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By *bi HaiveMan
over a year ago
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Keeping their socks on.
Wiping their cock on the curtains.
Thinking what they've seen in porn flicks is a good idea to try with a partner.
Cumming first and then instantly falling asleep.
The list is endless......
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"Not lasting long enough
Not bringing condoms
And not asking questions and just assuming we're up for anything
Thats a few to start yas off haha "
That’s just a start lol |
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Definitely No1 Keeping socks on (both sexes)
2. Going on about how many meets they have had.
3. Having too much to drink.
4. Keeping your coat on.
Had 3 & 4 happen with the same couple. Dont think they had discussed the evening before arriving!
5. Arriving too early before the kids had got ready to go out.
6. Arriving that late we were just about to put the lights out (they had been to the pub and got delayed/pissed)
7. Wanting to know too many personal details (ie Where we worked. How many kids. What car we drove. Where we shopped. Our neighbours names.
All have happened!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Stopping the headboard from tapping the wall buy pulling the bed away from it while she is still laying on it and breaking the bed in half! Yeah so annoying that...I wasn't invited back!  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Definitely No1 Keeping socks on (both sexes)
2. Going on about how many meets they have had.
3. Having too much to drink.
4. Keeping your coat on.
Had 3 & 4 happen with the same couple. Dont think they had discussed the evening before arriving!
5. Arriving too early before the kids had got ready to go out.
6. Arriving that late we were just about to put the lights out (they had been to the pub and got delayed/pissed)
7. Wanting to know too many personal details (ie Where we worked. How many kids. What car we drove. Where we shopped. Our neighbours names.
All have happened! "
All are very annoying, curious about the last one, keeping clothes on...really are they going somewhere? |
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"Not lasting long enough
Not bringing condoms
And not asking questions and just assuming we're up for anything
Thats a few to start yas off haha "
I always ask what turns you on most because the woman knows how she likes it |
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"When at uni I fell asleep on top of a gf. She woke me and I obviously proclaimed I was "just slowing down so I didn't cum too soon."
"Does the snoring help with that?" she asked 
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I smile now. But at the time I was mortified...well as much as a 19 Yr old boy can be. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Believing and projecting that they’re going to give Mrs L something better than Mr G… they might give an intense experience but WE will always be best because we have the emotional connection as well as the sex  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Not being able to cum "
I wouldn't say that's a big mistake, just because a guy doesn't cum doesn't mean he isn't having a good time, and speaking personally, if I'm being well looked after and satisfied and the guy assures me he doesn't mind not cumming, then that's absolutely fine by me.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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For me a couple of things
Allowing someone to peg me who had no caring nature and just hurt me
Second thing - not being honest about what I enjoy I have learned the more experienced I get it's better to say yes I'm into xyz and would prefer a partner to do the same |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Fail to cum lol"
Refer to my comment above...seriously? Do you guys really think we women measure you only on whether you cum or not? If a guy is ok with not cumming but is having a good time and the lady is happy with how she is being looked after, what's the big deal?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Not listening to the moans we make, and the body language. It’s very easy to hear what’s working.
Ignoring boundaries at any point
Not discussing limits prior (applies to both sides obv)
Being too rough with delicate areas.
Not taking time to understand how women work.
Just a few  |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Not being able to cum
I wouldn't say that's a big mistake, just because a guy doesn't cum doesn't mean he isn't having a good time, and speaking personally, if I'm being well looked after and satisfied and the guy assures me he doesn't mind not cumming, then that's absolutely fine by me.
J (Mrs)"
Mr G often doesn’t come during a play session… doesn’t mean he’s not having a great time though |
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By *orny PTMan
over a year ago
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"Not being able to cum
I wouldn't say that's a big mistake, just because a guy doesn't cum doesn't mean he isn't having a good time, and speaking personally, if I'm being well looked after and satisfied and the guy assures me he doesn't mind not cumming, then that's absolutely fine by me.
J (Mrs)"
That's good to hear as this means there's no performance anxiety. Some of us want to cum, but we can't do to various reasons. It's a trade off between stamina and reaching the point of no return.
Not being a repeater, this is a balancing act. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"When at uni I fell asleep on top of a gf. She woke me and I obviously proclaimed I was "just slowing down so I didn't cum too soon."
"Does the snoring help with that?" she asked
I smile now. But at the time I was mortified...well as much as a 19 Yr old boy can be. "
Well least you felt relaxed in her company lolol |
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