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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Hi I just wondering if anyone can give me some advice,I message really nice messages to people trying to get a chat or a social to prove I am a genuinely nice guy,no one ever replies so i am thinking have I got something set up wrong or is the site just useless as I’ve spent a lot of time on here to get absolutely no where it’s so annoying,so how do I manage to get verifications if no one will communicate,would appreciate the help if anyone as the answer to the problem |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Hi I just wondering if anyone can give me some advice,I message really nice messages to people trying to get a chat or a social to prove I am a genuinely nice guy,no one ever replies so i am thinking have I got something set up wrong or is the site just useless as I’ve spent a lot of time on here to get absolutely no where it’s so annoying,so how do I manage to get verifications if no one will communicate,would appreciate the help if anyone as the answer to the problem"
Do a forum search for profile advice. Usually some threads in the Introductions forum section.
Most people won't respond to profiles without any pics at all. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Silhouette profiles are very off putting to be honest. We delete messages from profiles with no photos and very little content. You need to make your profile stand out. |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
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We'd see a message in our inbox with no profile pic and unless the message preview looked really good, we'd just delete it unread.
If the message looked good we'd check the profile, and if it had no public pics then again, we'd just delete the message unread.
Verifications aren't your issue.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We'd see a message in our inbox with no profile pic and unless the message preview looked really good, we'd just delete it unread.
If the message looked good we'd check the profile, and if it had no public pics then again, we'd just delete the message unread.
Verifications aren't your issue.
(Bry)"
Exactly.
You haven't asked for profile advice, so none of us can give you any though I suspect one thing about yours that will be putting a lot of people off, besides the lack of photos, will be your mention of your lack of verifications and your desire to change this.
People you are interested in meeting will most likely form the view that your only interest in meeting them is for you to gain your green tick |
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Up the stairs, turn left, through the double doors, take the lift down to level 9, right out the lift, over the runway, through the turnstiles and it’s your 65th door on the right. You need to take your I.d there.
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"Hi I just wondering if anyone can give me some advice,I message really nice messages to people trying to get a chat or a social to prove I am a genuinely nice guy,no one ever replies so i am thinking have I got something set up wrong or is the site just useless as I’ve spent a lot of time on here to get absolutely no where it’s so annoying,so how do I manage to get verifications if no one will communicate,would appreciate the help if anyone as the answer to the problem"
Get a nice profile picture |
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You shouldn't need anyone to tell you that having no pictures on your profile is not going to get you anywhere.
There's a filter that blocks picture-less profile like yours which says it all really!
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Hi op
Make some effort, people like to see who has sent a message, it's not just about a message, people need to also find them at least attractive in some way or another. A message can be powerful but so can an image without any words... That can also lead anywhere. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Punctuate your profile! I read it as one sentence and nearly keeled over through lack of oxygen!
Get some good pics up. That doesn’t mean your cock.
Then … go to an arranged social group meet with no expectation. Have a chat to likeminded people. If you’ve got the right attitude and approach you will then get several veris in one night.
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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago
Calderdale innit |
Just to echo what's been said op ,you won't get responses to messages with no pics at all.
We can all add a pic of something doesn't have to be identifiable ie bum ,a suit with head cropped off.
Shadow profiles make me think they're hiding something. |
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OP. Just look at your own profile and ask yourself would you reply to you? If the answer is no then maybe take some time and make it something that will sell yourself rather than being blank. Loads of advice on here. Good luck  |
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