We have just fallen out with a so called friend. Now this friend thinks sex is something that you do to shut your husband up once or twice a year. This person knows that we go to a naturist club and had webcam fun and don't mind people watching us having fun. She thinks we do more....
We now she's she's fallen out with us in a big way. Saying" I'd be carefull if I were you." And calling us perverts.... We didn't know she knew us that well...lol
The problem is we both have jobs that would take a very very dim view of our hobby....
Sorry just needed to sound off.....
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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What brought things to a head then ?
Why after all this time has she decided that she finds your 'hobby' offensive ?
Why do you think she would cause issues for you work wise ? |
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im not sure that work can dictate how u spend ur free recreational time or even comment or pass judgement on it unless u are bringing disrepute onto ur employer by ur activities .. anyway .. hope it all works out for u |
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It all started over something small as it usually does. She thinks that if she says anything she is being honest. If any one says anything to her they are rude, opinionated, up their own arse... She sent Frisky a text message and Frisky took action on that txt. Now she is calling Frisky a liar. Frisky kept the txt so can prove it.
I work for a company who look down on things like this as a blackmail risk and Frisky works with a lot of very intolerant people. It was the threat that we'd better be carefull followed by the perverted life style comment that had me worried.... She won't have a face to face but will rant on facebk having blocked us... It's her usual method of attack.... |
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"It all started over something small as it usually does. She thinks that if she says anything she is being honest. If any one says anything to her they are rude, opinionated, up their own arse... She sent Frisky a text message and Frisky took action on that txt. Now she is calling Frisky a liar. Frisky kept the txt so can prove it.
I work for a company who look down on things like this as a blackmail risk and Frisky works with a lot of very intolerant people. It was the threat that we'd better be carefull followed by the perverted life style comment that had me worried.... She won't have a face to face but will rant on facebk having blocked us... It's her usual method of attack.... "
as long as you dont bring the companies into disrepute there cant be a problem, would be highly illegal, plus, of anyone says anything, just deny it, she dont have any proof??? |
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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago
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"It all started over something small as it usually does. She thinks that if she says anything she is being honest. If any one says anything to her they are rude, opinionated, up their own arse... She sent Frisky a text message and Frisky took action on that txt. Now she is calling Frisky a liar. Frisky kept the txt so can prove it.
I work for a company who look down on things like this as a blackmail risk and Frisky works with a lot of very intolerant people. It was the threat that we'd better be carefull followed by the perverted life style comment that had me worried.... She won't have a face to face but will rant on facebk having blocked us... It's her usual method of attack.... "
She uses Facebook to do this? Very adolescent. Probably not the best friend to have. |
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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago
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Regardless of this lady's threats and what ever jobs you do ... you've done nothing illegal or immoral and you haven't harmed anyone.
You have no need for self reproach and this lady has no ammunition.
Chill, if she knows you're not worried she'll soon realise that she'll soon re-evaluate her standing. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Regardless of this lady's threats and what ever jobs you do ... you've done nothing illegal or immoral and you haven't harmed anyone.
You have no need for self reproach and this lady has no ammunition.
Chill, if she knows you're not worried she'll soon realise that she'll soon re-evaluate her standing." |
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We're keeping quiet. If she keeps on sending txts or facebook bullying we'll report her for harasment. I don't think it will go that far as she won't want a face to face confrontation, and our children go to the same school, so she sees us every day. |
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