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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Top tip for newbies to swinging,
Practice using condoms before the meet, how I dunno, wank with them on?
Not being used to the break in play to put a condom on, or not used to the feeling of a condom on, added to nerves, can make it difficult for some men to stay hard.
And some people can be horrid about it given they've hyped up what the meet will be like,
but it happens, and anyone who is nasty about it deserves a poke in the eye.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It happens but it's not a big deal. It's a lot of pressure to perform for men so sometimes their brain can over rule.
Just help them relax and feel comfortable, that's our job as their play partner. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We had it once when the guy we’d invited couldn’t get it up.
We tried to help him and tried to chill everything out for a bit but it just wasn’t going to happen.
We insist on verified by couples now.
At least we know they’ve been in a 3sum and it worked for them.
Fantasy doesn’t always translate sadly. |
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I had a meet with a woman and when it came to it - I just couldn’t get hard. Didn’t help that I was stood outside a chip shop on my own because the arsehole never turned up. Disappeared without a trace off site never to be seen again. Other than that - not had a problem- yet!!  |
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Only time it happened to me was I was going hammer and tongs with a lady but was surrounded by lots of single men who were groping both of us, eventually we just gave up the ghost. I walked out the room and a young lady grabbed me a asked me to give her a pounding like I'd just done. For the first and so far only time I just couldn't get hard. I don't think she took it personal. |
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Once I recall a few years when we were having fun with two other couples. One of the guys was struggling. At one point he had 3 women sucking his cock and rimming him .
He got hard but as soon as he slid inside one of the girls he would go soft again immediately.
We all felt for the guy. However not enough to stop us fucking his girlfriend every which way in front of him and sending them home with her full of our cum. She was the least sympathetic and was determined she was not going to miss out  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Once I recall a few years when we were having fun with two other couples. One of the guys was struggling. At one point he had 3 women sucking his cock and rimming him .
He got hard but as soon as he slid inside one of the girls he would go soft again immediately.
We all felt for the guy. However not enough to stop us fucking his girlfriend every which way in front of him and sending them home with her full of our cum. She was the least sympathetic and was determined she was not going to miss out "
Sounds like tht guy was a genius.
Honestly, I can't get hard. So 3 ladies have to suck me & rim me to help.  |
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"Once I recall a few years when we were having fun with two other couples. One of the guys was struggling. At one point he had 3 women sucking his cock and rimming him .
He got hard but as soon as he slid inside one of the girls he would go soft again immediately.
We all felt for the guy. However not enough to stop us fucking his girlfriend every which way in front of him and sending them home with her full of our cum. She was the least sympathetic and was determined she was not going to miss out "
I got hard just reading this  |
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"Once I recall a few years when we were having fun with two other couples. One of the guys was struggling. At one point he had 3 women sucking his cock and rimming him .
He got hard but as soon as he slid inside one of the girls he would go soft again immediately.
We all felt for the guy. However not enough to stop us fucking his girlfriend every which way in front of him and sending them home with her full of our cum. She was the least sympathetic and was determined she was not going to miss out
Sounds like tht guy was a genius.
Honestly, I can't get hard. So 3 ladies have to suck me & rim me to help. "
Yea that’s what the rest of us thought. But his girlfriend was well pissed. So she started to show off with us to indicate her frustration with him. She was particularly dirty trying to provoke him.
He was obviously disappointed but was pretty cool about it all afterwards.
They contacted us later to say he performed perfectly when they got home |
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"Have you had a fab meet and couldn't get hard
It hasn't happened to me yet
I get like this at clubs, there's something about an old man with his dick out that just makes me soft "
There are some grim sights in clubs for sure. Lol |
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"Once I recall a few years when we were having fun with two other couples. One of the guys was struggling. At one point he had 3 women sucking his cock and rimming him .
He got hard but as soon as he slid inside one of the girls he would go soft again immediately.
We all felt for the guy. However not enough to stop us fucking his girlfriend every which way in front of him and sending them home with her full of our cum. She was the least sympathetic and was determined she was not going to miss out
Sounds like tht guy was a genius.
Honestly, I can't get hard. So 3 ladies have to suck me & rim me to help. "
Now that's what you call 'control' lol! Fair play to him |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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A few years ago I had a MMFF, things were going well but suddenly "my guy"lost it, I took him to another room we had a chat realised what the problem was,I got him to "relax" and nice and hard again and back we went to resume play with my friend's, both guy's went home Happy  |
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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago
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It’s happened to be twice
1st time: Been chatting to this gorgeous lady getting on great. Then when we meet she was so quiet & flat I just lost interest. When got up to leave she said let’s go to the bedroom. Proceeded but she just laid there no kissing or foreplay my mind and Willy wasn’t into it no boner.
2nd time: Had not drank enough that day busy day at work got to meet and had wine chatting before the fun. Now my fellow Comrade gifted downstairs will know ‘dehydration affects your BP’ & it takes a lot to bring up a big cock haha  |
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It happened to me in a club, it was a bit disheartening for me, I was fucking a 21 year old girl in the ass at the time, hopefully she didn't take it personally.
Cock rings help, I've recently discovered, give them a try guys. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Boss has had stage fright before, however there is more to meets than using a cock. That's where hands and mouyhs come into play until the stage fright goes.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Yes I have. And probably will experience it again in the future.
But I have noticed that the reaction of the partner you are with at the moment it happens, makes a huge difference.
Either it will help you, or make you feel even more emasculated. |
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