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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Ooh ooh! I know the answer to this! 
Because they can't find the fucker in the first place.  
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "You obviously been meeting the wrong men  | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it… | |||
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"I know what I'm doing with one. Does using a satisfyer count as cheating?" Totally cheating. I ban toys from my sessions as I end up enjoying the toys more than my lover lol | |||
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"At the risk of sounding self-aggrandising, you just haven't met the right man yet. " I get my pleasure from pleasuring women specially in the clit area | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it… "Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men  | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it… "Or they pretend they do and then make you feel so uncomfortable that your leg involuntarily shake, almost kicking him in the face | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…
Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men "Depends if your ‘type’ excludes most intelligent articulate men ? Some ladies go for gym fit attractive and a bit dim… (don’t worry they won’t be able to read this!!) blokes and often they are also quite self absorbed | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…
Or they pretend they do and then make you feel so uncomfortable that your leg involuntarily shake, almost kicking him in the face "behave that’s a classic multiple orgasm!!  | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…
Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men
Depends if your ‘type’ excludes most intelligent articulate men ? Some ladies go for gym fit attractive and a bit dim… (don’t worry they won’t be able to read this!!) blokes and often they are also quite self absorbed "My past lovers ranged from rocket scientist to salemans but most had no clue of the clit. Very disappointing | |||
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"Oh and most men forget to stimulate the g spot too thinking their cocks can do that job.... "Im quite happy from this that im not ‘ most men!’ Then - i know my way round a woman - and i always go the scenic route. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…
Or they pretend they do and then make you feel so uncomfortable that your leg involuntarily shake, almost kicking him in the face "Then they think you’ve enjoyed it because your legs were shaking | |||
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"maybe you should have give them some guidance,," Sugar puff training Coarse That be thing | |||
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"What's a clit? Mr "I think Arthur C Clarke dedicated an episode of Mysterious Universe to the search for the Clit | |||
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"What's a clit? Mr
I think Arthur C Clarke dedicated an episode of Mysterious Universe to the search for the Clit "Did he ever find out what it is. Or did it end up alongside nessy as a mythical made up thing? Mr | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…
Or they pretend they do and then make you feel so uncomfortable that your leg involuntarily shake, almost kicking him in the face
Then they think you’ve enjoyed it because your legs were shaking "I know right? Thing is I was very verbal about not enjoying what he was doing (in a gentle way mind me) and he kept doing the same regardless 
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Most are incredibly selfish and not in awe of the female body. Many don't seem to get pleasure from giving pleasure either, simply taking what they want. No wonder we struggle finding anyone here these days... | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most are incredibly selfish and not in awe of the female body. Many don't seem to get pleasure from giving pleasure either, simply taking what they want. No wonder we struggle finding anyone here these days..."Your Smash doors back in to love - anagram!!  | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Unfortunately it's true...most have no clue... | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…
Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men
Depends if your ‘type’ excludes most intelligent articulate men ? Some ladies go for gym fit attractive and a bit dim… (don’t worry they won’t be able to read this!!) blokes and often they are also quite self absorbed
My past lovers ranged from rocket scientist to salemans but most had no clue of the clit. Very disappointing "I’m all about the Clit and the G-Spot x | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "I never neglect it xx | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Unfortunately it's true...most have no clue... "Most but not all  | |||
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"Most men here just want to get their dick wet and leave. Only had a small handful actually care about what I'm getting from the arrangement and about half of them actually succeed. It's not that hard to find! I can almost guarantee if a man spends some time on me then we will both enjoy things a lot more! " So glad women so far commenting know how I feel about this topic. It frustrates me most men neglect it when it's the most important part of the body to receive pleasure in my opinion | |||
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"I find it hard to believe that the OP states the clit is the most important part of a woman's body… 50% of females on fabs state about stimulating the mind first and foremost… also the OP is looking for men 24 years and under no experience then…also wants them submissive so if she is meeting these submissive men then should they not be doing what she says so make them pleasure that clit the correct way …. Oh And a self confessed size queen I mean come on think about it how big a dick do you need to pleasure the most important part of a female body if it is the clit just as OP states. Hopefully one day she finds that 12” dick to get deep enough in to hit that clit… well I think I am going in the right direction. "All your comment proves you have no clue about how to pleasure a woman from your critical remark about my profile. I won't lower myself to decimate your profile as I'm not that childish. | |||
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"I find it hard to believe that the OP states the clit is the most important part of a woman's body… 50% of females on fabs state about stimulating the mind first and foremost… also the OP is looking for men 24 years and under no experience then…also wants them submissive so if she is meeting these submissive men then should they not be doing what she says so make them pleasure that clit the correct way …. Oh And a self confessed size queen I mean come on think about it how big a dick do you need to pleasure the most important part of a female body if it is the clit just as OP states. Hopefully one day she finds that 12” dick to get deep enough in to hit that clit… well I think I am going in the right direction.
