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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Ha ha ha definitely harder but some couples and singles are looking for mature men just a lot to choose from"
 ... only joking but definitely harder for older single guys. |
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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago
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"Replied to someone this week just joined local to me specifically said wanted older message immediately deleted
I find that happens a lot"
Same here, but that's fab for you. Always live in hope there are some genuine people looking for us more mature guys  |
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"Replied to someone this week just joined local to me specifically said wanted older message immediately deleted "
I don't understand the issue. They want older, but didn't want you. It's not like preferences are an automatic Yes. |
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Irrespective of age I expect most men find it difficult to get a meet on fab due to the sheer number. It’s just one of many filters that people use. Not sure what the average age of fab members is but if it’s getting younger it’s fair to assume that they’ll be looking for their age group or maybe younger than that.
However there are always exceptions to the rule. |
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As a mature (more geriatric than mature) man who is part of a couples profile and who also has his own singles profile (all completely open and above board and mentioned in both profiles) I have got to say that I get very little attention on my singles profile, but plenty as part of a couple - and its not JUST because they want to shag Sue. Surprisingly quite a few want me as well.
So to sum up, maybe not as much interest as a singleton, but I haven`t done too badly for an old fart as part of a couple. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Of course - I prefer a mature man who knows his way around and who is a genuine swinger
It will help if you don’t have more than one dick pic and are able to pen an intelligent message, in our opinion anyhow |
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"do mature men stand a chance on this site ???"
Yes definitely I have over 90 meetings verified and not all meets get verified, for example repeat meetings with the same single female or couple so yes its more than possible.
There is lots of advice in the forums on what to include in your profile and your first contact message, it's your best and perhaps only opportunity to make a good impression.
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I was 45 when I first joined Fab, I had a couple of meets in that time, and I was 49 when I met Belle on here.
The age can be an issue, there are those who have set filters and fair play, everyone has preferences.
What I found helped most was standing out, really working with my profile, thinkng hard about messages before sending them, and only messaging those I was really interested and had things in common with.
Then I hit the forums and people started to chat.
I have not had a send two messages and lets meet and fuck now convo ever on here, (although I have on pof lol) and never expected one.
Visiting clubs and social groups helps too if you can.
Be yourself, be patient and hopefully something will happen. |
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Yes.
Men need to stop trying to be all things to all people on this site. You'll get more meets.
You would not believe the amount of men we tell that they are too young, then try and say they are older. But first impressions count. |
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