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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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What do guys really think curvy means? Is it just a polite way of saying a woman is overweight? Dont you think theres a difference between a big curvy bum and a big wobbly bum?
Have you ever been put off by women with wobbly tums, stretch marks, scars etc?
I'm confused by the word curvy and don't really believe guys when they say they like curvy girls. Surely they mean curvy like the Holly Willoughbys of this world not someone who is overweight?
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By *i015Man
over a year ago
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I think curvy women are women that aren't skin & bones, to me if a woman has a figure that has wobbly bits and shape then she's curvy.
I'd class both Holly Willoughbys & Dawn French as curvy |
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By *onybloMan
over a year ago
Northampton |
I have read terms like curvy and BBW in profiles and the pics of all the women are different with some of the curvy ones being bigger than some who class themselves as BBW.
I do prefer a woman with a nice shape and that does include curves generally where they should be and I haven't been put off by women with wobbly tums, boobs that point mostly southwards, stretch marks or scars so far
Josie your figure looks fantastic and I wish I were a few years younger to fit into your age preference
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The term is open to huge personal interpretation ... curvy to me is, say somewhere between Nigela Lawson or Liza Tarbuck - although my definition of it wavers at times.
It's incredibly subjective and not easily answered. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I think now days curvy is a polite way of saying fat
Lots of men like big women, they just dont want to call a fat woman fat because whos going to meet someone whos just called you fat? there for they say they like curvy women as it just sounds politer. means the same tho wether you call it, big, curvy, fat or voluptuous |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I am a big girl, BBW, fat, overweight, and whatever other lable is out there to describe women who are not size 10/12/14, and yes I do have curves but I would never class myself as curvy. Curvy is someone, who regardless of their dress size, has a distinct size difference between their bust, waist and hip measurements. Marilyn Munroe was curvy, Dawn French(pre weightloss) wasn't. Anyway thats just my twopence worth. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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But when guys say they like curvy are they meaning figures like Nicole Scherzinger and Holly Willoughby? To me they are certainly not overweight, just big boobs and rounded bums. Isn't that what guys want? I'm pretty sure they'd choose that figure over a wobbly overweight curvy figure?! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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"I think now days curvy is a polite way of saying fat
Lots of men like big women, they just dont want to call a fat woman fat because whos going to meet someone whos just called you fat? there for they say they like curvy women as it just sounds politer. means the same tho wether you call it, big, curvy, fat or voluptuous"
Do you really think lots of men like big women? If they had the choice between a slim, model like figure and an overweight one, wouldn't they choose the slim one every time? |
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"But when guys say they like curvy are they meaning figures like Nicole Scherzinger and Holly Willoughby? To me they are certainly not overweight, just big boobs and rounded bums. Isn't that what guys want? I'm pretty sure they'd choose that figure over a wobbly overweight curvy figure?!"
Thats exactly it curvy is hourglass figure girls like beyounce and holy |
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"I think now days curvy is a polite way of saying fat
Lots of men like big women, they just dont want to call a fat woman fat because whos going to meet someone whos just called you fat? there for they say they like curvy women as it just sounds politer. means the same tho wether you call it, big, curvy, fat or voluptuous
Do you really think lots of men like big women? If they had the choice between a slim, model like figure and an overweight one, wouldn't they choose the slim one every time?"
Why is it so hard to believe that people would like someone who us overweight? I know lots of guys who actively seek out overweight women. One even turned me down because I was not big enough!!!
Just because they dint appeal to you doesn't mean they aren't appealing to someone else. Why not concentrate on the guys that like you and leave other people alone.
Bigger women have enough issues around confidence without people like you suggesting they are only getting a shag because the guys are desperate!!! |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I think you have taken it wrong...I have big issues about my size, I'm not slim at all and was just trying to find out what a man really wants, I guess to make me feel better about myself.
I think lots of guys would choose slim women over me any day.
Sorry I certainly didn't mean to offend...accept my apology? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think now days curvy is a polite way of saying fat
Lots of men like big women, they just dont want to call a fat woman fat because whos going to meet someone whos just called you fat? there for they say they like curvy women as it just sounds politer. means the same tho wether you call it, big, curvy, fat or voluptuous
Do you really think lots of men like big women? If they had the choice between a slim, model like figure and an overweight one, wouldn't they choose the slim one every time?"