All your comment proves you have no clue about how to pleasure a woman from your critical remark about my profile. I won't lower myself to decimate your profile as I'm not that childish."Was just an observation of your profile certainly was not critical remarks. | |||
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"The only time I've heard from friends that guys don't know where it is, is when they have huge dicks and assume that's all they need... "Huge cocks doesn't make you a great lover. It takes alot to pleasure a woman which from my experience most younger men have not much of clue about. Just incase you're wondering, i have a handful of amazing lovers who made me cum multiple times in a night | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Really?? You aint had much luck of late? Lol | |||
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"Some men don't seem to truly understand much about a womens body. I once had a guy ask if I wouldn't use my dildos for a week before meeting them because it stretches me out... Lll" Way more true, than people assume so. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…
Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men
Depends if your ‘type’ excludes most intelligent articulate men ? Some ladies go for gym fit attractive and a bit dim… (don’t worry they won’t be able to read this!!) blokes and often they are also quite self absorbed "But intelligent articulate men doesn’t equate to a good person or someone who is great in bed… gym fit and attractive also doesn’t equate to self absorbed. The best sex I had was with a guy who was gym fit, attractive and cared about his appearance. The worst? An average Joe with a corporate job so pretty intelligent, and yet he thought trying (and failing) to ram as many fingers inside as possible was going to turn me on… | |||
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"It’s all about licking the clit not sucking or nibbling for me. " its all in the long licks. At a smooth-operator flowingly rate and preassure.  | |||
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"Or I find a lot tend to know where it is and how to pleasure it but just don’t have the patience to stay there long enough to make you finish. " This is spot on. I always find it’s the ones who brag about who great at oral they are aswell… when they say that I know I’m in for disappointment. | |||
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"i dont know which men neglect it,, but heres one that doesnt," 2nd that mate. We are silently qualified! | |||
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"I know what I'm doing with one. Does using a satisfyer count as cheating? Totally cheating. I ban toys from my sessions as I end up enjoying the toys more than my lover lol" Toys will be the future curve . | |||
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"At the risk of sounding self-aggrandising, you just haven't met the right man yet. I get my pleasure from pleasuring women specially in the clit area " Kissing. And clit attention leads to pleasùredom. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…
Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men "What has intelligence have anything to do with the subject at hand?? | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…
Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men
Depends if your ‘type’ excludes most intelligent articulate men ? Some ladies go for gym fit attractive and a bit dim… (don’t worry they won’t be able to read this!!) blokes and often they are also quite self absorbed "Lol. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…
Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men "Are you a giver?? Or a taker?? Sex wise. And otherwis? | |||
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"Oh and most men forget to stimulate the g spot too thinking their cocks can do that job.... "Your man you yearn for! Has not been born yet! Lol. Be the women whom will inspire a man to become what ýou so yearn and want him to be. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most neglect it only if they are self centred unskilled useless shags - if however you meet one of the thousands of articulate intelligent guys around you will find they know exactly where it is and what to do with it…
Obviously i only met 2 very intelligent men. Rest been lacking , thats alot of self centred men
Depends if your ‘type’ excludes most intelligent articulate men ? Some ladies go for gym fit attractive and a bit dim… (don’t worry they won’t be able to read this!!) blokes and often they are also quite self absorbed
My past lovers ranged from rocket scientist to salemans but most had no clue of the clit. Very disappointing "Our choices are a reflection of what we are and we attract. | |||
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"I dont understand why (some) men dont make more of an effort pleasuring the clit or if they dont know how to find it, make the effort to learn, I find that when im licking the clit and doing it well, the lady im with always gives a good response to what im doing (i.e body movements or moaning etc ) which turns me on more and ends up with both of us enjoying it more. MAKE THE EFFORD LADS ! rant over "Nothing is taught well here. Esp sex education!! Lousy kissers. Lousy clit pleasers. Lousy cock suckers. Etc etc | |||
