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How do you get your partner into swinging without sounding creepy?!
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Just wondered how i would get my wife into swinging? She loves to flirt and shes hot, but how do you approach it all?! |
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Ask her what her fantasies are to start with |
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Show her your profile and ask if she would like one |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Discuss it with her without sounding creepy using a scenario within a conversation and has she ever thought about it as a kink but only thought about it |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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*accidentally* allow her to catch you swinging.
No words needed.  |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
Option two throw a surprise party I'm sure it'll be an eye opener or might not |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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Well she does maybe think of other cocks and bi-curious things, but she can get jealous,so how do you cross that bridge? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"*accidentally* allow her to catch you swinging.
No words needed. "
Well thats a clear winner lol |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Show her your profile and ask if she would like one"
Very true, i know its wrong |
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Jealous at the thought of you with another woman ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Option two throw a surprise party I'm sure it'll be an eye opener or might not "
Happy birthday! These arent my friends Tom...
Well i kinda hoped they would be shortly!! |
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It’s long ago now , but I just mentioned a mixed sauna club I’d heard of and she surprised me by saying “ can we go?”! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jealous at the thought of you with another woman ?"
Yeah, she doesnt like it if i flirt or someone flirts with me, instant kill mode activated |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"It’s long ago now , but I just mentioned a mixed sauna club I’d heard of and she surprised me by saying “ can we go?”!"
Thats not a bad shout actually |
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"Jealous at the thought of you with another woman ?
Yeah, she doesnt like it if i flirt or someone flirts with me, instant kill mode activated "
So what makes you think swinging as a couple would work ? |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jealous at the thought of you with another woman ?
Yeah, she doesnt like it if i flirt or someone flirts with me, instant kill mode activated
So what makes you think swinging as a couple would work ? "
Well i think she has alot of sexiness locked away, i really like people and banter,
She is very good the same, we are like the core to friendship groups etc without sounding big headed, we talk to friends openly about sex, we always get told off for being too open, its hard as you dont know if it will work or not,
But you dont want to taint the relationship either,
Im thinking what someone suggested mixed sauna thing, or maybe like a club somehow but sex together and have that electric vibe of the room |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
Dorchester |
Just tell her you're on here and ask her if you'd like to join you in a couples profile  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jealous at the thought of you with another woman ?
Yeah, she doesnt like it if i flirt or someone flirts with me, instant kill mode activated
So what makes you think swinging as a couple would work ?
Well i think she has alot of sexiness locked away, i really like people and banter,
She is very good the same, we are like the core to friendship groups etc without sounding big headed, we talk to friends openly about sex, we always get told off for being too open, its hard as you dont know if it will work or not,
But you dont want to taint the relationship either,
Im thinking what someone suggested mixed sauna thing, or maybe like a club somehow but sex together and have that electric vibe of the room "
imo do not trick her into finding herself in a situation. Thats decietful
You say you are open about sex. Why haven't you talked to her about this ? Have you discussed threesomes?
It's an insta judgement on my part, but that you say she doesn't like you flirting but you are ploughing on suggests you have trouble or heart break to come my friend. |
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"Jealous at the thought of you with another woman ?
Yeah, she doesnt like it if i flirt or someone flirts with me, instant kill mode activated
So what makes you think swinging as a couple would work ?
Well i think she has alot of sexiness locked away, i really like people and banter,
She is very good the same, we are like the core to friendship groups etc without sounding big headed, we talk to friends openly about sex, we always get told off for being too open, its hard as you dont know if it will work or not,
But you dont want to taint the relationship either,
Im thinking what someone suggested mixed sauna thing, or maybe like a club somehow but sex together and have that electric vibe of the room "
If you talk openly about sex why haven't you talked about this? What do you mean taint the relationship?
This woman is your wife. Talk to her. |
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By *humper.Man
over a year ago
northumberland/scotland |
It's not a case of getting her into anything mate. Talk to her, see if it's something she wants to explore.  |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Just tell her you're on here and ask her if you'd like to join you in a couples profile "
Awesome will do |
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"Jealous at the thought of you with another woman ?
Yeah, she doesnt like it if i flirt or someone flirts with me, instant kill mode activated "
Sounds like there is no chance she would be happy with swinging. You might like to rethink trying to involve her. |
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A glass or two of wine before discussion begins (Her not you !) |
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Is there a particular genre of swinging you fantasise about? Sounds like a FMF threesome might not work if she’s jealous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Agree with others. It’s not a thing to coerce someone into. If you feel YOU have some unmet or new needs and want to explore the idea of being non-monogamous then approach from that angle. She may or may not want to but definitely just be honest about your feelings about why you want to explore it and listen to her and what her thoughts and feeling are. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Jealous at the thought of you with another woman ?
