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By *msmith OP Woman
over a year ago
bristol |
when getting messages from people, what do you look at? whats your 'screening' process?
for me:
1) height (personal preference)
2) face pic (either attached with the message or a public pic in the profile, i dont add friend just to see private pic. Friends are only for people i've met in real life)
3) any verifications on the profile, and the profiles of those who left the verifications are also checked..
4) content of the message. interesting and/or creative messages usually gets a reply.
getting through all that, gets my attention. i usually dont like too much messages back and forth, prefer meeting right up SOCIALLY, much easier to get to know people in real life.. only then i decide if i want to play or not, because from experience, pictures can be deceiving and guys almost always dont know how to measure.. 
but this means that i wont meet people who is not local to me since i wouldnt want to travel far only to meet and there's not mutual attraction. and similiarly, i wouldnt want others to travel just to meet only for me to say, sorry, you're not my type..
take away message from this:
face pic!
happy swinging! |
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over a year ago
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"when getting messages from people, what do you look at? whats your 'screening' process?
for me:
1) height (personal preference)
2) face pic (either attached with the message or a public pic in the profile, i dont add friend just to see private pic. Friends are only for people i've met in real life)
3) any verifications on the profile, and the profiles of those who left the verifications are also checked..
4) content of the message. interesting and/or creative messages usually gets a reply.
getting through all that, gets my attention. i usually dont like too much messages back and forth, prefer meeting right up SOCIALLY, much easier to get to know people in real life.. only then i decide if i want to play or not, because from experience, pictures can be deceiving and guys almost always dont know how to measure..
but this means that i wont meet people who is not local to me since i wouldnt want to travel far only to meet and there's not mutual attraction. and similiarly, i wouldnt want others to travel just to meet only for me to say, sorry, you're not my type..
take away message from this:
face pic!
happy swinging!"
Exactly the same and in the same order as you too  |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Read the message,if its text speak just Delete and block.
Then pics (no pics delete it)
Then veris
We will reply if we think there a chance of meeting
Had a few messages off some stunning Irish couples but we are never going there.
Actually don't get that many messages so will reply to most haha |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"when getting messages from people, what do you look at? whats your 'screening' process?
for me:
1) height (personal preference)
2) face pic (either attached with the message or a public pic in the profile, i dont add friend just to see private pic. Friends are only for people i've met in real life)
3) any verifications on the profile, and the profiles of those who left the verifications are also checked..
4) content of the message. interesting and/or creative messages usually gets a reply.
getting through all that, gets my attention. i usually dont like too much messages back and forth, prefer meeting right up SOCIALLY, much easier to get to know people in real life.. only then i decide if i want to play or not, because from experience, pictures can be deceiving and guys almost always dont know how to measure..
but this means that i wont meet people who is not local to me since i wouldnt want to travel far only to meet and there's not mutual attraction. and similiarly, i wouldnt want others to travel just to meet only for me to say, sorry, you're not my type..
take away message from this:
face pic!
happy swinging!"
I dont look at veris to be honest. I like a nice classy photo a cheeky profile and honesty x |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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Content of message
Profile
Pics
I would not hesitate to hit the block button if the message is dire, whether he looks like a Greek god or hung like a horse or not!
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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good thread
For me its ;
How they come across in their profile and if their Personality stands out
Content of profile; ie more than a one liner
Pictures -but fed up of genitalia; give me nice body shot any day
Length of time on site vs Verifications; I think both should be linked in some way
Last thing; being what is said when they contact me -
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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It's been a while since I got a message but if I remember rightly
Read the message, if it's dull - delete
If it's not too dull, look for a face-pic - if none attached, check the profile - if none on show - delete
If it's really NOT dull, and still no face pic, but a decent profile, I will answer, asking for a face pic.
I'm not toooo bothered about the veris, and I always forget to check the height! but if I fancy them, and they can actually chat without me losing the will to live then I would try to arrange a social meet. |
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By (user no longer on site)
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Read the message, if it's dull - delete
If it's not too dull, look for a face-pic - if none attached, check the profile - if none on show - delete
If it's really NOT dull, and still no face pic, but a decent profile, I will answer, asking for a face pic.
I'm not toooo bothered about the veris, and I always forget to check the height! but if I fancy them, and they can actually chat without me losing the will to live then I would try to arrange a social meet. "
This for me |
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By *msmith OP Woman
over a year ago
bristol |
safe to say, that the take away message is: FACE PIC..
almost all the people i've met were based on face pic. some were based on veris, the veris tells me that they have done few meets and have enjoyed the lifestyle and not just here for a quick fix.. some i chatted on the phone and they seem nice. one guy i met through fab webcam chat (still seeing this one)..
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By (user no longer on site)
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"safe to say, that the take away message is: FACE PIC..
almost all the people i've met were based on face pic. some were based on veris, the veris tells me that they have done few meets and have enjoyed the lifestyle and not just here for a quick fix.. some i chatted on the phone and they seem nice. one guy i met through fab webcam chat (still seeing this one)..
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agreed...now can I send u a message?..but wait till I change my height on the profile first |
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By *mileyBWoman
over a year ago
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Usually too excited and bouncing up and down in my chair clapping my wee handies to care much beyond reading the message.
I'll check out all the above at leisure while chatting like you would in normal conversation - stays in my mind better with associated conversation rather than 'Hi I'm Mrs Lady Body and here's my CV' Hate the inter_iew technique. LOL |
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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago
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We look at face pic (hopefully attached to message)...read profile to see if we are suitable and there isn't a huge list of "don't contact us if's and we delete if not's..check verification's....we have been very lucky on the site and we meet the same people quite regularly so we generally don't bother with new meets... |
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