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"It’s the same reason probably that women don’t know how to give oral to a guy good enough to make them climax. …" | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Most are incredibly selfish and not in awe of the female body. Many don't seem to get pleasure from giving pleasure either, simply taking what they want. No wonder we struggle finding anyone here these days..."Agreed. | |||
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"Most men here just want to get their dick wet and leave. Only had a small handful actually care about what I'm getting from the arrangement and about half of them actually succeed. It's not that hard to find! I can almost guarantee if a man spends some time on me then we will both enjoy things a lot more! " Cum and go heh. | |||
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"Most men here just want to get their dick wet and leave. Only had a small handful actually care about what I'm getting from the arrangement and about half of them actually succeed. It's not that hard to find! I can almost guarantee if a man spends some time on me then we will both enjoy things a lot more! So glad women so far commenting know how I feel about this topic. It frustrates me most men neglect it when it's the most important part of the body to receive pleasure in my opinion "What do you offer? 1) the brain needs tickling. 2) eye contact,touch,foreplay kissing,petting, oral vice verse. Set the mood etc etc. Make any sense. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Because they're selfish. Though, to be honest, we're just not educated about that stuff. Most men I know still think the clit is that bit at the top. Very few are aware how big the clit is and how even "vaginal orgasms" are due to the clit. | |||
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"Most men here just want to get their dick wet and leave. Only had a small handful actually care about what I'm getting from the arrangement and about half of them actually succeed. It's not that hard to find! I can almost guarantee if a man spends some time on me then we will both enjoy things a lot more! So glad women so far commenting know how I feel about this topic. It frustrates me most men neglect it when it's the most important part of the body to receive pleasure in my opinion
What do you offer?
1) the brain needs tickling.
2) eye contact,touch,foreplay kissing,petting, oral vice verse.
Set the mood etc etc.
Make any sense. "17 posts in the last hour, you think you could summarise? | |||
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"I'm sorry I just find this hard to believe, everyone knows where the clit is... it's right there at the bottom of the vagina "Nope!! Look at the forehead middle. Eye contact. Speak engage a little by little. One should be on the way! | |||
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"I'm going to change my name to clit so my ex can't find me " do you like your clit being licked and sucked on x | |||
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"I find it hard to believe that the OP states the clit is the most important part of a woman's body… 50% of females on fabs state about stimulating the mind first and foremost… also the OP is looking for men 24 years and under no experience then…also wants them submissive so if she is meeting these submissive men then should they not be doing what she says so make them pleasure that clit the correct way …. Oh And a self confessed size queen I mean come on think about it how big a dick do you need to pleasure the most important part of a female body if it is the clit just as OP states. Hopefully one day she finds that 12” dick to get deep enough in to hit that clit… well I think I am going in the right direction. "Food for thought dear watson. | |||
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"I find it hard to believe that the OP states the clit is the most important part of a woman's body… 50% of females on fabs state about stimulating the mind first and foremost… also the OP is looking for men 24 years and under no experience then…also wants them submissive so if she is meeting these submissive men then should they not be doing what she says so make them pleasure that clit the correct way …. Oh And a self confessed size queen I mean come on think about it how big a dick do you need to pleasure the most important part of a female body if it is the clit just as OP states. Hopefully one day she finds that 12” dick to get deep enough in to hit that clit… well I think I am going in the right direction.
All your comment proves you have no clue about how to pleasure a woman from your critical remark about my profile. I won't lower myself to decimate your profile as I'm not that childish.
Was just an observation of your profile certainly was not critical remarks. "Fab childs play. After its a play ground,we come and we go. Watson. | |||
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"It’s the same reason probably that women don’t know how to give oral to a guy good enough to make them climax. …"
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"I'm going to change my name to clit so my ex can't find me do you like your clit being licked and sucked on x" depends if he knows what he's doing | |||
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"The only time I've heard from friends that guys don't know where it is, is when they have huge dicks and assume that's all they need...
