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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I wish I could be more like that... I just can't let go easily with someone I've not built some sort of connection with.
I don't think it's unusual though, plenty on here who want the same as you. |
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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago
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"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"
Not unusual at all, different strokes for different folks. If we were all the same this would be one boring world to live in. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish I could be more like that... I just can't let go easily with someone I've not built some sort of connection with.
I don't think it's unusual though, plenty on here who want the same as you. "
Think of it as a live porn wank? |
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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"
Not at all.
I suspect that's the case more with couples than singles, but there are probably more on here feeling that way than you think.
You just won't see it said too often in the forums because it can make people look selfish, uninterested in someone's personality and only seeing them as a sex toy. But let's face it - there's nothing wrong with seeing swinging as just casual without connection, not requiring emotional intimacy and viewing any physical encounter as just that - a physical encounter for mutual pleasure with no expectancy of any future contact.
If everyone wanted to be long term bosom buddies with everyone they met and be involved in their lives moving forward it would be a bit fucking weird. Yes, you may meet some people you see more than once and yes, some may become friends.
But those people will likely be in the minority.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?
Not at all.
I suspect that's the case more with couples than singles, but there are probably more on here feeling that way than you think.
You just won't see it said too often in the forums because it can make people look selfish, uninterested in someone's personality and only seeing them as a sex toy. But let's face it - there's nothing wrong with seeing swinging as just casual without connection, not requiring emotional intimacy and viewing any physical encounter as just that - a physical encounter for mutual pleasure with no expectancy of any future contact.
If everyone wanted to be long term bosom buddies with everyone they met and be involved in their lives moving forward it would be a bit fucking weird. Yes, you may meet some people you see more than once and yes, some may become friends.
But those people will likely be in the minority.
A"
Well yes, in all fairness if I met up with a couple and they then offered for me to pop round every Sunday for dinner, or attend their kids school plays. I'd find it a bit off putting  |
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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago
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Not unusual
There has to be an attraction when 1st chatting and everyone has a tyke they prefer, other than that, it’s the thrill and the fun. Indulging in something you enjoy, a little bit of escapism from the normal |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No strings attached, “you’re fit” fuck me, job done move on to the next. But this can’t apply to everyone you meet some people are worth the return visit and an established connection |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I like to chat and meet for a social
And if I like happy days for both  but now and then you meet someone who's so good got to see again and again as the more you see of them play gets very Naughty 
Definitely not looking for regular boyfriend so swing is always for me |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"
I would say no, there are times when we need sex and why shudnt we gave it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?
I would say no, there are times when we need sex and why shudnt we gave it"
Keep it in the forum |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We're here for just sex. We have our relationship and connection between us. The extra's we meet are 'just sex'. May sound cold, but we're swingers. "
You birthday wish for a 50 man gang bang maybe a little optimistic? 50 guys who say take 5 minutes on average that’s just over 4 hours. With comfort, tea and lunch breaks that’s got to be a full day commitment?
I’d settle for a cake! |
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No ,plenty just want sex and that's fine .It's not for me though ,even when my partner and I meet we like friendships & socials too.
You do what works for you and as long as you're upfront ,no harm done.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just sex is fine by me we all have needs and reasons why we are on here. its when there is a connection that things can get complicated , just my own thoughts |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"
No your not unusual, you have your preference with what you want from this site just like everyone else, you keep doing you  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"I wish I could be more like that... I just can't let go easily with someone I've not built some sort of connection with.
I don't think it's unusual though, plenty on here who want the same as you. "
I can relate a bit with what you say, I feel a connection built leads to better sex |
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If a long term friendship occurred we'd be happy for that. I personally think it's very difficult to build a genuine connection with anyone in the brief time you spend with them. But then we were in our twenties in the 70s when casual sex was accepted in our circles and we were happy to have a chat, a good laugh and not read too much into it. |
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By *igT-Time-4-FunMan
over a year ago
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Much prefer a 2 or 3 hour meet even a overnight stay tbh.
So much nice
More time to discover.
And delight lol.
Saying that a quicky can be good to like NOW
So horny
Alone
May have to do porn unless someone come to my rescue.
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"We're here for just sex. We have our relationship and connection between us. The extra's we meet are 'just sex'. May sound cold, but we're swingers.
You birthday wish for a 50 man gang bang maybe a little optimistic? 50 guys who say take 5 minutes on average that’s just over 4 hours. With comfort, tea and lunch breaks that’s got to be a full day commitment?
I’d settle for a cake!"
Only optimstic as 50 guys wouldn't turn up. I've acheived around 30 in one gb. Only stopped due to running out of men. Our local club we visit, we on avaridge spend 6 hours there. I say I'll settle for cake, as I don't want to get my hopes up, and be let down again. We were ghosted by a single guy for a planned meet on my birthday last year. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?"
Not unusual at all. All preference and what you're looking for. As it's a swinging site, doesn't mean you have to befriend everyone you come across. |
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"Are we unusual in that we are not looking for a connection or long term friendship & just want sex?
Not unusual at all. All preference and what you're looking for. As it's a swinging site, doesn't mean you have to befriend everyone you come across."
Well said |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I’m between for us. Pumpkin doesn’t know if she’s attracted to somebody physically until she’s met, so she always socials first. We’ve done ‘meet and fuck’ it does nothing for us |
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