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I don’t know what to say lool. I’ve been on here for 3 years. I’ve been active. Regularly update my status. I even posted a recent pic. I message girls/couples they don’t bother opening or replying. Anyone got any advice on how I can start a conversation with someone because I tried every card in the book and nothing works lmao. Any advice would be appreciated  |
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"Again I suggest going to a club, or a social. Easiest way to get verified. Plus you actually meet real people! For the most part they’re a friendly bunch too "
I’ve been to clubs to socialise it does work but I haven’t been verified and the parties that I went to on her well there’s more men than girls. Everyone gets occupied and eventually turns out to be a waste of my time. Any advice on messaging people? |
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Honestly, your profile comes off a bit Jay from Inbetweeners. Too many tall stories which are made even more implausible by the fact you look fresh out of junior school. Just dial it all back a notch. |
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"Again I suggest going to a club, or a social. Easiest way to get verified. Plus you actually meet real people! For the most part they’re a friendly bunch too
I’ve been to clubs to socialise it does work but I haven’t been verified and the parties that I went to on her well there’s more men than girls. Everyone gets occupied and eventually turns out to be a waste of my time. Any advice on messaging people?"
When you met at clubs did you ask if someone would be nice enough to verify you?
Just because you have been once clubs and social events are still your best route.
As for being a waste of your time... Well if you want guaranteed sex fab may not be the place for you.
Try looking at it as expansion of your social circle
I agree the profile could benefit some tweaking
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I’ve never actually thought about asking someone in clubs or social events for a verification. I just vibe with everyone. That never came to my head but would you mind helping me out with my profile. Maybe some advice that I could tweak? |
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"Can’t really dial the way I look “back a notch” especially. Was looking for advice not a reason to delete this platform but with that being said note taken. I don’t think this is for me. So thanks for your “advice”"
Sorry but you need to change your approach. Like me and other posters have said you're coming across way to strong and tinder swindler esque. |
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"I don’t know what to say lool. I’ve been on here for 3 years. I’ve been active. Regularly update my status. I even posted a recent pic. I message girls/couples they don’t bother opening or replying. Anyone got any advice on how I can start a conversation with someone because I tried every card in the book and nothing works lmao. Any advice would be appreciated "
Go to a social or visit a club |
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over a year ago
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"Honestly, your profile comes off a bit Jay from Inbetweeners. Too many tall stories which are made even more implausible by the fact you look fresh out of junior school. Just dial it all back a notch."
God bless you 
I'm having to check you haven't got in first as its usually pretty much on point. |
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"Again I suggest going to a club, or a social. Easiest way to get verified. Plus you actually meet real people! For the most part they’re a friendly bunch too
I’ve been to clubs to socialise it does work but I haven’t been verified and the parties that I went to on her well there’s more men than girls. Everyone gets occupied and eventually turns out to be a waste of my time. Any advice on messaging people?"
Did you not ask the club staff to verify you? |
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I wasn't referring to how you look, I was referring to all the unsubtle, crude references to how much monopoly money is in your wallet. In the real world, women aren't actually impressed by that kind of thing. The only men who think we are tend to be raging misogynists. |
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over a year ago
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"Again I suggest going to a club, or a social. Easiest way to get verified. Plus you actually meet real people! For the most part they’re a friendly bunch too
I’ve been to clubs to socialise it does work but I haven’t been verified and the parties that I went to on her well there’s more men than girls. Everyone gets occupied and eventually turns out to be a waste of my time. Any advice on messaging people?"
You have a verification.
If the profile text didn't put us off, the last line would.
*picks up book a clichés......
Writes profile.
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You mention Daddy/baby girl on your profile but your only 24 , your too young for that. Best advice is to get to a social and network/talk to people ask them politely if they would verify your account. |
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"I’ve never actually thought about asking someone in clubs or social events for a verification. I just vibe with everyone. That never came to my head but would you mind helping me out with my profile. Maybe some advice that I could tweak?"
Remove the book a flight, sugar daddy/girl, and the part that you say you've videos of girls you've bedded, that's all off putting (for me anyway), but good luck at least you have 1 veri albeit a webcam one  |
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OP I don’t give messaging advice because everyone is different in what they like.
What I will say is don’t put all your hopes on here. At your age you should be out talking to people face to face in bars and clubs. That will give you better life experience than (possibly) not getting replies to your messages and giving your confidence a kicking on here.
Whatever you do in the future I wish you every success |
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Thank you so much for the advice I can agree that line is abit too much but to be honest who doesn’t love a good holiday haha but I’ve removed it now and to everyone thinking I’m just floating my cash out it’s not like that I’m just one of those guys that likes to make things special |
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"Thank you so much for the advice I can agree that line is abit too much but to be honest who doesn’t love a good holiday haha but I’ve removed it now and to everyone thinking I’m just floating my cash out it’s not like that I’m just one of those guys that likes to make things
special"
If you use the reply + quote we'll know who you're replying too |
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"Thank you so much for the advice I can agree that line is abit too much but to be honest who doesn’t love a good holiday haha but I’ve removed it now and to everyone thinking I’m just floating my cash out it’s not like that I’m just one of those guys that likes to make things
special
If you use the reply + quote we'll know who you're replying too "
Yeah I’m still kind of new to using the forum section but for future references I’ll be sure to quote the individual. :^D |
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"Thank you so much for the advice I can agree that line is abit too much but to be honest who doesn’t love a good holiday haha but I’ve removed it now and to everyone thinking I’m just floating my cash out it’s not like that I’m just one of those guys that likes to make things special"
Women can afford to pay for our own holidays. To be honest, letting a man I don't know fly me out to god knows where just sounds like a brilliant way to get trafficked, ra ped or killed. |
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"Thank you so much for the advice I can agree that line is abit too much but to be honest who doesn’t love a good holiday haha but I’ve removed it now and to everyone thinking I’m just floating my cash out it’s not like that I’m just one of those guys that likes to make things special
Women can afford to pay for our own holidays. To be honest, letting a man I don't know fly me out to god knows where just sounds like a brilliant way to get trafficked, ra ped or killed. "
I’ve just amended it. I can see why it could come across as triggering |
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By *TG3Man
over a year ago
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"Again I suggest going to a club, or a social. Easiest way to get verified. Plus you actually meet real people! For the most part they’re a friendly bunch too "
don't you think clubs or socials are a bit daunting for a young person especially socials where most people huddle together in groups of people they already know and don't interact  |
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Hi - I think a poster above said, at 25 you should be really being out there in the real world with your friends chatting up girls in bars and clubs. Rather than being online only - maybe you do this as well? Anyway, good luck. |
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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago
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"I have just reread your profile after commenting on it the other day.... Its 100% better x"
Yes I totally agree!
Good luck OP.
As for advice on messages, I personally enjoy those that just want to chat about random stuff. I and probably a large percentage of women on here are so bored with anything relating to sex.
You seem intelligent, able to converse. Your age and your ethnicity do work against you, but at least you can age! 
I don’t agree with those that have racial preferences, but it would be dishonest to say that many don’t have them. |
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