Really???? Everyone I know has different preferences and thank God they do as we are all different. Long live diversity! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think now days curvy is a polite way of saying fat
Lots of men like big women, they just dont want to call a fat woman fat because whos going to meet someone whos just called you fat? there for they say they like curvy women as it just sounds politer. means the same tho wether you call it, big, curvy, fat or voluptuous
Do you really think lots of men like big women? If they had the choice between a slim, model like figure and an overweight one, wouldn't they choose the slim one every time?"
I wouldn't say so no, each have there own don't they, if u put David haye up against robert pattinson, I like hunky men but think Robert is sexier, and lots of other scenarios, you either fancy someone or you don't doesn't matter to.me really what size they are, not saying that because I do class myself as curvy I have had both end of the scales as used to be a tall gangly size 8 I feel and.look much better now the size I am  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I class myself as curvey, in as much as I have a shape, yes I have wobbly bits snd stretch marks from carrying my wonderful kids, so if people dont like me the way I am then its thier choice, and no loss to me. Just my view xx |
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By *onybloMan
over a year ago
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"I think you have taken it wrong...I have big issues about my size, I'm not slim at all and was just trying to find out what a man really wants, I guess to make me feel better about myself.
I think lots of guys would choose slim women over me any day.
I think you look amazing and I hope I haven't made you feel you need to apoligise
Sorry I certainly didn't mean to offend...accept my apology?"
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Curvy doesn't mean fat but people do use it as a nice way of saying it sometimes.
As people have already said Holly Willoby and Beyonce are Curvy add Kim Kardishan as well  |
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"But when guys say they like curvy are they meaning figures like Nicole Scherzinger and Holly Willoughby? To me they are certainly not overweight, just big boobs and rounded bums. Isn't that what guys want? I'm pretty sure they'd choose that figure over a wobbly overweight curvy figure?!"
Maybe only beautiful people should be allowed on Fab?
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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You can give me a size 12/14/16/18 any day over a size 8 !
With regards to curves I look for a curvy arse e.g looking from the side and seeing it stick out , means it's curvy
If it's as flat as a pancake it ain't lol
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I think now days curvy is a polite way of saying fat
Lots of men like big women, they just dont want to call a fat woman fat because whos going to meet someone whos just called you fat? there for they say they like curvy women as it just sounds politer. means the same tho wether you call it, big, curvy, fat or voluptuous"
I class myself as curvy because I have boobs hips and a curvy bum so am I fat/overweight |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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No your perfect
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"I think now days curvy is a polite way of saying fat
Lots of men like big women, they just dont want to call a fat woman fat because whos going to meet someone whos just called you fat? there for they say they like curvy women as it just sounds politer. means the same tho wether you call it, big, curvy, fat or voluptuous
I class myself as curvy because I have boobs hips and a curvy bum so am I fat/overweight "
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"You can give me a size 12/14/16/18 any day over a size 8 !
With regards to curves I look for a curvy arse e.g looking from the side and seeing it stick out , means it's curvy
If it's as flat as a pancake it ain't lol
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All arses are curvy looking from the sides even yours !! Curvy means hourglass small hips looking at the person from the rear or front .. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can give me a size 12/14/16/18 any day over a size 8 !
With regards to curves I look for a curvy arse e.g looking from the side and seeing it stick out , means it's curvy
If it's as flat as a pancake it ain't lol
No they ain't lol !
All arses are curvy looking from the sides even yours !! Curvy means hourglass small hips looking at the person from the rear or front .."
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"I think now days curvy is a polite way of saying fat
Lots of men like big women, they just dont want to call a fat woman fat because whos going to meet someone whos just called you fat? there for they say they like curvy women as it just sounds politer. means the same tho wether you call it, big, curvy, fat or voluptuous
Do you really think lots of men like big women? If they had the choice between a slim, model like figure and an overweight one, wouldn't they choose the slim one every time?"
You have issues: deal with them, this is a site for people to have fun, not stroke the fragile egos of the needy: sorry to be harsh, but that's how I see it.
Some men like em slender, some men like em chuncky, some men just like em breathing: we know that.
If someone approaches you and they meet what you're looking for enjoy - we're not talking life partners here but a shag!  |
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"You can give me a size 12/14/16/18 any day over a size 8 !
With regards to curves I look for a curvy arse e.g looking from the side and seeing it stick out , means it's curvy
If it's as flat as a pancake it ain't lol
No they ain't lol !