Yeah, she doesnt like it if i flirt or someone flirts with me, instant kill mode activated
So what makes you think swinging as a couple would work ?
Well i think she has alot of sexiness locked away, i really like people and banter,
She is very good the same, we are like the core to friendship groups etc without sounding big headed, we talk to friends openly about sex, we always get told off for being too open, its hard as you dont know if it will work or not,
But you dont want to taint the relationship either,
Im thinking what someone suggested mixed sauna thing, or maybe like a club somehow but sex together and have that electric vibe of the room imo do not trick her into finding herself in a situation. Thats decietful
You say you are open about sex. Why haven't you talked to her about this ? Have you discussed threesomes?
It's an insta judgement on my part, but that you say she doesn't like you flirting but you are ploughing on suggests you have trouble or heart break to come my friend. "
I do agree, we have when we have been tipsy talking but thats it. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered how i would get my wife into swinging? She loves to flirt and shes hot, but how do you approach it all?! "
Start by telling her you’re on here! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jealous at the thought of you with another woman ?
Yeah, she doesnt like it if i flirt or someone flirts with me, instant kill mode activated
So what makes you think swinging as a couple would work ?
Well i think she has alot of sexiness locked away, i really like people and banter,
She is very good the same, we are like the core to friendship groups etc without sounding big headed, we talk to friends openly about sex, we always get told off for being too open, its hard as you dont know if it will work or not,
But you dont want to taint the relationship either,
Im thinking what someone suggested mixed sauna thing, or maybe like a club somehow but sex together and have that electric vibe of the room imo do not trick her into finding herself in a situation. Thats decietful
You say you are open about sex. Why haven't you talked to her about this ? Have you discussed threesomes?
It's an insta judgement on my part, but that you say she doesn't like you flirting but you are ploughing on suggests you have trouble or heart break to come my friend.
I do agree, we have when we have been tipsy talking but thats it."
this only works of you can communicate. Properly. Honestly. Vulnerably. As adults.
Talking when tipsy doesn't count in my book.
I would say ayeonone is to ask yiurselfy why you can't just sit down and talk about your needs and desires to the love of your life. |
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"Just wondered how i would get my wife into swinging? She loves to flirt and shes hot, but how do you approach it all?!
Start by telling her you’re on here! "
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
"Option two throw a surprise party I'm sure it'll be an eye opener or might not
Happy birthday! These arent my friends Tom...
Well i kinda hoped they would be shortly!! "
Hmmm since when did you need a reason to throw a party people go clubbing and it's a party atmosphere and people get to know each other and become friends |
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"Just wondered how i would get my wife into swinging? She loves to flirt and shes hot, but how do you approach it all?!
Start by telling her you’re on here! "
+1 |
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I was going to say have an honest conversation with her about the subject but you are on here without her knowledge so doubtful you could manage that!! |
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Straight up and to the point.
I just told him I wanted him to fuck me with another guy as always wanted to be spit roasted.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Straight up and to the point.
I just told him I wanted him to fuck me with another guy as always wanted to be spit roasted. "
Not while he was eating hid toad in the hole one hopes? |
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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago
Somewhere in Co. Down |
She is your wife so only you know how best to approach her about swinging.
But if she gets jealous like you say if you flirt or someone flirts with you then it doesn't bode well, especially for anyone who meets you both. |
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Look for her on here. She might know you are on here and thought whats goid enough for him  |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
It's easy. Question, do you fancy getting into swinging?
Answer, No. Job done move along nothing to see here
Answer, Yes. Arrange to meet people, happy days   |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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With my first wife . She always enjoyed porn and sexy stories in top shelf mags. We talked about fantasies etc when watching porn
Then over time thought of watching Been watched etc.
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"Show her your profile and ask if she would like one"
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
Biggleswade |
Have a healthy sex live where there are no secrets and completely open about what you want…
Incidentally a secret fab profile may indicate that perhaps you don’t have this…suggest you delete your profile and join as a couple when this is sorted |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
You could ask her how would she feel if someone was watching you two have sex if she's says creepy I'd pack your bag ready just incase |
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"Jealous at the thought of you with another woman ?
Yeah, she doesnt like it if i flirt or someone flirts with me, instant kill mode activated "
Sounds like swinging isn't for her if you ask me |
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You are on here as a single man with no mention of you're wife looking to meet couples and single ladies ?
