Since F left the profile we had together the people we met up with and chatted to haven’t bothered and the parties and club invites has vanished. Should I take this as a “time to hang up my boots” hint or hang about in the shadows? Anyone else had this happen too ?
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Would quite like to get the same invites as did when MF but obviously that isn’t gonna happen. Will give it a wee bit longer then bang out. Going to a club on own int the best for me anyway. |
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I have an idea or two of why you get little interest. As a male on here you have to be exceptional, lucky, and in the right place at the right time otherwise you are just background noise. |
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Read the profile of someone you wish to engage with. Respond based on the profile. Customise your responses to the shared interests you have with the intended recipient. Don’t ignore red flags started in the profile, they’ll delete and possibly block and you’ll get frustrated. Good luck  |
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"I have an idea or two of why you get little interest. As a male on here you have to be exceptional, lucky, and in the right place at the right time otherwise you are just background noise. "
From a couples perspective you have to engage us both. You have to recognise that to be invited into a play situation has to do something for everyone. There may be guys out there who like to watch their wife get fucked, but they need also be participant in the action, it’s not the other guy replacing unless that’s stated in the bio |
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I had a bad break up about 18 years ago, she went to the clubs, bars and fucked everyone. I retired from the scene till earlier this year and live in a totally different part of the country. Not a happy story, but, it happened. |
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Would quite like to get the same invites as did when MF but obviously that isn’t gonna happen. Will give it a wee bit longer then bang out. Going to a club on own int the best for me anyway. "
I think people who go to clubs on their own are very brave, I couldn't do it.
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