Huge cocks doesn't make you a great lover. It takes alot to pleasure a woman which from my experience most younger men have not much of clue about. Just incase you're wondering, i have a handful of amazing lovers who made me cum multiple times in a night "Such fine details shared here. So plain openly. I say!! | |||
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"Most men here just want to get their dick wet and leave. Only had a small handful actually care about what I'm getting from the arrangement and about half of them actually succeed. It's not that hard to find! I can almost guarantee if a man spends some time on me then we will both enjoy things a lot more! So glad women so far commenting know how I feel about this topic. It frustrates me most men neglect it when it's the most important part of the body to receive pleasure in my opinion
What do you offer?
1) the brain needs tickling.
2) eye contact,touch,foreplay kissing,petting, oral vice verse.
Set the mood etc etc.
Make any sense.
17 posts in the last hour, you think you could summarise?
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" …… It frustrates me most men neglect it when it's the most important part of the body to receive pleasure in my opinion
"Which is interesting because it’s the only part of the human body that it’s only purpose is for sexual pleasure. | |||
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"Some men don't seem to truly understand much about a womens body. I once had a guy ask if I wouldn't use my dildos for a week before meeting them because it stretches me out... Lll" Hahaha no he didn’t! | |||
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" …… It frustrates me most men neglect it when it's the most important part of the body to receive pleasure in my opinion
Which is interesting because it’s the only part of the human body that it’s only purpose is for sexual pleasure. "I get turned on on other parts of my body but my clit is sure way of making me orgasm | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Wow sounds like youve been unlucky | |||
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"It’s the same reason probably that women don’t know how to give oral to a guy good enough to make them climax. …
WTF are you talking about? "I do find this quite often. But try to communicate what you want and some people just take it as read as what they were doing was wrong. | |||
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"My wife hates receiving oral. She thinks its weird. Anyone else found this?" She has never complained to me? | |||
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"My wife hates receiving oral. She thinks its weird. Anyone else found this? She has never complained to me?" To be fair, her mouth was full at the time. | |||
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"Hubby knows exactly where mine is and has a long list of ways to play with it which gives me a huge amount of pleasure. Some nights that’s all he does and it still leaves me Bambi legged and all but cross eyed. I’ve had partners before we got together who wouldn’t have known where it was or what to do with it if I’d handed them a set of instructions, a map, compass and a flashing neon sign. " Yes exactly that. You describe, point to it...they still have no clue so all you do is straight sex which to me is unfulfilling. I enjoy the whole journey, especially foreplay | |||
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"My wife hates receiving oral. She thinks its weird. Anyone else found this? She has never complained to me?" Women generally don't tell men when they're not turning them on. Most fake it to have an easier life. Personally, I move on as last time I told a guy, he disagreed and ended up in bit of an argument with him leaving. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Your hypothesis that most men neglect the clitoris can not be substantiated that is unless you have made love to most men? | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "‘Most men’ you have met obviously…… | |||
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"My wife hates receiving oral. She thinks its weird. Anyone else found this? She has never complained to me? Women generally don't tell men when they're not turning them on. Most fake it to have an easier life. Personally, I move on as last time I told a guy, he disagreed and ended up in bit of an argument with him leaving. " A tender subject ( pun intended) no doubt but how did you broach the delicate matter that caused an altercation? | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
Your hypothesis that most men neglect the clitoris can not be substantiated that is unless you have made love to most men?"She’s obviously referring to most men she has met, in her experience. No need to “Not all men” this post. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Communication is key op | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Sounds like you are meeting the wrong guys... I love to spend time exploring how a lady likes to have her clit pleasured.... and as my veris will confirm, I have a little party trick that drives most ladies wild.... | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "A lot of people just don’t know much about the opposite sex’s body and how it works. This goes for women as well as men. It’s not like this stuff is taught at school, so with the exclusion of formal training how are people supposed to learn. A lot of women are quite passive during sex so that’s not helping men learn. A lot of men just want to please themselves so that’s not really helping the women learn. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Definitely enjoy teasing and playing with the clit... But, being honest, I'm better with a finger than my tongue (even though I love going down on a lady)! | |||
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"Oh and most men forget to stimulate the g spot too thinking their cocks can do that job.... "I can do that with shallow entry and just hold that position. The teasing really works. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
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Really?? Oh dear typical run away from the issues solution, well done "Really? Is there a solution to this issue? | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "I do I never neglect a clit | |||
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"The people who reply with scarky remarks just proves to others of their attitude and personality. I know who to definitely avoid so keep them coming lol. " Sarcasm is the highest form of wit, I am told. I do keep them coming! | |||
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"Christ knows which men you’ve been meeting. Real blokes no how to touch, suck, lick and kiss the bean. Personally, I try to make sure that a clitoral orgasm is achieved before I even think about penetration and searching that G-Spot out. Makes for a much ‘wetter’ experience if you understand." The mark of a man! | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
A lot of people just don’t know much about the opposite sex’s body and how it works.
