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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago
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I’m in a bind (yep, another one).
I can, with due planning, accommodate & happily put that on my profile - especially as single operators like me who can’t come off looking sketchy.
However, I’m curious to know - when a house is obviously a shared family home, with all the detritus that brings, what proportion of you find that a buzzkill? |
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By (user no longer on site)
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It wouldn't put me off as we have the same situation here. I just close all the doors to kids rooms. So as long as we aren't doing it amongst the soft toys or next to the high chair we are all good. |
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By (user no longer on site) OP
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"It wouldn't put me off as we have the same situation here. I just close all the doors to kids rooms. So as long as we aren't doing it amongst the soft toys or next to the high chair we are all good. "
Very reasonable indeed |
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"That would totally put me off. I won't go to someone's house if they have kids. Don't care if they aren't there.
Why’s that?  "
Because it's their home, their safe place. I find it disrespectful to bring a stranger back to fuck in their home. |
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"That would totally put me off. I won't go to someone's house if they have kids. Don't care if they aren't there.
Why’s that?
Because it's their home, their safe place. I find it disrespectful to bring a stranger back to fuck in their home."
I don't mind tbh
But I totally get this view point.
My little cousin lives with me and even if she wasn't out for the evening/night I wouldn't bring someone home unless it was a gf or bf |
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"That would totally put me off. I won't go to someone's house if they have kids. Don't care if they aren't there.
Why’s that?
Because it's their home, their safe place. I find it disrespectful to bring a stranger back to fuck in their home."
That’s fair enough |
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By (user no longer on site)
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"That would totally put me off. I won't go to someone's house if they have kids. Don't care if they aren't there.
Why’s that?
Because it's their home, their safe place. I find it disrespectful to bring a stranger back to fuck in their home.
I don't mind tbh
But I totally get this view point.
My little cousin lives with me and even if she wasn't out for the evening/night I wouldn't bring someone home unless it was a gf or bf "
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"That would totally put me off. I won't go to someone's house if they have kids. Don't care if they aren't there.
Why’s that?
Because it's their home, their safe place. I find it disrespectful to bring a stranger back to fuck in their home.
I don't mind tbh
But I totally get this view point.
My little cousin lives with me and even if she wasn't out for the evening/night I wouldn't bring someone home unless it was a gf or bf "
Did you mean if she was out for the night? I’m guessing so |
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My brother lives with me.
I'm fortunate in that he works away during the week, making accommodating fairly easy.
I dont have issues bringing my regular FWB back when he is there, but unlikely to accommodate anyone else.
And certainly won't accommodate when my niece stays. |
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Depends on the level of wreckage. No offence meant, just that children rarely have a concept of tidiness.
I prefer a tidy house and always scrub mine before a playdate. I can cope with some display of a family home, but would feel put off if it were a total kip shop, if you see what I mean? |
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"We have and will definitely meet others in their house regardless if they have kids.
We wouldn’t go round for a meet if the kids were still at home though. "
This is my feeling. I put ‘accom’ more to show willing than out of expectation of it being taken up. |
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