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Hey everyone I guess this is a post for the women to answer.
Me and my male partner have just discovered im a cuckquean. is this a big turn on for other women to be the one having sex being watched, if so how can we improve our profile or even send messages to women without sounding rude. We all have our kinks and I get others have their opinions so no hate please x |
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I’m a cuck queen also.
The easiest was is probably set up a single fem profile ( like I have done ) and explain what you are looking for.
Also you will find more chances of cuck queening in clubs than on fab itself |
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Little bit of a cuckqueen here too although I do like to get stuck in rather than just watch, as a female who doesn't like being watched I can see from other women's perspective that it could feel like "putting on a show" I tend to just take a step back and watch or photograph them then join back in.
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over a year ago
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Similar situation, I think due to the nature of the site most women feel as though it’s a single man messaging, ladies would love my guy and I would love to watch and feel jealous x |
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"Must admit when we full swap with couples I do prefer to be fucked doggy so I can watch my husband fucking the other lady, massive massive turn on being fucked and seeing that  "
I like the sound of that, just never found the right couple, seems I'm too picky with men  |
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"Must admit when we full swap with couples I do prefer to be fucked doggy so I can watch my husband fucking the other lady, massive massive turn on being fucked and seeing that
I like the sound of that, just never found the right couple, seems I'm too picky with men "
Sometimes a girl just has to take one for the team. Well when the lady is 100% smoking and you wanna see your husband make her cum that is 
But yeah, it’s hard enough finding a lady we both like, let alone couples  |
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Hold up I got a serious question! Why do so many cuckquean couples not show pics of the man? Isn't he the star of the show, who you are promoting? How or why would a cuckcake ever pick you two? Esp. critical when the cuckquean is straight and/or doesn't even want to be there. OP you say you have a lot to offer, what is it? Put ourselves out there a bit  |
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"Must admit when we full swap with couples I do prefer to be fucked doggy so I can watch my husband fucking the other lady, massive massive turn on being fucked and seeing that
I like the sound of that, just never found the right couple, seems I'm too picky with men
Sometimes a girl just has to take one for the team. Well when the lady is 100% smoking and you wanna see your husband make her cum that is
But yeah, it’s hard enough finding a lady we both like, let alone couples "
Yeah I don't take one for the team, we're either both in or not x |
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"Hold up I got a serious question! Why do so many cuckquean couples not show pics of the man? Isn't he the star of the show, who you are promoting? How or why would a cuckcake ever pick you two? Esp. critical when the cuckquean is straight and/or doesn't even want to be there. OP you say you have a lot to offer, what is it? Put ourselves out there a bit "
I always wonder this too, well in general with couples profiles |
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We do, and we openly send photos once messaging. We are very private because of jobs we have so not keen on having everyone/anyone seeing bodies or faces. Yes the male would be the star of the show and I'm sure no one would be complaining when they see his star of the show lol. Were completely new to this so any advice is appreciated |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuckcake here looking for the right cuckquean couple. I love the idea of it as long as there’s none of the humiliation aspect involved. I get excited at the idea of the cuckquean being the power in the dynamic, to be one the giving away her man and trusting me to be with him. Think I’m just going to go have a lay down for a moment lol |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've got a fairly balanced male to female picture gallery as I'm not being the consolation prize, the lady of the couple has to want me as well as the male want her. I also want to see I'm not selling BB short just because I fancy someone.
BB despite quite a strong green streak enjoys seeing me in action, especially if she finds the other woman attractive. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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The more we have played with ladies the more i love watching him with another woman get a massive kick out of it now.
Love it when hes fucking a lady and kissing me at same time.
Got a fantasy for me to be tied to a chair and teased and told to watch but not being able to touch myself in anyway sexually till im allowed or they do it to me ,any ladies help out ? 