This goes for women as well as men.
It’s not like this stuff is taught at school, so with the exclusion of formal training how are people supposed to learn.
A lot of women are quite passive during sex so that’s not helping men learn.
A lot of men just want to please themselves so that’s not really helping the women learn. "Absolutely this. So I don’t understand why some men seem to be annoyed by this post, if you’re good at it, then she isn’t talking about you. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
A lot of people just don’t know much about the opposite sex’s body and how it works.
This goes for women as well as men.
It’s not like this stuff is taught at school, so with the exclusion of formal training how are people supposed to learn.
A lot of women are quite passive during sex so that’s not helping men learn.
A lot of men just want to please themselves so that’s not really helping the women learn.
Absolutely this. So I don’t understand why some men seem to be annoyed by this post, if you’re good at it, then she isn’t talking about you. "Who is annoyed? Over generalising self entitled posts are there to be commented on. This is a recreational sex site forum or am I being obtuse? | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
A lot of people just don’t know much about the opposite sex’s body and how it works.
This goes for women as well as men.
It’s not like this stuff is taught at school, so with the exclusion of formal training how are people supposed to learn.
A lot of women are quite passive during sex so that’s not helping men learn.
A lot of men just want to please themselves so that’s not really helping the women learn.
Absolutely this. So I don’t understand why some men seem to be annoyed by this post, if you’re good at it, then she isn’t talking about you.
Who is annoyed?
Over generalising self entitled posts are there to be commented on. This is a recreational sex site forum or am I being obtuse?"There’s a few who come across as being annoyed, including you. As I said, if you’re not bad at oral this post really shouldn’t warrant such a negative response. Someone referenced women not being all that good at oral to completion and nobody batted an eyelid… none of the women in the thread got their back up or complained of it being an over generalisation. I wonder why? | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!!
A lot of people just don’t know much about the opposite sex’s body and how it works.
This goes for women as well as men.
It’s not like this stuff is taught at school, so with the exclusion of formal training how are people supposed to learn.
A lot of women are quite passive during sex so that’s not helping men learn.
A lot of men just want to please themselves so that’s not really helping the women learn.
Absolutely this. So I don’t understand why some men seem to be annoyed by this post, if you’re good at it, then she isn’t talking about you.
Who is annoyed?
Over generalising self entitled posts are there to be commented on. This is a recreational sex site forum or am I being obtuse?
There’s a few who come across as being annoyed, including you.
As I said, if you’re not bad at oral this post really shouldn’t warrant such a negative response.
