Never really had a FWB from FAB before. How does it all work? How often do you text and see eachother? Do you tell eachother about other people you want or will sleep with? What's people's experiences of having FWB from FAB?   |
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"Never really had a FWB from FAB before. How does it all work? How often do you text and see eachother? Do you tell eachother about other people you want or will sleep with? What's people's experiences of having FWB from FAB? "
I met someone last year who ended up being a fwb for a short time, it was no different to any other fwb ive had in the past outside of fab, I think it all depends on how you want for your own experience.
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"Never really had a FWB from FAB before. How does it all work? How often do you text and see eachother? Do you tell eachother about other people you want or will sleep with? What's people's experiences of having FWB from FAB?
I met someone last year who ended up being a fwb for a short time, it was no different to any other fwb ive had in the past outside of fab, I think it all depends on how you want for your own experience.
I hope that helps x"
I never had a fwb so no idea what it entails. Especially one from fab |
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"Never really had a FWB from FAB before. How does it all work? How often do you text and see eachother? Do you tell eachother about other people you want or will sleep with? What's people's experiences of having FWB from FAB?
I met someone last year who ended up being a fwb for a short time, it was no different to any other fwb ive had in the past outside of fab, I think it all depends on how you want for your own experience.
I hope that helps x
I never had a fwb so no idea what it entails. Especially one from fab"
ohhh in that case my previous comment is no help at all lol. I tend to have a set of rules which both myself and my fwb agree with so that there is no complications, i.e complete honesty with each other, for me its like a relationship but without any commitment to each other and the freedom to have sex with other people etc |
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"Never really had a FWB from FAB before. How does it all work? How often do you text and see eachother? Do you tell eachother about other people you want or will sleep with? What's people's experiences of having FWB from FAB?
I met someone last year who ended up being a fwb for a short time, it was no different to any other fwb ive had in the past outside of fab, I think it all depends on how you want for your own experience.
I hope that helps x
I never had a fwb so no idea what it entails. Especially one from fab
ohhh in that case my previous comment is no help at all lol. I tend to have a set of rules which both myself and my fwb agree with so that there is no complications, i.e complete honesty with each other, for me its like a relationship but without any commitment to each other and the freedom to have sex with other people etc "
Oh even as a fab fwb, treat it like a normal relationship? Like do social activities, meet each other family or friends?  |
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I have two FWBs I’ve met on another site. How it works is different for both.
#1 I have been in contact with since March. We meet up very rarely as he has a chronic illness, but we message every day and feel quite emotionally close. But we’re not partners, we had a discussion and he said he’s not available to be a boyfriend because of his circumstances. We meet up maybe once a month and it’s sweet & fun. In between we flirt. We are friends first and foremost, so more friends than benefits.
#2 I’ve been seeing since April. We meet up every 2 weeks or so, we go out for drinks or dinner, then we have an overnight. We don’t talk loads in between as he’s not much of a communicator (I kinda hate this tbh but it’s how he is) but when we see each other he reassures me he’s not going anywhere. So more benefits than friends, but we get on super well and I love his company.
I have feelings of some sort for both, but as I’m happily single I don’t feel I need to make either a boyfriend. I’m trying out ethical nonmonogamy and I guess I’m a bit of a Relationship Anarchist.
I hope the two relationships will carry on but I also accept that they probably have a time limit. I try to enjoy them for what they are, in the moment. |
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I’ve never had one too. Although I still speak to someone who lives far too far away to see often, I’d say she’s a friend.
We speak about stuff, and try to arrange meeting up (not just sexy stuff).
If she shared who she wants to get with, I’d think it was a bit weird as we’d never done that at first anyway. But I wouldn’t mind. |
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You don't have to message everyday, but it's good to keep in touch, even if you're just chatting shit. Meet up for sex when you can. Even if it's not super-regular, that can be good in building up the desire between meets |
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"I have two FWBs I’ve met on another site. How it works is different for both.
#1 I have been in contact with since March. We meet up very rarely as he has a chronic illness, but we message every day and feel quite emotionally close. But we’re not partners, we had a discussion and he said he’s not available to be a boyfriend because of his circumstances. We meet up maybe once a month and it’s sweet & fun. In between we flirt. We are friends first and foremost, so more friends than benefits.
#2 I’ve been seeing since April. We meet up every 2 weeks or so, we go out for drinks or dinner, then we have an overnight. We don’t talk loads in between as he’s not much of a communicator (I kinda hate this tbh but it’s how he is) but when we see each other he reassures me he’s not going anywhere. So more benefits than friends, but we get on super well and I love his company.
I have feelings of some sort for both, but as I’m happily single I don’t feel I need to make either a boyfriend. I’m trying out ethical nonmonogamy and I guess I’m a bit of a Relationship Anarchist.
I hope the two relationships will carry on but I also accept that they probably have a time limit. I try to enjoy them for what they are, in the moment. "
That's a great review of the whole situation and you're outlook on it.
I am currently looking to find a lady fwb that's okay with hanging out with someone who's not a massive communicator in the sense of casual chat. I am great with communication when it's important or within the sexy space, but in general, I don't chat masses. |
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"I have two FWBs I’ve met on another site. How it works is different for both.
#1 I have been in contact with since March. We meet up very rarely as he has a chronic illness, but we message every day and feel quite emotionally close. But we’re not partners, we had a discussion and he said he’s not available to be a boyfriend because of his circumstances. We meet up maybe once a month and it’s sweet & fun. In between we flirt. We are friends first and foremost, so more friends than benefits.
