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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago
Newcastle |
You need to ask yourself, if nobody knows what you may look like how would they know if they find you appealing. What do you look for or expect to see from others before you send them a message. It goes both ways. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?"
I wouldn’t even open your message as I delete all blank profile messages without bothering to even look at your profile….  |
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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago
Stourbridge (West-Mids) |
Sort your pics and profile bio out, then get yourself meet verified by attending a club or social.
Sometimes there are open guest lists that make it easier for non members to attend clubs, for example there are BBW and birthday party guest lists currently in the forms for Chameleons Darlaston |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Nobody bothered with blank profiles.
Why when you can just jump onto the next
No body bothered with mine either and it’s not blank  "
Get yourself on the Northants social list, it's on every few months
Same for you OP, get along to an organised group social |
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Follow the advice given by previous posters but also lower your expectations. Just based on the disproportionate number of males alone your chances of a meet are instantly reduced. No one is entitled to anything on here.  |
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"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?"
Add some photos, write a better profile and be more patient.
Why were you expecting people to msg you? They can't even see who they would be messaging.  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can I stand out? Can you help me?"
You have to be you, your profile has to portray you as a person, it can't come from anyone else.
I don't have an exciting profile but it's what I wrote. I have meets now and again but hardly often. Just the way it is for some of us |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"How can I stand out? Can you help me?"
There's 100 single males for every single female or couple on here as its a swinging website site.
As many of said your profile is a blank avatar with zero pictures 99.9% will delete before reading.
Start with pictures set to public and a profile picture. You don't need to show your face but some good body pictures so people get a sense of you is a start. If you put a cock picture a decent erect picture including your body in the shot is the way to go only have 1 or 2 max.
Also address what the reasons are that you can't accommodate in your profile as many take "can't accommodate" as
a sign that your cheating although you will get more leway due to your age than a man in his 30s 40s might.
Finally look at clubs in your local area and social events Fab is just one tool in the box and if your serious about swinging then get yourself involved in the scene.
If your just hoping for a quick shag with little effort then I'd try a different website.
Good luck
KJ x
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Maybe try looking for other single dudes in your predicament.
Not many women desperate or not would be enthused at the prospect of chatting to a blank profile. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Is my profile better or what else can I do?
Looks ok to me but I'm not your target audience. 
Why are you orange in your profile pic? 
That’s a filter I think lol. And how you been xx"
Good. x |
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Do you live with your parents?
Get rid of the stuff about not having a six pack or whatever. Don't apologise for something you aren't, it conveys insecurity. Whatever you are, own it.
Also get rid of the line about being mature for your age. You probably aren't, and if someone wants maturity, they aren't looking for it from a 23 year old.
Photos aren't great, get rid of the blurry filters and stickers. |
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"Do you live with your parents?
Get rid of the stuff about not having a six pack or whatever. Don't apologise for something you aren't, it conveys insecurity. Whatever you are, own it.
Also get rid of the line about being mature for your age. You probably aren't, and if someone wants maturity, they aren't looking for it from a 23 year old.
Photos aren't great, get rid of the blurry filters and stickers."
She knows |
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"Do you live with your parents?
Get rid of the stuff about not having a six pack or whatever. Don't apologise for something you aren't, it conveys insecurity. Whatever you are, own it.
Also get rid of the line about being mature for your age. You probably aren't, and if someone wants maturity, they aren't looking for it from a 23 year old.
Photos aren't great, get rid of the blurry filters and stickers."
Done and going to add more pictures |
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You’ve got some good photos, although I would suggest a few more where you are smiling rather than frowning.
Your profile is OK, but remember this is a swinging site and the social side is important. Add a bit about your interests and the kind of person you are.
Go to socials and clubs, talk to people without any expectations for sex and get to know them.
Oh, and try referring to “women” rather than “females”. Saying “females” makes them sound like lab specimens rather than people.
If you’re just looking for a quick shag to the point that you’re frustrated and fed up after only a few months then this site really isn’t for you. |
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"You’ve got some good photos, although I would suggest a few more where you are smiling rather than frowning.
Your profile is OK, but remember this is a swinging site and the social side is important. Add a bit about your interests and the kind of person you are.
Thank you appreciate the response
Go to socials and clubs, talk to people without any expectations for sex and get to know them.
Oh, and try referring to “women” rather than “females”. Saying “females” makes them sound like lab specimens rather than people.
If you’re just looking for a quick shag to the point that you’re frustrated and fed up after only a few months then this site really isn’t for you."
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Your pics and profile are more suited to the book of face.
Your expectations are too high.
You’ll already have knocked out a lot of interest from your age and your pics.
Are you looking on the site for organised socials, clubs, cams?
It’s not the site that’s the problem when guys can’t get meets…it’s never the site.
K |
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By *oxy jWoman
over a year ago
somerset |
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but remember this is a swinging site and the social side is important.
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its a swinging site indeed but for as many who wants socials there are as many who dont but they are still swingers |
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"I try to cam so people can verify me but no one replies on cams.
What kind of messages are you posting in the chatrooms?"
I speak to them like ask them how they are and what they’re up to. And ask what they’re doing and what they want from this site x |
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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago
Peterborough / Stamford |
"I speak to them like ask them how they are and what they’re up to. And ask what they’re doing and what they want from this site x"
Can you imagine how many times we get asked stuff like that in an average day? Read people's profiles and find something actually interesting to ask about.
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"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?
Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person."
I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me? |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?
Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.
I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?"
Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple. |
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"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?
Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.
I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?
Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple."
What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?
Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.
I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?
Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.
What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx"
You need to read what I wrote again please. |
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"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?
Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.
I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?
Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.
What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx
You need to read what I wrote again please."
I wanna try clubs which is best? In midlands? X |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?
Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.
I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?
Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.
What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx
You need to read what I wrote again please."
Peg him |
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OP, the people giving you advice aren't giving you signs off interest and nobody here is going to hold your hand.
If you're that interested in the scene then go check out some clubs/socials, there's plenty of info on this site to where they are. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?
Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.
I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?
Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.
What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx
You need to read what I wrote again please.
I wanna try clubs which is best? In midlands? X"
I don't know as I haven't been to any in the Midlands. You can look at the club section on this site and read reviews. |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?
Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.
I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?
Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.
What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx
You need to read what I wrote again please.
Peg him"
I was thinking when he said the word 'anything' that he was being brave. This is a dangerous place to say "up for anything". Imagine having to do space docking because you said you'd do anything. Jeez. |
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"Literally been on this and no one wants to meet or reply. What shall I do?
Why rely on this site? Get out into the lifestyle in person.
I try to but where do I meet people like this. I literally can’t find them anywhere lol. Can you help me?
Clubs and organised social events. It really is that simple.
What age do you meet or would you wanna teach me? I’m young horny and up for anything xx
You need to read what I wrote again please.
I wanna try clubs which is best? In midlands? X
I don't know as I haven't been to any in the Midlands. You can look at the club section on this site and read reviews."
Thank you appreciate it |
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