Someone referenced women not being all that good at oral to completion and nobody batted an eyelid… none of the women in the thread got their back up or complained of it being an over generalisation. I wonder why?"I can assure you I am not in the slightest bit annoyed. I think you commented on the post that annoyed you? The hypothesis that most men are unimaginative lovers is as stupid as saying most women are purveyors of inadequate fellatio. But the fab forum environment is a boisterous gig. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Easiest way I’ve found round this is to show him (or her… ) how I like to be touched, and guide his hands, fingers, etc….no point in lying there rolling your eyes and not enjoying yourself lol
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"I just like to do what a gentleman would do if he couldn't find the clitöris: politely ask for directions. As for technique: • Tell me and I'll forget. • Show me and I may remember. • Assist me and I will learn." It’s so sexy showing someone how you like to be touched - total turn on Mrs | |||
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"Hubby knows exactly where mine is and has a long list of ways to play with it which gives me a huge amount of pleasure. Some nights that’s all he does and it still leaves me Bambi legged and all but cross eyed. I’ve had partners before we got together who wouldn’t have known where it was or what to do with it if I’d handed them a set of instructions, a map, compass and a flashing neon sign. Yes exactly that. You describe, point to it...they still have no clue so all you do is straight sex which to me is unfulfilling. I enjoy the whole journey, especially foreplay " I am very lucky that Beard knows exactly what he’s doing and does it very very well. Foreplay definitely is a big part of the journey especially if both (all) participants are involved. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "You obviously picking the wrong guys.. I’m well into pleasuring a woman via her clit | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "I love spending time teasing a clit. Been told I’m good at it too! | |||
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"I just like to do what a gentleman would do if he couldn't find the clitöris: politely ask for directions. As for technique: • Tell me and I'll forget. • Show me and I may remember. • Assist me and I will learn. It’s so sexy showing someone how you like to be touched - total turn on This is the way for pleasure for both parties Mrs" | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "I love licking and teasing a clit, nothing like it when a woman wriggles with pleasure | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "The problem for us guys is women like different things in relation to oral sex. Some women like/love direct clitoral stimulation. Some women hate it and find it painful. Some women love their pussy lips being given attention. Some women hate it. Some women like a 69. Some women hate a 69 and prefer to just enjoy the guy pleasuring them, etc. Help us guys out and tell us what you like lol. Ask and you shall receive lol. | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "I genuinely love giving women oral sex. I love the taste of a woman. However, I would never claim to be an oral sex expert. As I said in my previous post in relation to receiving oral sex women are different. As I said previously tell us what you like. If you are worried about offending the guy say something like "I love it when you suck my clit", "I love my clit being sucked", "When you run your tongue over my pussy lips it really turns me on", etc. We are not mind readers lol | |||
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"I am aghast at the general consensus that men don’t know how, where, what a cliterous is. Do most men really not wish to give a woman as much pleasure as they possibly can? "° Clit Or Us? | |||
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"Oh and most men forget to stimulate the g spot too thinking their cocks can do that job.... "I find that with boo if she is lying on her front I can use the entire pad of my thumb to titivate the g spot and the p spot if she is on her back while the "come here" motion with the middle finger of the other hand hits the g spot every time. I can spend entire play sessions with her just teasing her with my fingers usually leaves her soaking wet and very well satisfied (beard) | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "That is either a case of poor selection based upon the wrong criteria (or judgement) or you are not communicating efficiently. Less than five minutes of frank communication and feedback will give any half intelligent man enough to go on. Points to give him: Tip or body of tongue Tongue tensed or relaxed Direct or indirect stimulation Up and down or side to side Directed tongue motion, or limp with head motion Hood raised or kept in place Inner labia spread or left alone Digital penetration or not (plus preferred action/quantity) How to modify as you progress through sensations (e.g. softer tongue as you become more sensitive, harder tongue as you become less sensitive) Speed of motion Intensity of motion The list goes on... But you are doing yourself and possibly countless others a favour by explaining it. Oh, and try for the less cocky guys with a whiff of desperation. They will do anything to please. The more you look for Adonis, the more likely he is to feel that his mere presence is enough to make you swoon. | |||
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"I am aghast at the general consensus that men don’t know how, where, what a cliterous is. Do most men really not wish to give a woman as much pleasure as they possibly can? "Most men just want to fuck something that isn't their hand.. . | |||
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"I am aghast at the general consensus that men don’t know how, where, what a cliterous is. Do most men really not wish to give a woman as much pleasure as they possibly can?
Most men just want to fuck something that isn't their hand.. . "Gotta be something special for me | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Unfortunately OP it seems you are very unlucky when it comes to Men. Most of the Men we've met and played with in clubs have been excellent at oral, so actually most Men do know how to pleasure the clit. Some Men don't like to give oral, so best to check first before meeting so you know. Hope your luck changes | |||
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"Why most men neglect it? Or have no clue how to pleasure it? If you like to make a woman cum, pleasure it!! "Depends if you think they are a mind reader or not. Some with need a point In the right direction to give best results. | |||
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"Bizarrely there is a little hamlet in the North Yorkshire dales called Klit. It’s hidden in beautiful surroundings and off the beaten track. Been there a few times but never stopped. Perhaps I will next time I am passing through?" Colonel don't, might be a portal to an alternate timespace that will disturb the fabric of the universe | |||
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