Think you need to decide if you want to hold the firework when you light the blue touch paper, or delete the profile and be honest with you're wife through communication and openness. If you don't get the answer you want you have another decision but either way if she finds this profile you're in for troubles |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe |
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By * and BCouple
over a year ago
Durham |
"Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe "
Wow.... Nice eh. Far to much hatred in the world. Feel the love |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe "
Well it's clear from the fact he has a profile wanting to meet woman and couples on his own he wants to cheat. She won't even let him flirt with out kicking off so good luck getting her into swinging. He's asked for peoples opinions and they've given them. Maybe tomorrow you'll get out of bed on the right side |
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"Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe "
Try reading the thread  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered how i would get my wife into swinging? She loves to flirt and shes hot, but how do you approach it all?! "
Have a sit down ask her if she has any sexual fantasies, any sexual urges she would like to do or try nomatter how weird or different she thinks it is. Be open and see if she has ever considered wanting a threesome with another male or female or even play with another couple and maybe mention you have seen a site pop up and if she does have these urges maybe ask if she would like to set up a couples account or go to a club to see how it makes her feel. Make sure there is no pressure on anything and anything that goes ahead would be totally up to her. Do not pressure the situation or rush anything as she could feel under alot of pressure to make you happy. You both need to be happy, open, on the same page and make sure its both 100% what each of you want as it could cause issues down the line if one of you are not 100% up for it. |
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By *batMan
over a year ago
Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales) |
" The lifestyle is supposed to be free from judgment but some can’t help themselves can they "
Seems a bit judgemental!!!
If someone asks the forum for an opinion, then people are likely to give an opinion.
For someone who thinks everyone should mind their own business, you don’t seem to be minding your own business!
Gbat |
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By *ipseyTwoCouple
over a year ago
Biggleswade |
Swinging is not cheating. I think that is why people get frustrated by this.
Typically, couples who are here are very open about their sex lives…OP seems to be the exact opposite im of that.
We don’t judge people for their lifestyles, but think that people need to be honest and open with their partners |
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Hopefully she already is and you just don't know about it so hopefully she stabs you in the back before you do it to her! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Just wondered how i would get my wife into swinging? She loves to flirt and shes hot, but how do you approach it all?! "
Why do you want to get her into swinging? MMF? MFF? 4somes? You in a gangbang with 8 men while she films you? |
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"Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe "
Wow! He's asked for advice, and isn't as irate as you seem, on his behalf! Hope it's just a bad day for you... |
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"Just wondered how i would get my wife into swinging? She loves to flirt and shes hot, but how do you approach it all?! "
Show her your profile, let her make a singles one see if she likes it, after she’s fucked enough blokes, let her decide if she wants to do it with you or not.
The mr |
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"Have a healthy sex live where there are no secrets and completely open about what you want…
Incidentally a secret fab profile may indicate that perhaps you don’t have this…suggest you delete your profile and join as a couple when this is sorted"
I'd echo this advice. If you were going to tell her you're here she's likely to want to see your profile and then that'll raise more questions. Less honest, but you could say you've heard of this site and fancy exploring it, and would she be interested in a couples profile...? |
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"Show her your profile and ask if she would like one"
That’s absolute class |
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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
It's all boils down to trust and respect if it means anything. It's how most on here have lasted so long and still together |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Book a hotel, blindfold her, let all your mates in. What’s the worst that can happen? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Sounds a bit creepy  |
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By *sh8286Couple
over a year ago
Guildford |
Hubby came to me and asked what my fantasies were and then told me his. He then mentioned the concept of swinging which was not on my radar. He was very clear he wouldn't do anything without my consent and he had to be fully on board. We spent some time on the forums browsing and eventually I agreed to go to a local club just to chat to people and see what the deal is. I decided to give it a go. It took several months to get to that point. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Organise a surprise gangbang. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We've been together so long and trust each other 100% so I just asked her.. no harm in asking, she thought about it for a couple of months without me pestering her and said she'd like to give it a try. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Just talk to her; you shouldn't try to convince anybody of something that they really do not want to do.
Just be honest and open without pestering about it. |
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"If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe "
Tough day, sweetie? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe "
Wow! So classy |
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It's funny isn't it, so many diffrent views and some strong ones at that
All thought providing if it's a debate
I guess no ones wrong or right really we all have views
That's the great thing really we can all decide what's best for each and there own
However actually creating an argument isn't in the ethos of swinging is it?
For me it's more about freedom, fun with like minded people, not rules and regulations a release from the conventional
We are all controlled by what's acceptable in society, swinging is freedom from that
Can't understand why some still wish to dictate what others do? Advice is good, knowledge to, bit thsts gor people to learn via experiances
If a man or women plays away surely that's their decision both sexes are guilty of this, but why should they be judged?
Makes my mind boggle why some people are on swi gers sites judging others
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Jealous at the thought of you with another woman ?
Yeah, she doesnt like it if i flirt or someone flirts with me, instant kill mode activated
So what makes you think swinging as a couple would work ?
