If you're not sure try this:
Lay naked together in the dark. Either gently stroke each other or just get close. Picture in your head a sex scene you'd like to happen/ would masturbate to if you were alone. Then tell your partner how it would happen step by step. You don't have to be "dirty" or crass, just honest. The dark makes you less self conscious and telling your wank bank story is a great step into dirty talk. Your partner might ask questions or discuss bits with you.
I find most people get turned on when you do this and as you get more confident you can say things directly to your partner with lots of eye contact with the lights on.
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Hate it. It makes me cringe. Obviously there are words, moans and groans during sex but I hate it when a guy doesn't just get on with it and flaps his gums the WHOLE TIME. The "do you like that", "how does my dick feel in you", the constant questioning, really leaves me cold. |
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"Hate it. It makes me cringe. Obviously there are words, moans and groans during sex but I hate it when a guy doesn't just get on with it and flaps his gums the WHOLE TIME. The "do you like that", "how does my dick feel in you", the constant questioning, really leaves me cold. "
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"Hate it. It makes me cringe. Obviously there are words, moans and groans during sex but I hate it when a guy doesn't just get on with it and flaps his gums the WHOLE TIME. The "do you like that", "how does my dick feel in you", the constant questioning, really leaves me cold.
THIS! "
I completely agree. Moans of pleasure = great. Talking and questions = distracting and cringey |
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Chuntering away coming up with inane crude comments is just dull, tense and so fake. Sure we all get carried away, say things make and (silly) noises in passion, but no to anything false or that you’ve picked up from watching yelping porn!
To be honest some of the best sex I’ve ever had with partners has been when we were laughing and relaxed. |
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I just LOVE dirty talk. Especially from a woman who normally doesn't swear. I love it when a woman says into my ear, 'fuck me' over and over. Also love when they tell me they have a 'creamy cunt'. |
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I do enjoy a little dirty talk I have to say 
