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Swinger clubs what are they like
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What are swinger clubs like going to my first one in December, is it just a chilled environment sort of like being at the pub or is they just people fucking all over the place
Are clubs anything like swinger porn that's online?
I'm nervous about going to a club for the first time so just trying to get a idea of what to expect thanks |
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"So just say two people are fucking in front of you and you wanted to join in what would you do just go over and join in or do you make sure to ask first x"
Consent matters, everywhere and every time. Don't ever just walk over and join in. Social with people in communal areas and test the waters there first. |
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The club you visit should give you the heads up on what's expected and etiquette within it, be sure to tell them it's your first visit and they will show you round and give you pointers on what a no no. |
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Just be yourself buddy, chat to people in the communal areas and see where it leads. You may get lucky you may not but if you go there with no expectations and enjoy the amenities on offer you should have a good night.
Don't be pushy and respect others there, chat to people and you may find some fun. |
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Every club is different and even then that one club could change rules from night to night.
Most we’ve been to have had a bar area where it would be the exact same from any pub you’ve been in. Usually as the night goes on it’s a bit more relaxed and everyone has dressed down a bit though. |
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By *yphodMan
over a year ago
London |
What are clubs like? I assume you are going as a single male.
Depending on the night it will be a bunch of guys too shy to talk to each other let along any couples and the rare single woman. As soon as a woman moves they will be followed 
Be yourself but make sure you chat, be polite. If a spa type of environment, a simple "may I join you" before getting into a hot tub with a couple or single girl breaks the ice, but also gives the couple a chance to say no if they want a bit of time to themselves. They may well thank you for being respectful later. TBH it is much easier on a busy night with lots of couples as the atmosphere is a whole lot better.
Speak to both sides of a couple, complement the lady.
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Don't worry I ain't one off them strange type of guys who's going to follow girls all night and I'm deffo not going to be stood there shy am a loud mouth I'm constantly talking shit lol thanks for the advice though I asked about the just joining in thing because all im going of is singer porn iv seen online and they seem to just join in with each other so thought i best ask first |
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For the most part, they’re essentially just like a regular pub or club. Some, you strip down to your undies upon arrival, others you dress to impress. But the common denominator is they are a coming together of like minded individuals…
Just put your best foot forward, rock up with a smile on your face, chat and mingle until you can chat and mingle no more as that’s where and how any magic begins. |
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"Thank you all for the advice should be a good night dreading if I bump into anyone I no though x"
If you do they are there for the same reason you are buddy. I guess it depends on how and where you no them from as to how to proceed  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Don't worry I ain't one off them strange type of guys who's going to follow girls all night and I'm deffo not going to be stood there shy am a loud mouth I'm constantly talking shit lol thanks for the advice though I asked about the just joining in thing because all im going of is singer porn iv seen online and they seem to just join in with each other so thought i best ask first "
Lucky you asked.
Porn has a lot to answer for!
Have a good time. |
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By *histlerMan
over a year ago
Guildford |
"Think am gonna try find if any single females are going and see if they want to meet there and have some drinks so sort of won't be going on my own then "
Yep, try and connect before you go and then there’s someone to say hi to on the night |
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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago
harrow |
What are they like….well depends on the night and if it is a party night
So I have been to clubs when quiet not a lot of people in, played all night, also been in on a party night but played at all
Some have a bar area which is good to mingle and chat. Some play does go on but that depends on the club. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"We would like to visit a club in England in December/January. Looking for a nice big club, with nice staff, and of course clientelle. Any recommendations?"
Decadance in Rochdale, not a large club but staff and clientele are all so friendly and welcoming |
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"We would like to visit a club in England in December/January. Looking for a nice big club, with nice staff, and of course clientelle. Any recommendations?
Decadance in Rochdale, not a large club but staff and clientele are all so friendly and welcoming"
Thank you for your recommendation. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Depends on where you go, there's some places where people are like camals THIRSTY AF! But the majority are chilled places where like minded people come together and just have a good time. Once you find the club that's your vibe, you will be golden. Good luck! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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A huge amount will depend upon you.
If you’re sociable and like to chat with people and you have a thick skin then it can be a great night.
If you’re shy and emotionally sensitive then it may be the worst night of your life.
Approach couples and females in a sensitive, friendly fashion, compliment her, acknowledge him and you may get lucky. |
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