S xx |
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"We do, and we openly send photos once messaging. We are very private because of jobs we have so not keen on having everyone/anyone seeing bodies or faces. Yes the male would be the star of the show and I'm sure no one would be complaining when they see his star of the show lol. Were completely new to this so any advice is appreciated "
By wanting to control who sees your pics you have to rely on apprehending the single women and making an approach, all of which is active searching. Not sure if you're aware, but a large chunk of single fem accounts operate on hidden mode - they won't show up on your searches, if you're lucky you and they're not browsing incognito also you might watch them browse by. Perhaps I'm generalising but I think the kind of woman who would get her kicks out of fucking a man before his partner would make a first move if she saw you and fancied you; but single profile women as a rule don't stop long on pictureless profiles, there is no need. So these are a few things to consider |
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By *ayjay22Couple
over a year ago
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This right here is exactly why I love watching my husband fuck another woman - because I told him too I’ve always wondered why I love it so much and tried to use google to help but it talks about a feeling of humiliation but that’s not what it is for me at all. I want him to make another woman feel the way I do and tell him how to please her |
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"This right here is exactly why I love watching my husband fuck another woman - because I told him too I’ve always wondered why I love it so much and tried to use google to help but it talks about a feeling of humiliation but that’s not what it is for me at all. I want him to make another woman feel the way I do and tell him how to please her "
Absolutely, my thought exactly! Not interested in the humiliation just want him to enjoy himself and her  |
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"This right here is exactly why I love watching my husband fuck another woman - because I told him too I’ve always wondered why I love it so much and tried to use google to help but it talks about a feeling of humiliation but that’s not what it is for me at all. I want him to make another woman feel the way I do and tell him how to please her "
I read somewhere its a turn on of jealously that turns women on because we are there. If we wasn't it would be a different story. We are in control, we tell them what to and what not to do. The 3rd party gets given how we get it watching her give what we give our men but knowing its not as good because we know what drives them crazy. We are still in search for someone who is confident enough to be watched so for now I can only imagine what it would be like lol but wow it turns me on! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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My now ex wife was a special friend of a couple. The husband would fuck my wife and the wife would lick my wife. I was cuckold to my wife so was left at home while they played |
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"We’re very interested in exploring this dynamic. Never had the pleasure, but the thought of it is a massive turn on."
It really is hard to find but don't give up as I'm not there's a few people that are interested but then go cold turkey on us and don't stop messaging. Best of luck! |
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"Oh really. I have no idea how to find places like this or even if they would let me in as I am pregnant... another hard one to find someone open minded to join us in the bedroom "
Pregnant ladies are gorgeous. Should not be an hard one. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Cuckquean of the couple here too !
We have a couples profile and I do alot of the messaging to others - we have verifications of being a couple which is good because it shows we aren’t just a single bloke
We may have had more luck as I don’t actually care if I’m there ( which I think it’s more similar to cuckolding / hotwifing but the male version ) so there isn’t the pressure for single women of being watched or whatever ?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Also just had a look at your profile and it reads to me more that you’re looking for a 3sum rather than being a Cuck ? Looking for unicorns ?
Everyone struggles with that lol |
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"This right here is exactly why I love watching my husband fuck another woman - because I told him too I’ve always wondered why I love it so much and tried to use google to help but it talks about a feeling of humiliation but that’s not what it is for me at all. I want him to make another woman feel the way I do and tell him how to please her
Absolutely, my thought exactly! Not interested in the humiliation just want him to enjoy himself and her "
I'm totally with you on that one, I don't get the humilliation thing but I get so much joy from just watching Mr enjoying himself with other women, hes got a higher sex drive than me and sometimes its nice to not be the one under the spotlight. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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In a MFMF scenario could you do a rolling cuck swap?
Once swapped one couple sits out separately and watches the action. Then at a pre agreed point the other swapped couple stop and sit out and watch the other ones in action.
Does that even constitute cuck if they are"told" to sit and watch?
You could even take it a step further and do a rolling threesome
Or is this something completely different with another term? |
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Wish there was a category for marking if you're a cucquean or cake or unicorn... i find it so hard whittling the right people down. Its so much more than mff as well..its the psychological play that's got to be right for me |
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"Wish there was a category for marking if you're a cucquean or cake or unicorn... i find it so hard whittling the right people down. Its so much more than mff as well..its the psychological play that's got to be right for me"
This would be very good! So much easier to find someone thats interested in this than pestering everyone just to ask or that others can see its what your in to and get in contact with you |
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"Similar situation, I think due to the nature of the site most women feel as though it’s a single man messaging, ladies would love my guy and I would love to watch and feel jealous x"
Exactly this, they always think its D messaging and its a shame as I think they're missing out, we'd make sure anyone who joined us would be more than looked after x the search continues I guess  all we can do is keep being us and hopefully our veris speak for themselves one day lol x |
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"This right here is exactly why I love watching my husband fuck another woman - because I told him too I’ve always wondered why I love it so much and tried to use google to help but it talks about a feeling of humiliation but that’s not what it is for me at all. I want him to make another woman feel the way I do and tell him how to please her "
Exactly, its not about humiliation for us either, definitely more I get to watch him from another angle and get to see the pleasure he brings me being bought to someone else to enjoy x like yeah that's my man!! X |
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Cuckquean here! Love my partner with another women - finding another women who understands I'm not into joining in with her and just want to watch them two is very difficult! Would love to find a lovely lady to build a friendship with |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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Cuckquean is the female version of cuck and i dont see any Cuckqueans all i see is the opposite of hotwife ie hot husband
cuckolding as a kink is not simply just watching your partner with another there's far more involved all i see is hot husbands having fun while the wife is watching very much a normal dynamic ib the swinging scene |
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"Cuckquean is the female version of cuck and i dont see any Cuckqueans all i see is the opposite of hotwife ie hot husband
cuckolding as a kink is not simply just watching your partner with another there's far more involved all i see is hot husbands having fun while the wife is watching very much a normal dynamic ib the swinging scene"
To be honest with you, trying to find another women who is just ok with the female partner watching is difficult enough! Let alone finding a lady who understands the mental side and happy with that as well |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
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"Cuckquean is the female version of cuck and i dont see any Cuckqueans all i see is the opposite of hotwife ie hot husband
cuckolding as a kink is not simply just watching your partner with another there's far more involved all i see is hot husbands having fun while the wife is watching very much a normal dynamic ib the swinging scene
To be honest with you, trying to find another women who is just ok with the female partner watching is difficult enough! Let alone finding a lady who understands the mental side and happy with that as well "
the whole scene is getting more and more difficult thats why when you find good people you friend them and hopefully make it regular ... 95% of my meets and our meets are from a network of 30 years on the scene and most of whom we meet are from clubs or other means ..love fab its the best online site there is but the sheer number of men is making the site get harder and harder as more join |
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Cuckquean here
We've been looking for this kind of play for a while now and talked to a few people but nothing has materialised for various reasons.
