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A few friends on here and in 'real life' have told me that by not trying pegging / anal play I am really missing out on something that feels great. I get the science behind it but now I'm curious to everyone's thoughts, is it something worth trying? |
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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago
Glasgow |
I'd say the only way to find out is to give it a try  The worst case scenario is you realise its not for you.
I was hesitant to give it a try but went by the above reasoning and gave it a go. Myself and A had some gentle anal teasing and play which eventually has led to us using strap ons quite often.
The key is to go slow and take your time. It would probably be best to play with yourself first as you know exact what pressure etc feels good. Yes, its hot being pegged but they realistically have no idea of your comfort level whe
just starting out. Use a finger to begin with and gradually increase size of toys etc. One thing you don't want to do is get too carried away and end up hurting yourself.
C x   |
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"A few friends on here and in 'real life' have told me that by not trying pegging / anal play I am really missing out on something that feels great. I get the science behind it but now I'm curious to everyone's thoughts, is it something worth trying?"
Single woman's perspective- I had my anal cherry popped at age 33/34. I also had my first cigarette then to but that's another story. Before that was hot vanilla sex with kama sutra positions with the former husband.
I was quite lucky as it was a Frenchman ( see my fetish/kink/special interest for all things french).
I met him on Tinder for a drink which turned into a hot one-night stand.
I met him at a local pub and then he picked up some rose wine ( another of my french favourites) went to his.
We had the usual hot vanilla sex with kama sutra positions. Afterwards we were sitting around talking and listening to music and he said have you every tried anal..and I said no and in typical French accent he said would you like to try? Well I thought it's now or never let's see if these Frenchmen actually know what they are doing.
Um yes..French men do know what they are doing.
My top tips for anal..( as a woman)
1. Wait 4 hours after eating. Lol! (sounds like a gym class/my fitness trainer)
2. fibre ( I eat oats nearly every day) and your 5 fruit and veg a day keep things healthy, clear, regular, and predictable.
3. Avoid anal if you have constipation or diarrhea or any kind of medical condition/procedure going on..in or around the hoop.../ring of fire ( too much vindaloo). (perineum tears/surgery, colonoscopy, incontinent prolapse, hemorrhoids.)
4.Lube, lube and more lube. Did I say lube. Basically a litre of Lube.
5. Make sure you and that whole pelvic area are relaxed. ( From a known tight ass. pun and no pun). If I'm not relaxed it's not going in. I learned that unfortunately from an Italian man. Bummer. I do a vaginal/clitoral orgasm first before attempting an anal orgasm.
6. Rose wine helps but don't get d*unk. You need to be sober enough to know if it hurts and to stop.
7. Wipes as it can get messy.
8. Clinical wisdom states no need to douche, use an enema, numbing sprays or laxatives but you have to know your own..um..bum.. preferences and the preferences of your penetrating partner and what colour your sheets are. Lol! My sheets are navy because as a woman with periods ain't nobody got time, money and energy to replace period-stained sheets monthly.
Happy Anal Fabbing! |
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P.S Frenchman owned a copy of:
The Game: Undercover in the Secret Society of Pickup Artists.
I now own from Love Honey:
Lovehoney Get Started Beginner's Anal Kit
When I bought said Anal kit the women's support group, I went to had a good laugh.
For men there are prostate massagers but you can start off with the beginners kit if that's too ...um...intimidating. |
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"I’m in the same boat, Sam wants to peg me and I’ve been nervous about it, I’ve let her finger me and feel I just might be ready to take the plunge "
Increase the number of fingers and size of butt plugs before going..um..straight in with a..um 6-9 inch-er
Happy Anal Fabbing. |
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"I'd say the only way to find out is to give it a try The worst case scenario is you realise its not for you.
I was hesitant to give it a try but went by the above reasoning and gave it a go. Myself and A had some gentle anal teasing and play which eventually has led to us using strap ons quite often.
The key is to go slow and take your time. It would probably be best to play with yourself first as you know exact what pressure etc feels good. Yes, its hot being pegged but they realistically have no idea of your comfort level whe
just starting out. Use a finger to begin with and gradually increase size of toys etc. One thing you don't want to do is get too carried away and end up hurting yourself.
C x "
I read somewhere about anal training... yeah I'm all for starting out with one then 2 then 3 fingers and then a number of different size butt plugs. There's a few starter kits you can get and prostate massagers.
pegging and fisting, I think is for the more advanced. Definitely not me.
Oh and a litre of Lube and wipes.. |
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I was a late comer to understanding the delights of ‘bum fun’ … but now I love it, and it almost always forms part of my solo activities xxx I have a toy box full of toys!!
I have been pegged a few times, and it is a wonderful feeling, as indeed is ‘the real thing’, though accept that is probably a step too far or many.
As others have said, work your way up to things, and take your time.
R xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Love a bit of bum play, ranging from fingers and thumbs, to plugs and dildos. Have been known to receive a champagne bottle neck too.....
The best orgasms.... |
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If you don't try, you'll never know if you like it!
It's an incredible experience when Kinkerbell pegs me - she's normally sub, so when she switches and fucks me, it's such an intense mixture of feelings. |
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