not interested in meeting ? |
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"I think the point is probably to interact with people and not have to be guarded in what you say. We communicate with a few people that for one reason or another we will either never meet or will only ever meet socially and we enjoy it, it's a big old world and there are many ways to enjoy it"
I agree, the social non meet side is a good reason for being on here, even if for me, it's not the primary reason. I like the opportunity to talk sex with people that I could never could outside of here. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just because we're not meeting anyone new through the site for the time being doesn't mean we don't meet up with people we already know once in a while.
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Again - you have met !
It's not folk like yourselves I am referring to  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You've got the silent perv types who are on solely for that reason..
As already stated the ones who find the swinging scene intrigues them to a degree they will interact in forums, chatrooms and even messages but cannot go through with a meet or who don't want to cross that line for risking their relationship or through sheer nerves will never meet.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"You've got the silent perv types who are on solely for that reason..
As already stated the ones who find the swinging scene intrigues them to a degree they will interact in forums, chatrooms and even messages but cannot go through with a meet or who don't want to cross that line for risking their relationship or through sheer nerves will never meet.
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This is more on the lines of what we were thinking |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We have had break from swinging and dogging because of priorities and changes in circumstances.
We are just finding our feet again, so taking things at a steady pace.
We used to be on the lookout for a bit if fun and have had some really hot and steamy experiences with some really good people, it just seems like things have changed a little on how we got used to doing things, people seem to be less patient and expect instant filth *just add water* meets.
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"We have had break from swinging and dogging because of priorities and changes in circumstances.
We are just finding our feet again, so taking things at a steady pace.
We used to be on the lookout for a bit if fun and have had some really hot and steamy experiences with some really good people, it just seems like things have changed a little on how we got used to doing things, people seem to be less patient and expect instant filth *just add water* meets.
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I hope you are not referring to us with that statement !
We are not suggesting everyone should be out there doing this , that or anything else - just saying that some on fab clearly have no intention of doing any swinging so why bother being on here ?
It's like me joining an angling site having never fished or never intending to - why bother ?
It's true that the liberating way one can discuss sexual matters on here may be enough for some - but that could be done on any number of other social networking sites !
Certainly there was no intention on my part to upset genuine folk like you |
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