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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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So who has a fab crush? A profile they really find attractive and are either chatting too already or wanting to chat too and meet?
I definitely do
Anyone else? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I found a really cute girl on here but her age range for messages was just a year below my age so I can't message her. "
Yeah the filters can sometimes hamstring you but end of the day it's preferences and may have saved you a wasted message? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Yup, I have a couple that I won’t do anything about because I’m not meeting at moment and I’m petrified about being rejected  "
Yeah can understand what you mean - but what's the worst that could happen? They say no and your still in the same position? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yup, I have a couple that I won’t do anything about because I’m not meeting at moment and I’m petrified about being rejected
Yeah can understand what you mean - but what's the worst that could happen? They say no and your still in the same position? "
Sure I would have nothing to lose, but since I’m not meeting atm it would be putting myself in a vulnerable position for no reason whatsoever  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"Yup, I have a couple that I won’t do anything about because I’m not meeting at moment and I’m petrified about being rejected
Yeah can understand what you mean - but what's the worst that could happen? They say no and your still in the same position?
Sure I would have nothing to lose, but since I’m not meeting atm it would be putting myself in a vulnerable position for no reason whatsoever "
That's fair |
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"So who has a fab crush? A profile they really find attractive and are either chatting too already or wanting to chat too and meet?
I definitely do
I've got a crush or two going on lol
Anyone else? "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Yup, I have a couple that I won’t do anything about because I’m not meeting at moment and I’m petrified about being rejected
Do you really think you'd be rejected? Why?"
Haven’t said is a rational fear might be my neurodivergent rejection sensitivity dysphoria talking…or more on the lines of knowing that being neurodivergent is handicap to any type of relationship I may or may not want, but who has a theory?  |
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"Yup, I have a couple that I won’t do anything about because I’m not meeting at moment and I’m petrified about being rejected
Do you really think you'd be rejected? Why?
Haven’t said is a rational fear might be my neurodivergent rejection sensitivity dysphoria talking…or more on the lines of knowing that being neurodivergent is handicap to any type of relationship I may or may not want, but who has a theory? "
I understand that. We all have irrational fears. But in case it helps, do know that many people are actively interested in, and empathetic towards, neurodivergency. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yup, I have a couple that I won’t do anything about because I’m not meeting at moment and I’m petrified about being rejected
Do you really think you'd be rejected? Why?
Haven’t said is a rational fear might be my neurodivergent rejection sensitivity dysphoria talking…or more on the lines of knowing that being neurodivergent is handicap to any type of relationship I may or may not want, but who has a theory?
I understand that. We all have irrational fears. But in case it helps, do know that many people are actively interested in, and empathetic towards, neurodivergency."
You are very sweet and eloquent as usual, Good Sir
I’ll keep the encouragement in mind for when I find it in me to try again  |
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You are very sweet and eloquent as usual, Good Sir
I’ll keep the encouragement in mind for when I find it in me to try again "
You are always so kind. So are most people here, I think, which might also be worth remembering. Best of luck with your reaching out. |
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By *mp411Man
over a year ago
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"So who has a fab crush? A profile they really find attractive and are either chatting too already or wanting to chat too and meet?
I definitely do
Anyone else? "
Yes sent her a message she hasn't even bothered to read it |
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By *os19Man
over a year ago
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A few years ago I did have a Fabs crush but I couldn’t do anything about it as I was a couple of years above her upper age limit.Then one day she sent me a wink we exchanged messages and met up.Unfortunately for me she felt I was a bit too full on so she choose to end things. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a few but I'm a terrible conversation starter on anything text related. I di really well in real life and hit it off with most people but I have severe mental block on messages and my sense of humour doesn't show through... so yeah lots of crushes no hope of getting anywhere with them ha ha |
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"So who has a fab crush? A profile they really find attractive and are either chatting too already or wanting to chat too and meet?
I definitely do
Anyone else? "
Have a few check them all the time & they never leave my hotlist |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I definitely do. I've started crushing on a few people since coming back to use the website more over the last few months.
I speak to a couple of them often and they are more than aware of what I want to do.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We have a few, however we don't get a reply or our timing is off.  "
Yeah sometimes its about just getting that message sent at the right time so that they see it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definitely do. I've started crushing on a few people since coming back to use the website more over the last few months.
I speak to a couple of them often and they are more than aware of what I want to do. "
I'm gonna say you are on a lot of people hotlists / crush lists.
Definitely on ours x  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definitely do. I've started crushing on a few people since coming back to use the website more over the last few months.
I speak to a couple of them often and they are more than aware of what I want to do. "
Wow your gorgeous, now crushing on you xx |
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"I wouldn't say 'crush' as such bit there's definitely a couple that have stood out to me
Mrs"
Agreed, probably a bit too old to have "crushes", but there are certainly a few couples we'd love to get to know a bit more intimately.... |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I definitely do. I've started crushing on a few people since coming back to use the website more over the last few months.
I speak to a couple of them often and they are more than aware of what I want to do. "
Another lady I have a huge fab crush on - too far away to do anything about though  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I really do not understand this post and should probably get a adult to explain it.
If we like someone then we do not tell them but secretly fantasise and never know what might of happened????
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We message them and say hello. They could ignore us, block us or we could get to know each other and work towards making those fantasies a reality? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"We have a few but Daphne is too nervous to take the next step because of their size
Sorry  
Great cock by the way
I’ll pass on the message "
Haha feel free to pass it right to my mouth to say thankyou  |
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"We have a few but Daphne is too nervous to take the next step because of their size
Sorry
Great cock by the way
I’ll pass on the message
Haha feel free to pass it right to my mouth to say thankyou "
He says no  |
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"Yup, I have a couple that I won’t do anything about because I’m not meeting at moment and I’m petrified about being rejected "
You shouldn't be, if you were in the club with our band of misfits you would be treated like a princess. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Yup, I have a couple that I won’t do anything about because I’m not meeting at moment and I’m petrified about being rejected
You shouldn't be, if you were in the club with our band of misfits you would be treated like a princess. "
That's very sweet of you to say, thank you |
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I (Mrs) had 2. On a whim & instigated by a similar forum thread I bit the bullet and got in touch.
Both have responded favourably . So I would urge people to give it a go. I would have said they were well out of my league (not Mr’s - he’s gorgeous) but apparently not. |
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