FabSwingers.com > Forums > Swingers Chat > Anyone else given up on porn?
Anyone else given up on porn?
Jump to: Newest in thread
Has anyone else lost interest in porn?
I mean, we still watch it together, but that feels completely different. And Alice watches it on her own, but if it's just me it pretty much bores me these days.
And I honestly think that my "performance" in the bedroom has improved, but that could just be subjective.
Anyone else here in the same boat? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
 |
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Aye, there’s an over saturation of it now on t’internet and it kind of becomes a little boring to be honest.
Back in the day, pre-internet (yes, Fabsters, I’m THAT old!) it was harder to access and seemed more erotic. Now it’s a bit meh.
I can easily shut off from it for weeks.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
The TV/TS stuff is quite boring on the majority of sites. Occasionally something good appears but it’s rare.
I quite enjoy the Japanese TV porn (JAV) but even that stuff is pixelated around the good stuff. So I generally find myself enjoying erotic fiction, my imagination filling in the gaps.  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *ribsaMan
over a year ago
A box at end of your bed |
I would not say I'm off porn but I don't find it as much of a turn on as it used to be. As someone already said back in the day before the internet a good titty mag was about all you got so anything more like a VHS porn video was amazing. Now it's just there 24/7 so I find not the same excitement anymore. But when I do look for porn now it's more tailored to my taste. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Aye, there’s an over saturation of it now on t’internet and it kind of becomes a little boring to be honest.
Back in the day, pre-internet (yes, Fabsters, I’m THAT old!) it was harder to access and seemed more erotic. Now it’s a bit meh.
I can easily shut off from it for weeks. "
Ah, yes! As a fresh faced 16yr old myself and my boyfriend used to cycle VHS porno tapes with our mates. Then came the invention of dirty dvds and it was a whole new world! I still have a few that I've kept for nostalgia purposes |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I've not given up on porn x im still a porn lover. I love to flick through the categories until i cum accross one that makes me the most horniest lol. Surely im not alone in the porno fraternity lol  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
The only porn that gets me going nowadays is our own private viewing only videos. Especially ones she brings home after she been with her special friend. I think it's because I feel a connection,
And I know it's real. I know she is really enjoying it because she wouldn't do it if she didn't. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Yea I did. Well I am still at an early stage as I haven’t watched anything still august (expect on fab) but I don’t purposely go on a porn site and look for video to have a wank over.
But so far so good. I feel much better without it and had my first wank without it and… well never thought I’d say that one day and feel a bit vulnerable, but it felt lovely , it was good to reconnect with my body without the noise of porn. I was with myself for myself.
|
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Thanks for your responses, folks.
Has anyone else noticed (or perceived) a difference in their "performance" since engaging with porn less often?"
Realising that maybe I gave you information for your next book! |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
So much new porn is made in America and Eastern Europe and it’s all the same and based on the usual scenarios. I think Brit porn is some of the best out there but there is very little new stuff coming out post Ben Dover era |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *rbifunMan
over a year ago
exeter |
"Has anyone else lost interest in porn?
I mean, we still watch it together, but that feels completely different. And Alice watches it on her own, but if it's just me it pretty much bores me these days.
And I honestly think that my "performance" in the bedroom has improved, but that could just be subjective.
Anyone else here in the same boat?"
I just find it so fake and mostly boring, and I used to be obsessed with it.
I much prefer people's photos and videos on here, and cams, the reality of it is much more of a turn on. I also love my locked gallery on my phone which is full of photos and videos of my fun with the wife/others. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *arkjackMan
over a year ago
West Cork |
"Has anyone else lost interest in porn?
I mean, we still watch it together, but that feels completely different. And Alice watches it on her own, but if it's just me it pretty much bores me these days.
And I honestly think that my "performance" in the bedroom has improved, but that could just be subjective.
Anyone else here in the same boat?"
Come to same conclusion.
Avoid it now most of the time. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
"I just find it so fake and mostly boring, and I used to be obsessed with it.
I much prefer people's photos and videos on here, and cams, the reality of it is much more of a turn on. I also love my locked gallery on my phone which is full of photos and videos of my fun with the wife/others. "
I used to be obsessed with it too. I wouldn't say I was addicted, but it was definitely a problem. I don't really know how I got away from that either!
And, yeah, I would much rather peruse my secure folder!  |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Has anyone else lost interest in porn?
I mean, we still watch it together, but that feels completely different. And Alice watches it on her own, but if it's just me it pretty much bores me these days.
And I honestly think that my "performance" in the bedroom has improved, but that could just be subjective.
Anyone else here in the same boat?"
Porn is boring . I used to have a porn club bu age of 12 . The wrong and naughty was exciting .
I don’t like FM porn . Can’t stand it any more .
Love FF porn . Used to watch ladies on cam a few years back
Is all boring waste of time now .
I am better and more happy being the action man then the watcher
Same as drinking massively … is all done … no more big fuzz about it .
Miss the company tho  could do with that . |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"We still watch porn but I, Willow cannot stand all the false noises, spoils it. "
Last few years ( 3 years ago ) I used to watch FF or web cam masturbating was always on mute . Not just the audio is off puttin certain expressions is far to fake for it .
Find amateur broadcast more exciting |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
"Much prefer watching vids we've made with each other or other people... turns me on remembering it all.
Porn sites are pretty boring"
Same . If I’m the porn star with a lover is cool rest is crap ha ha
Exactly this |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Zero interest in it. It was briefly a curiosity years ago but it bores me now.
Couldn't tell you when I last watched it. Tbh my own imaginings and flashbacks to recent fun are more than hot enough to fuel any solo play sessions |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
Same, feels oversaturated. Mrs fox does extra stuff herself online but even she's bored of producing the stuff too as she's always seeing it! Think we'll detox for a bit haha |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Not really a desire for it even though it is instantly accessible and caters for every desire. I think for me it's a mixture of being very busy and having an active frequent sex life. I don't need it to get horny. And when I get the horn I don't need it to get off because I'm already horny as a product of my imagination.
I suppose it doesn't help that I find a lot of porn terrible anyways. And on the point of porn is there a law that says in Clubs only terrible cringy porn is allowed to be shown? |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
|
I go through phases of watching it alot and then not at all, and I'm in a not at all phase atm.
I think flirting with gorgeous sexy women is alot more sexy. Also I've been on a porn set (not acting) and it really isn't as hot as it looks or sounds |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
Porn doesnt do much for me anymore, think thats more due to lack of real sex as I use it to help me remember those amazing nights I've had in the past.... now those are mostly so far back they are fuzzy |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *arkjackMan
over a year ago
West Cork |
"I gave up on porn a long time ago, far too much choking going on nowadays "
Choking seems like a sexual convenience food way to feel control loss, it works, but the nutrition of being sincerely fucked isn't always going to be there.. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *arkjackMan
over a year ago
West Cork |
"My interest is waning. For me to get really excited it has to be pretty niche these days. Amateur, real credible is needed to push my buttons"
That's the way it goes, then you'll sputter out and mostly drop it, reckon this happens to a lot of men. A real physical fuck. Can't be duplicated with 2D women. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
|
By *arkjackMan
over a year ago
West Cork |
"We are becoming desensitised to it. If there is always biscuits in the biscuits tin, where's the fun in biscuits xx
Prefer Hob Nobs to Rich Tea anyday
Chocolate ones though"
Smother them in whipped cream, that is the key.
Also an open invitation for femalekind to be resurfaced with careful applications of whipped cream, chocolate and strawberries. That is also The Way.
P.S. Totes d*unk but also super serious. |
Reply privately, Reply in forum +quote
or View forums list | |
» Add a new message to this topic
