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Bareback or safe?
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Noone considered unwanted pregnancy or sti? What sort of question is this? Obviously if it's long term partner you trust not to catch sti and you're using contraception you can go bareback. But surely on fab, you would be a fool to do it? Not all contraception is 100% and could you trust that fabber not to be contagious vice versa? Personally it's not worth taking the risk |
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You posted this topic the other day as well and I'm sure most people haven't changed there minds in less than a week lol. Personally the only way we would play with others is gloved up (no glove no love) but with hubby we don't need anything as with testing and 15 years of just us having bb we're good |
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I can’t help but think there is in reality no such thing as safe sex in swinging. If entirely safe sex is the demand then stick to a genuinely monogamous relationship.
Bringing others into that relationship inevitably involves additional risk.
So it’s not a case of “wearing a condom equals safe”. It’s just safer than not wearing one.
Everyone has to draw the line to their own satisfaction. |
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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago
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Opinions or choice?
Both have their pros and cons.
One is safer, neither is safe.
Get tested regularly either way.
Be open about your sexual health with your partners.
Unprotected oral can still transmit STI’s. |
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Condoms here.
I have had bareback with a FWB before. Not straight away mind! There was a lot of talk beforehand, we both were fully tested and results shared. There has to be trust there. Apart from my husband I wasn’t fucking anyone else and neither was he (single). Husband doesn’t play. Lots of things taken into consideration beforehand and throughout. We met for months (pretty much a year) and had a lot of fun, until covid. As much as I enjoyed it, and I really did enjoy it, I don’t think I would do it again. I trusted him completely and we remain very good friends, but for me bareback requires/shows quite a level of intimacy and I’m not wanting to do that again. Regular testing and condoms is the way it will stay. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Doesn't this question get asked every day in the forum's? "
It does and we get different answers everyday sometimes the people who have said today they only play safe were bareback yesterday
What a difference a day makes lol |
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