Well i think she has alot of sexiness locked away, i really like people and banter,
She is very good the same, we are like the core to friendship groups etc without sounding big headed, we talk to friends openly about sex, we always get told off for being too open, its hard as you dont know if it will work or not,
But you dont want to taint the relationship either,
Im thinking what someone suggested mixed sauna thing, or maybe like a club somehow but sex together and have that electric vibe of the room "
I think cheating on her may also taint the relationship |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe "
Someone's triggered |
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"Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe
Someone's triggered"
Haha love a good debate, I've been called a master of debates, masterbates x |
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"Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe
Wow! So classy "
Making me laugh now, some replys are so narrow minded, corse and not in line with the swinging ethos of fun |
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"Just talk to her; you shouldn't try to convince anybody of something that they really do not want to do.
Just be honest and open without pestering about it. "
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I took my partner to the playground. I asked if he wanted to swing and he said yes so I came home and fucked the pizza delivery guy. |
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Just discuss fantasies, watch porn together, ask if she’s thought about other partners. It’s all about communication. Your relationship together is what’s important and needs to be honest and open before you both swing together. |
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"I took my partner to the playground. I asked if he wanted to swing and he said yes so I came home and fucked the pizza delivery guy. "
Anyone k pw of any jobs at domino's?.... |
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A lot of women seem to have hidden fantasies about trying sex with another woman that they haven't had chance to explore in their previous more vanilla sex lives.
Ask her if play with another woman would interest/excite her and if so suggest using a site like Fab to make suitable contacts. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Whatever you do DO NOT show her this profile ffs. She hates you flirting with other women but you’ve got your dick out all over the Internet!! That’s no way to persuade her to consider swinging! Or to trust you again.
Ps. Dicks are ugly and dick pics don’t make women want to contact men! |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Step 1. Delete existing Fab profile.
Step 2. Speak to wife and tell her you would like to try swinging. Make it clear its the sex aspect you're looking for you both to experiment on.
Step 3. ?????
Step 4. Profit! (or divorce but hey at least you tried). :D |
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"Step 1. Delete existing Fab profile.
Step 2. Speak to wife and tell her you would like to try swinging. Make it clear its the sex aspect you're looking for you both to experiment on.
Step 3. ?????
Step 4. Profit! (or divorce but hey at least you tried). :D"
Step 5 she leaves u haha |
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It started by sharing fantasies while having sex and moved on to discussions which led to here and so far so good |
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"Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe
Wow! So classy
Making me laugh now, some replys are so narrow minded, corse and not in line with the swinging ethos of fun "
We also use these replys for the blocking |
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"Step 1. Delete existing Fab profile.
Step 2. Speak to wife and tell her you would like to try swinging. Make it clear its the sex aspect you're looking for you both to experiment on.
Step 3. ?????
Step 4. Profit! (or divorce but hey at least you tried). :D
Step 5 she leaves u haha "
Or she is banging someone else already and he dont know |
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"Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe "
I bet block buttons are being presssed after this reply. Did yourself no favours here mate. |
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Best way is to talk to her! She loves she will understand or kick your butt!! Either way it will be off your chest!! |
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"Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe
Wow! So classy
Making me laugh now, some replys are so narrow minded, corse and not in line with the swinging ethos of fun
We also use these replys for the blocking"
Such a tool of power and prestige |
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Always the same these posts - profile more than a year old and how can I get my wife into this? |
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"It's funny isn't it, so many diffrent views and some strong ones at that
All thought providing if it's a debate
I guess no ones wrong or right really we all have views
That's the great thing really we can all decide what's best for each and there own
However actually creating an argument isn't in the ethos of swinging is it?
For me it's more about freedom, fun with like minded people, not rules and regulations a release from the conventional
We are all controlled by what's acceptable in society, swinging is freedom from that
Can't understand why some still wish to dictate what others do? Advice is good, knowledge to, bit thsts gor people to learn via experiances
If a man or women plays away surely that's their decision both sexes are guilty of this, but why should they be judged?
Makes my mind boggle why some people are on swi gers sites judging others
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Problem is if someone asks for opinions on the internet with a bunch of strangers instead of having a conversation with his wife then what do you expect. |
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"Listen to all the judgmental marriage guidance counsellors on here lol
Like you all have the most perfect honest relationships , what gives you the right to start being the moral police
Just because he has a profile on here doesn’t mean he’s cheating or deceiving his partner, and even if he was , what business of yours is it . He was asking for advice not your sarcastic moral high ground bullshit.
If you don’t like someone’s post or profile just keep your fucking mouth shut for a change maybe
Someone's triggered
Haha love a good debate, I've been called a master of debates, masterbates x
Think they have another name for it too, rhymes with banker "
Ull never beat a good banker x |
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