#2 I’ve been seeing since April. We meet up every 2 weeks or so, we go out for drinks or dinner, then we have an overnight. We don’t talk loads in between as he’s not much of a communicator (I kinda hate this tbh but it’s how he is) but when we see each other he reassures me he’s not going anywhere. So more benefits than friends, but we get on super well and I love his company.
I have feelings of some sort for both, but as I’m happily single I don’t feel I need to make either a boyfriend. I’m trying out ethical nonmonogamy and I guess I’m a bit of a Relationship Anarchist.
I hope the two relationships will carry on but I also accept that they probably have a time limit. I try to enjoy them for what they are, in the moment.
That's a great review of the whole situation and you're outlook on it.
I am currently looking to find a lady fwb that's okay with hanging out with someone who's not a massive communicator in the sense of casual chat. I am great with communication when it's important or within the sexy space, but in general, I don't chat masses."
For me, communication is important unless I'm not really into that person. Like using someone as occasional sex toy...humm maybe I get tempted by the right person  |
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"I had a fab, but the sex was so good we fucked every night
Didn't get bored or thought it was too intense? My prospective fwb lives bit of a distance and I'm usually busy with work."
How are you going to be friends or find time for the benefits? |
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By *unforyou73Man
over a year ago
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I’ve had a couple of fwb they were great fun it’s like having a best friend to have a drink with and have a laugh then fuck at the end of the night
And then meet up again the following week, shame not many ladies like it, but maybe it me that puts them off
But if it works and your open about it no problems  |
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I just see it as either a fwb or a relationship where they don’t move in.
My last fwb we used to just communicate like mates, I’d tell her everything and she would me, we’d go out and have fun and sleep together but we had our own lives |
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For me, communication is important unless I'm not really into that person. Like using someone as occasional sex toy...humm maybe I get tempted by the right person "
Yeah tbh I don’t enjoy the lack of in-between communication with my second guy. But when we’re together he reassures me (which I ask him to do). I absolutely love lots of chat & attention and that’s what I get from guy number one.
I try to think of it like this: no one person can fulfil all your needs, so I get some things from one guy (daily communication, emotional intimacy, sweetness) and other from the other (nights out, sex). It can be hard sometimes but I get most of my needs met. Obviously none of those needs are “to have a boyfriend I live with” so if that need arises then I’ll rethink! |
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I had a fwb we chatted texted went out for drinks meals
We was friends and benefits
We did a few say I'd meet him or her
We did have a couple of mmf and played with a few couples but we was friends |
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"Never really had a FWB from FAB before. How does it all work? How often do you text and see eachother? Do you tell eachother about other people you want or will sleep with? What's people's experiences of having FWB from FAB? "
Are you the most unsuccessful fibber ever |
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A couple of months ago I found a fwb, we message everyday about random stuff, how's your day going, occasional sexting etc..
I go to his, we have food, watch a film and sex, I sleep over if convenient for us both, we have been out a couple of times, currently planning a trip to cinema next week 
This is working for us both at the moment, how long for, who knows, so just enjoying and making the most of the situation  |
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"I had a fab, but the sex was so good we fucked every night
Didn't get bored or thought it was too intense? My prospective fwb lives bit of a distance and I'm usually busy with work."
No it was bloody amazing |
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"I have two FWBs I’ve met on another site. How it works is different for both.
#1 I have been in contact with since March. We meet up very rarely as he has a chronic illness, but we message every day and feel quite emotionally close. But we’re not partners, we had a discussion and he said he’s not available to be a boyfriend because of his circumstances. We meet up maybe once a month and it’s sweet & fun. In between we flirt. We are friends first and foremost, so more friends than benefits.
#2 I’ve been seeing since April. We meet up every 2 weeks or so, we go out for drinks or dinner, then we have an overnight. We don’t talk loads in between as he’s not much of a communicator (I kinda hate this tbh but it’s how he is) but when we see each other he reassures me he’s not going anywhere. So more benefits than friends, but we get on super well and I love his company.
I have feelings of some sort for both, but as I’m happily single I don’t feel I need to make either a boyfriend. I’m trying out ethical nonmonogamy and I guess I’m a bit of a Relationship Anarchist.
I hope the two relationships will carry on but I also accept that they probably have a time limit. I try to enjoy them for what they are, in the moment.
That's a great review of the whole situation and you're outlook on it.
I am currently looking to find a lady fwb that's okay with hanging out with someone who's not a massive communicator in the sense of casual chat. I am great with communication when it's important or within the sexy space, but in general, I don't chat masses.
For me, communication is important unless I'm not really into that person. Like using someone as occasional sex toy...humm maybe I get tempted by the right person "
No no I don't mean like using someone in that way. I don't talk masses like an extroverted person does. I'm introverted so talk much less, but when I can open up with the individual, I do talk more. I'm just reserved until I come out of my shell. |
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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago
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"Never really had a FWB from FAB before. How does it all work? How often do you text and see eachother? Do you tell eachother about other people you want or will sleep with? What's people's experiences of having FWB from FAB? "
Part answered this in your other thread. It might be easier to describe fb's and fwb's as the differences become more obvious.
FB - someone who doesn't want a relationship, you get on with each other, can basically call up and fuck. You meet you have a decent time, there are few questions asked and you go your separate ways. It could be every other day, once a week or once every few months but it's basically just fun.
FWB's - same as the above but is more long lasting. You're more sharing about personal info, events, are able to trust what is said goes no further, can fuck like rabbits or can chill with a film, meal out, help with a house move kind of thing - are friends but have added benefits.
In both you're both able to see others, I found with fb's there was little talk of other meets as there was really no point, with fwb you should be able to as you're a lot more relaxed about what is said. |
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