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How long do you last?
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Be honest now.
What is the longest you have lasted with a meet and what is the shortest?
How do you stop yourself coming?
Ladies, you may know better. Is there someone who just does not stop or have you had someone walk through the door and cum strait away? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sadly for myself it’s rare I do cum. I can stay hard for ages (usually in a meet a min of 45 mins but has been known to be 90).
The quickest I have cum in a meet is 30 mins or so  |
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By *94meeMan
over a year ago
Manchester |
Depends. Many factors come into play! Can be 2 mins, can be 2 hours.
Also round 2/3 can start straight away and could go on all night.
All depends on what type of meet is wanted and planned by everyone involved!
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I have had it where I cum really quickly but mostly around 10-15 mins of actual fucking, if you feel like you are about to cum, just stop and change position - then make sure you go back to the one that felt that good |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
"Be honest now.
What is the longest you have lasted with a meet and what is the shortest?
How do you stop yourself coming?
Ladies, you may know better. Is there someone who just does not stop or have you had someone walk through the door and cum strait away?"
I used to go for 8 or 9 hours but these days 2 or 3 hours  |
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It often takes me a long time to cum. My last few meets have involved hours of sex before I've orgasmed, and to be honest I like it that way. As soon as my orgasm happens, it like a switch has been flipped and I'm no longer horny, it takes a little time to build up the horny feelings again. And for the second round I often take even longer to cum! Although I can't say this gets any complaints  |
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By *ornycougaWoman
over a year ago
Wherever I lay my hat |
"It often takes me a long time to cum. My last few meets have involved hours of sex before I've orgasmed, and to be honest I like it that way. As soon as my orgasm happens, it like a switch has been flipped and I'm no longer horny, it takes a little time to build up the horny feelings again. And for the second round I often take even longer to cum! Although I can't say this gets any complaints "
I could get on board with that sort of meet  |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I'd say it really varies. Couldn't say for a meet but we have been able to play for hours and then there's other times where A makes me cum in about 10 minutes haha. It all depends on the mood and everything leading up to it.
C x |
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"It often takes me a long time to cum. My last few meets have involved hours of sex before I've orgasmed, and to be honest I like it that way. As soon as my orgasm happens, it like a switch has been flipped and I'm no longer horny, it takes a little time to build up the horny feelings again. And for the second round I often take even longer to cum! Although I can't say this gets any complaints
I could get on board with that sort of meet "
Lol behave you  |
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Confession Time: I cum quick, normally within a minute if I am super excited. I make sure I am up front about this. Those who I meet with understand this will happen. So, we make me cum, the best people love this and quite often we leave the cum where it is and continue to play. This gives me the opportunity to explore them, worth my hands, my tongue. That is until I am hard again, usually no more than 5 minutes. After that I get hard and stay hard for a good 45 mins to an hour. I know it's not for everyone, but it's worked really nicely with understanding, sexy people I know.  |
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I’ve had a mixture tbh. 1 guy came after I ducked his cock for less than 2 minutes, another within a minute of fucking. Others have gone on and on and on.
Personally for myself, guys that go on and on and on without cumming I don’t enjoy. Don’t get me wrong I love a good fucking session, but when they are like the Duracell bunny I get quickly turned off.
Guys who cum really quick, it’s a hot compliment and I don’t mind as long as they can get it back up and carry on. |
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"20 seconds and an hour and a half, first go in awful, I’ve tried different techniques but hasn’t worked. Anyone have suggestions that would be appreciated "
Please Describe the techniques so we don't suggest something that you have already tried. |
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"My wife calls me two stroke Sam…therefore Hi-Diddle-Dee-Dee a Cuckold Life For Me.  "
Sorry to hear that. I prefer 100 strokes without stopping. all the guy has to do is maintain the erection but that's what viagra and cock rings are for.
However, I can do it myself. I work a manual job, I have a personal fitness trainer once a week, I go to the gym and I can swim 100 breaststrokes without stopping. Although I'm technically obese by BMI, that is the level of fitness I have. Once my drive and hormones, kick in I can still go for hours.
I come multiple times so coming too fast is not a problem for me.
I just did a club circuit and I'm thinking, I will take my toys in case the men get tired/soft.
Although I prefer a real cock, a man using toys on me is a real turn-on. There's always a workaround with sex and intimacy, it doesn't have to be one way all of the time, and the goal doesn't always have to be an orgasm.
One night all I had were kisses on the lips and that was nice too! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Im not one for saying i can fuck for hours/all night because if im fucking a pussy and shes on all 4s for more than a few minutes then... theirs an issue.
My average penetrative sex is probably around 10/15 minutes. |
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"Im struggling with stamina at the moment, i use to be able to last ages, now im about 5 minutes "
sorry to hear.
What have you tried to help?
Viagra?
Cock rings?
Edging?
Sex kungfu?
Tantra?
Lingam massage?
Semen retention?
I know psychologically a sexless marriage won't help. |
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"Im not one for saying i can fuck for hours/all night because if im fucking a pussy and shes on all 4s for more than a few minutes then... theirs an issue.