So your arse is just completely flat when you look at yourself side on ? Hmmm
All arses are curvy looking from the sides even yours !! Curvy means hourglass small hips looking at the person from the rear or front .."
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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my idea of curvy was always a bodyshape. those women with the hourglass shape.
big ass/thighs accentuated by a small waist in comparison and top heavy as a bonus
people onhere have very different opinions on it but im sticking with mines  |
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"my idea of curvy was always a bodyshape. those women with the hourglass shape.
big ass/thighs accentuated by a small waist in comparison and top heavy as a bonus
people onhere have very different opinions on it but im sticking with mines "
Thats the curvy i know,so i'm with you |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can give me a size 12/14/16/18 any day over a size 8 !
With regards to curves I look for a curvy arse e.g looking from the side and seeing it stick out , means it's curvy
If it's as flat as a pancake it ain't lol
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My arse still sticks out and I am a size 6 so there!
These sweeping generalisations are how the OP is confused! |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"my idea of curvy was always a bodyshape. those women with the hourglass shape.
big ass/thighs accentuated by a small waist in comparison and top heavy as a bonus
people onhere have very different opinions on it but im sticking with mines "
That is me |
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By *andCCouple
over a year ago
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"I think you have taken it wrong...I have big issues about my size, I'm not slim at all and was just trying to find out what a man really wants, I guess to make me feel better about myself.
I think lots of guys would choose slim women over me any day.
Sorry I certainly didn't mean to offend...accept my apology?"
You are a beautiful and curvy woman; there are many of us who would definitely choose you over a slim woman ...and there are many that wouldn't. Begin to love yourself and you'll soon learn to be less concerned about the 'competition'. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a big girl, BBW, fat, overweight, and whatever other lable is out there to describe women who are not size 10/12/14, and yes I do have curves but I would never class myself as curvy. Curvy is someone, who regardless of their dress size, has a distinct size difference between their bust, waist and hip measurements. Marilyn Munroe was curvy, Dawn French(pre weightloss) wasn't. Anyway thats just my twopence worth."
Marilyn Monroe had my type of figure and Im slim, (size 10) but yes my waist is a lot smaller than my breasts and hips but I dont class myself as 'curvy' at all |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"I am a big girl, BBW, fat, overweight, and whatever other lable is out there to describe women who are not size 10/12/14, and yes I do have curves but I would never class myself as curvy. Curvy is someone, who regardless of their dress size, has a distinct size difference between their bust, waist and hip measurements. Marilyn Munroe was curvy, Dawn French(pre weightloss) wasn't. Anyway thats just my twopence worth.
Marilyn Monroe had my type of figure and Im slim, (size 10) but yes my waist is a lot smaller than my breasts and hips but I dont class myself as 'curvy' at all"
I do as still have curves in all the right places and I have a tiny waist lol
I didn't put myself down here as curvy on here, I am athletic and slim...couldn't choose all three |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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I love women of all shapes and sizes
But I am more attracted to women that are plus-sized and prefer a sexy curve to a boy-shape figure. Of course the hour-glass figure is one that would define curves but a pear-shaped figure is equally sexy
My preference is size 16 plus wide hips meaning wide bum, slimmer waist than hips and big boobs
But ther may and will disagree but we each have our own preference. One mans curvy is another mans large is another mans "fat"
The sexiest thing is a lady who is confident within her body and uses it as a tool of sexual desire.
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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i love women with curves they are real women!. i'm no oil painting myself and don't expect the people i meet to be. as long as we get on mentally the sex will be great |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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How we perceive ourselves and others perceive us as well.
I have no idea how to describe ourselves but we don't have big lumpy bits but neither are we slim. Mind compared to others we have seen our age I think we are in pretty good shape.
I also tend to think the type of girl who often looks best in clothes is often not the best when undressed: I defy any man on here to say he is more turned on by a fashion model type figure in comparison to a lingerie type figure!
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By (user no longer on site)
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"You can give me a size 12/14/16/18 any day over a size 8 !
With regards to curves I look for a curvy arse e.g looking from the side and seeing it stick out , means it's curvy
If it's as flat as a pancake it ain't lol
My arse still sticks out and I am a size 6 so there!
These sweeping generalisations are how the OP is confused! "
I didn't say size 6 ladies didn't have bootys lol
You can get larger ladies with flat butts !
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