I used to be more into the idea of watching and/or me not being there, but I've recently been more into the thought of me having a more Domme(ish) role, just because I enjoy the control as much as I do the jealousy |
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By *ickD80Man
over a year ago
Wolverhampton |
"We do, and we openly send photos once messaging. We are very private because of jobs we have so not keen on having everyone/anyone seeing bodies or faces. Yes the male would be the star of the show and I'm sure no one would be complaining when they see his star of the show lol. Were completely new to this so any advice is appreciated "
The one public picture you have pretty much shows your identity though. If I knew you in real life and I saw that picture then I’d definitely recognise you. The stars over your eyes don’t really hide that much, it’s not that different to wearing a pair of dark sunglasses and thinking no one will be able to tell who you are. |
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Definitely get to the clubs.
I’d never meet a couple or play with a married guy 1:1 but in clubs I do.
Something about a sexy environment and being watched (watched wether single guy or married- and by everyone not just wife) is super hot.
But I’d never be the sex toy putting on a show for the wife in private…. I think most single gals want it all to be mutual and involved. This doesn’t tend to lean towards that IMO x |
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over a year ago
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Massive fantasy for me probably my number 1 but it’s difficult to arrange I’ve been looking for couples who enjoy the same for possible scenario swaps so that both lady’s can enjoy… to be honest I don’t think I could just sit and watch for the whole meet as I’d get far to excited but I’d like to try we have found some people are open to the idea of it but weren’t keen on my hubby as he’s a bigger framed man so has been frustrating to try to arrange but a girl lives in hope
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I’d say I’m close to a cuckqueen in that I want to watch the hubby with another woman and see them enjoy each other.. but I also want to join in and share the fun so I don’t think I qualify as a cuckqueen do I?
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It's a huge turn on for lincslady. However we have only spoken about it and never acted on it. She has a singles profile to try and act on it but got blown away by the volume of messages and gave up trying to administer the account. Shame really. |
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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago
Bristol |
"I’d say I’m close to a cuckqueen in that I want to watch the hubby with another woman and see them enjoy each other.. but I also want to join in and share the fun so I don’t think I qualify as a cuckqueen do I?
Mrs "
Typically cuckqueaning involves elements of kink play, such as humiliation of the quean by the cuckcake, or the quean being obedient to the husband and cake by servicing them while they enjoy each other, being made to watch but not allowed to touch, these kind of games. Husbands fucking other women for the pleasure of their wives is either at home or away is hot husbanding.
But these are all just definitions that people can bend to suit themselves and what they enjoy, and blend into each other in the same way stag and vixen play, hotwifing and cuckholding do. Do what you enjoy, and call it whatever you like!  |
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"I’d say I’m close to a cuckqueen in that I want to watch the hubby with another woman and see them enjoy each other.. but I also want to join in and share the fun so I don’t think I qualify as a cuckqueen do I?
Mrs
Typically cuckqueaning involves elements of kink play, such as humiliation of the quean by the cuckcake, or the quean being obedient to the husband and cake by servicing them while they enjoy each other, being made to watch but not allowed to touch, these kind of games. Husbands fucking other women for the pleasure of their wives is either at home or away is hot husbanding.
But these are all just definitions that people can bend to suit themselves and what they enjoy, and blend into each other in the same way stag and vixen play, hotwifing and cuckholding do. Do what you enjoy, and call it whatever you like! "
Totally agree with doing what you enjoy and calling it what you like. Who needs labels anyway lol. When we are playing with another woman I always take 5 and sit back and watch the action as it turns me on so much knowing the lady is experiencing the same intense pleasure I receive from hubby.
It sometimes needs a conversation beforehand though as the lady can think there’s something wrong and be put off by my sitting on the sidelines lol. |
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