My average penetrative sex is probably around 10/15 minutes. "
I've got a dodgy knee but I swap positions over multiple times during a session. Sucks for men only into doggy style but yeah I'm not going to be in pain. The most I could do in the case is to wear a very unsexy knee support. lol! |
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"All I can say is learning to edge was the major breakthrough in being able to have staying power and control of when you cum. Once you have mastered it you can last ages "
Yeah I was thinking about edging and men learning to control it....I know the muscles can get a bit weak as you get older but I'm certain there are workarounds. |
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Ive had a guy cum in his pants while groping me as i literally just started to rub him but he was hard again in a couple of minutes & really went for it, a great performance.
I dont judge as i know guys put themselves under pressure sometimes & us girls really dont have to do anything. |
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I had that once as I was sucking the biggest dick I've ever seen, I think I was just so excited that whilst he was in my mouth, the friction from my movements, my cock rubbing against my leg as I bobbed up and down just caused me to cum in my underwear. |
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"use to be able to last ages, now im about 5 minutes "
Not an issue for me just now, but have you tried distracting yourself? Prime numbers. Reverse alphabet. Football stats. American states. Sacked ministers. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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6 hours! Was absolutely amazing! So amazing I made him my partner lol he can go for hours and it’s simply that he concentrates on me and has always been the same. I can also get him there in a few minutes coz I’m not selfish lol!
Worst meet was literally 3 minutes and he was exhausted  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Oh I understand it can be tiring but 3 minutes, when I say exhausted I mean sweat pouring off him and physically couldn’t breath and I was on top!
Also just to clarify, not my current partner lol |
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Depends in what we are doing. If we are both tired thena 15-20min session is enough. But we have been known to go in and off for hours. He does take time to orgasm which on a long session suites me just fine . Joanne. |
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I have trouble orgasming generally, and then when I do it varies from tiny ones to giant. There doesn't seem to be a time scale for it. I'm happy with 10 minutes if it's fun and sexy. Don't care if it's a two pump as long as I'm treated well. I CAN NOT handle hours and hours, my body just can't take it. |
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Shortest was walk into the attic cinema with a woman I gave a lift there and she wanted to thank me… sucked my cock for 2 mins and I was that horny at the build up I came loads and was leaving within 5 mins of walking into the adult cinema to go back to work… easy come easy go. |
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By *icknHMan
over a year ago
Ilfracombe |
It so varies….sometimes I just know I’m going to cum and can do nothing about it so go with it and then go again later. Sometimes I can control it…..sometimes I can go for so long I think I’m never going to cum so I slow down instead of speed up and that works the best.
Then there’s those times when I’ve been asked to ‘save’ for a few days before. Then it’s intense…. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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it varies a lot with me..sometimes im a 2 pump chump and other times i can go for hours .the only constant is i seem to come quicker in the morning and last a lot longer in the evening |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I usually last many hours, my heart gives out before my balls do
This isn't a brag because most people I know prefer guys who cum at some point within the hour...
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I have a bionic cock. Once I make it work get hard it will stay hard for as long as I want, or she or he wants. You could literally ride my hard cock between a couple or so all night. I cum after about 20 mins to half hour but it has no effect on hardness. That's up for hours. Cost a lot of money though. Picture in our gallery. Just wish it were bigger xx |
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As so many are saying, it totally varies. I'm usually pretty good at holding back when needed, the occasional withdraw and pinch my base some works wonders!
I am fortunate enough that cumming doesn't affect how hard I am, so I have before just kept going.
I do find the how excited and turned on I am has biggest influence. There was one lady who just had me alive and buzzing - I warned her, but I really did explode as she sat down on me...  |
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"Oh I understand it can be tiring but 3 minutes, when I say exhausted I mean sweat pouring off him and physically couldn’t breath and I was on top!
Also just to clarify, not my current partner lol "
I died when you said you were on top!! How ? was he that out of shape? Dammmmnnn |
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"As so many are saying, it totally varies. I'm usually pretty good at holding back when needed, the occasional withdraw and pinch my base some works wonders!
I am fortunate enough that cumming doesn't affect how hard I am, so I have before just kept going.
I do find the how excited and turned on I am has biggest influence. There was one lady who just had me alive and buzzing - I warned her, but I really did explode as she sat down on me... "
throws knickers. how do I get this one? |
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"Guys who cum really quick, it’s a hot compliment and I don’t mind as long as they can get it back up and carry on.
Will you marry me? "
I concur with get it back up and carry on. That's hot (Paris Hilton voice)
I have no problems whipping out the....um stunt...cock so use your hand Dear, if the main actor is out of commission. Lol!
If he doesn't do it....I will!!! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I've only had two fwb over the years and we never did fuck and go. Usually daytime sessions lasting 2-5 hrs. Not fucking all that time, obviously, but chat and laughs in between.I miss that. |
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Well I love to edge me and a lady so the final tipping over the edge happened in seconds but there a lot of foreplay and teasing build up beforehand. This can be hours. Last night it was about 45mins |
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Used to be able to Orgasm but not ejaculate. So could last as long as needed!
Some liked it, some hated it.
Basicaly male pelvic floor. But you need to really train the muscle up. I did it in my 20's and was great!! But got older and just couldnt be arsed to do the exersizes so often lol!
Now I vary depending on the person I am with and what we are doing!
Her on top riding deep and hard, not long
But I prefer to give oral now anyway!! |
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