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Okay so hear me out - single men get enough scorn for their choice of photos, but I'm quite stunned at the pics of some female halves of couples too.
It's not about size or age, it's about taking pride in your self, in hopes others will find you sexy too.... basically don't understand the lack of effort sometimes  |
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"Fully agree. Just smile, put some lippy on. Some look utterly depressed "
I felt so bad because I couldn't put it into words!! I'm glad it makes sense. I don't post anything I wouldn't find attractive myself |
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"Blimey, have we invented picture shaming?
Makes a change for it to not just be about blokes too late for me to delete this unfortunately so I'll take my flogging "
No flogging here. It sounded a bit "my pictures are better than yours" but maybe that's not what you meant  |
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"I totally agree with you OP surely eve needs to put some effort in when posting pics x
This is what I mean, we want people to match our effort x"
Exactly x |
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"Blimey, have we invented picture shaming?
Makes a change for it to not just be about blokes too late for me to delete this unfortunately so I'll take my flogging
No flogging here. It sounded a bit "my pictures are better than yours" but maybe that's not what you meant "
Not at all, it was worded quite poorly and should have kept it to myself  |
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"Blimey, have we invented picture shaming?
Makes a change for it to not just be about blokes too late for me to delete this unfortunately so I'll take my flogging
No flogging here. It sounded a bit "my pictures are better than yours" but maybe that's not what you meant
Not at all, it was worded quite poorly and should have kept it to myself "
Nah don't be silly, I think it was me taking it the wrong way (ooer )
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"Blimey, have we invented picture shaming?
Makes a change for it to not just be about blokes too late for me to delete this unfortunately so I'll take my flogging
No flogging here. It sounded a bit "my pictures are better than yours" but maybe that's not what you meant
Not at all, it was worded quite poorly and should have kept it to myself
Nah don't be silly, I think it was me taking it the wrong way (ooer )
Mr"
Pmsl nowt worse than taking it the wrong way!!!
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Men, women, couples, we all have pics that'll appeal to some and not others, what one considers lack of effort may not be the case, I'd rather a messy floor than a dripping cock/vag close up.
Each to their own, variety is the spice of life.
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"Men, women, couples, we all have pics that'll appeal to some and not others, what one considers lack of effort may not be the case, I'd rather a messy floor than a dripping cock/vag close up.
Each to their own, variety is the spice of life.
Mrs "
Well said! I see what you mean x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Fully agree. Just smile, put some lippy on. Some look utterly depressed
Whoops, sorry I was trying to look sultry lol. I do in reality smile alot."
OMG your pics are perfect. Just wish we were friends so we could see more. Or even better, let me have you in my arms pressed against my tits mmm Gayle xx |
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Not everyone may be endowed with perma-smiles and moods, and it's surely better to be natural than forced. People share their experiences on cam and you are free to look or not to enter the private shared worlds of others. Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people anyway. |
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Takes nothing to smile. Surely the whole point is to attract others. People gravitat to people who look fun, laughing and enjoying themselves. If you stand there looking miserable you portray somebody who does not really want this, is not interested or turned on. |
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"Not everyone may be endowed with perma-smiles and moods, and it's surely better to be natural than forced. People share their experiences on cam and you are free to look or not to enter the private shared worlds of others. Most people are not mutually compatible with most other people anyway. "
This is true! |
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"Takes nothing to smile. Surely the whole point is to attract others. People gravitat to people who look fun, laughing and enjoying themselves. If you stand there looking miserable you portray somebody who does not really want this, is not interested or turned on. "
It smacks of wanting to receive that good energy etc but not being inclined to give it in return...maybe I'm just overthinking! |
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" We quite agree !! and not really into nether region pictures of any sex though and much prefer the more subtle approach "
Yes, I deleted a couple more explicit pics of myself as felt it wasn't necessary - Xeno x |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"Okay so hear me out - single men get enough scorn for their choice of photos, but I'm quite stunned at the pics of some female halves of couples too.
It's not about size or age, it's about taking pride in your self, in hopes others will find you sexy too.... basically don't understand the lack of effort sometimes "
This is definitely a thread about picture shaming. You say later down the thread that you expect others to match your efforts, that comes across as very entitled and rude. Why not stop digging the hole?
If you don't like people's pictures, then just pass their profiles by. .
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"Okay so hear me out - single men get enough scorn for their choice of photos, but I'm quite stunned at the pics of some female halves of couples too.
It's not about size or age, it's about taking pride in your self, in hopes others will find you sexy too.... basically don't understand the lack of effort sometimes
This is definitely a thread about picture shaming. You say later down the thread that you expect others to match your efforts, that comes across as very entitled and rude. Why not stop digging the hole?
If you don't like people's pictures, then just pass their profiles by. .
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Jesus Christ I said further up I wish I could delete it.... |
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Whatever you say in here will piss somebody of. However, this is a forum to debate any and every aspect of swinging. Pictures are without doubt one of the most important things and so should be discussed.I hardly think a generalise comment about a simple smile with NO REFERENCE TO ANYONE can be called picture shaming. For God's same why so precious? It's just chat. |
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"Whatever you say in here will piss somebody of. However, this is a forum to debate any and every aspect of swinging. Pictures are without doubt one of the most important things and so should be discussed.I hardly think a generalise comment about a simple smile with NO REFERENCE TO ANYONE can be called picture shaming. For God's same why so precious? It's just chat."
I would never dream of referencing anyone, or saying anything directly to them. It would break my heart if I thought I'd offended someone! It really wasn't my intention, just wanted to discuss x |
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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago
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"Men, women, couples, we all have pics that'll appeal to some and not others, what one considers lack of effort may not be the case, I'd rather a messy floor than a dripping cock/vag close up.
Each to their own, variety is the spice of life.
Mrs "
Exactly. The choices that people make when posting photos to their profile say a lot more about them than what they write in their profile. |
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By *ikilovesCCouple
over a year ago
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"Whatever you say in here will piss somebody of. However, this is a forum to debate any and every aspect of swinging. Pictures are without doubt one of the most important things and so should be discussed.I hardly think a generalise comment about a simple smile with NO REFERENCE TO ANYONE can be called picture shaming. For God's same why so precious? It's just chat.
I would never dream of referencing anyone, or saying anything directly to them. It would break my heart if I thought I'd offended someone! It really wasn't my intention, just wanted to discuss x"
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Don't worry about it Op, you were making a comment not trying to offend anybody and we can see that  |
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By *inaTitzTV/TS
over a year ago
Titz Towers, North Notts |
Some pics are unfortunate and you feel the poster might have thought twice.
Things such as:
A room that looks as if the health and safety would shut it down due to mess and muck.
A cock over an unflushed toilet.
Someone stood with their back to their living room wall, one with a framed certificate that shows their full name on.
Pants pulled down, but showing a skid mark. |
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